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Each journey into the world of Dominance and submission is unique and will be extremely personal and intimate to anyone that decides to embark on such an endeavor. Being Dominant or submissive is a state of mind. It is not a sex act, it is a state of being.
It is not carrying a crop and barking orders. While it is easy to slap on a title, try to subdue submissives and impress others. Domination is a skill which, much like any other skill, must be learnt, grown and nurtured.
The first step is understanding that being a Dominant has nothing in common with being domineering, in fact one is a contradiction of the other. A Dominant does not rule arbitrarily, based on personal whim. A Dominant does not possess an unbridled supremacy or limitless power.
In my opinion a good Dominant has learned to
1. Accept responsibility for all His or Her actions. Admit the fact that you messed up. Everyone makes mistakes, do what is needed to make amends and correct it.
2. Always be honest. To lie is to show that you cannot be trusted and a submissive must be able to trust you to respect you. You may not get that submissive but you will gain his or her respect.
3. Watch over and protect all submissives. To teach the submissive ination about the Lifestyle. However, remember, One can ask if they need aid, but One cannot force them to accept that aid.
There are many other ways to illustrate the actions of a Dominant. But the actual acts of Dominance and Submission vary from couple to couple. Choose the behaviors that are comfortable for you and your partner.
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