A good friend of mine has a legit profile here.Why?I just don't know but I do think she's about ready to delete it. She's one of those glam types.You can spot her from a block away.Always impreccibly dressed and very well respected among her peers. So,we were chatting the other day and I was asking if she's had any success meeting anyone this way. There seems to be a very definitive pattern the most annoying to her,being the married "do me's" as she refers to them as. They engage her in polite and intelligent conversation,and when it progresses to a possible face to face,there seems to be a common M.O. of thses guys suddenly catching an extreme case of shyness. You know the kind. "Oh,I really couldn't possibly meet you in any kind of public place as I'm so intensely private about my "alternative"nature." They seem to be quite happy to meet VERY privately. Funny how that shy crap works... Now folks,I sincerely hope that you learn to weed out these "shy"folks and opt to pass on by them. Eventually,you too will learn their shyness stems from a disillusioned marriage where their spouse doesn't understand them and refuses to entertain their "alternative"leanings making it attractive to them to come to a site like this where there are legit folks trying not to pass in the night. These shy folks also seem to not realize that there are many a professional out there more than happy and well trained to take care of those "alternative"yearnings in a for fee enviroment. You know what happens when you bring up this wonder of capitalism to the shy folks? Well,seems they don't want to pay for it either.Yeah,I know...Shock surprise. They don't want to be seen with you in public,don't want to pay a pro,don't have any desire to invest any emotional or even sentimental value to their dealings with you,but they sure do want to get done and are more than enthusiastic to wax poetic on the topics they find titilating. Does this sound like you? Are you one of these worthless,useless self serving married assholes who cares about no one or nothing(certainly not the sanctity of your damn marriage)but your shy ass self? Oh yeah,and when you point out the shyness issue and the red flag it raises,they get real shy and turn to vapor. Anyone surprised? Beware the "shy guy".
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