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LobotomizeMe

I'm mostly on this site to meet people. I am a sadist, but I've been that way for a while and haven't exploded from not expressing it directly or anything. Still, it's fun. I'd really love to be able to share that part of myself fully.

I identify as a geek. Take that as you will. My primary hobbies are reading, writing, D&D, World of Warcraft, biking, and exploring. I especially love exploring, from wilderness to old buildings. I love hiking around and taking pictures of run-down and pristine areas.

I also love gloomy things, for some reason: Graveyards, swamps, overcast days (stormy weather is a beach day, to me), spooky settings, old farms at night, and so on. For some reason these things speak to me. One reason might be because there are few people in those places. Not many people like a beach as a storm approaches.

As far as my physical self, I am naturally strong and built like a brick. For some reason, I don't lose muscle easily and it comes back even more easily. I am incredibly healthy and heavier than I look. I have a density that has served me well on road marches in the Army. They used to make me carry the heaviest stuff. I remember a 24-mile venture carrying the M60, spare barrel, tripod, full load of ammo, plus my own gear. You're supposed to have an assistant gunner to carry the spare parts. I lived and I am stronger for it, though. I joke that lifting and carrying stuff is my specialty.

I am married to my girl and devoted sub. We are both looking at exploring poly relationships. Friends are awesome too.

She is a caring submissive and is quite eager to find someone with whom to share what we have. We'd like to find someone into both of us, but it's definitely not required. We're honest and pretty forthcoming and don't hold much under judgment. So don't hesitate to contact me, if you have questions. Hell, I'd like to hear from people with any input.

We've been in this particular relationship (the D/s thing) for eight years but we've been married for a bit longer. We discovered that we both were hard-wired to this a while back, at least one to the other. We discovered our matching tendencies quite by accident. Funny how life works.

I need to get her a profile here, but she's pretty busy. And a bit of a slacker with this stuff. She's also shy.

I didn't really want to make this a "couple" profile, but that seems to be a little bit of what this is. I guess what I am trying to get across is that whatever happens, anyone involved with one of us has to be involved with both of us to some extent, even if it's just acknowledgment. Honesty, before much else.

We live in a crap town and will relocate soon.
YesSarah
 
 Age: 27
  Pennsylvania