Well, I received a very interesting message from someone on here that I had been absolutely respectful to and had asked if I may add them as a friend (even though said person was a Dominant female) for the sake of sharing ideas, networking and such.

 What i received in response was one of the rudest and most ill thought through replies I have ever had the displeasure of reading in all My time involved in the B.D.S.M. scene.

 Personally, I find a simple 'I'm not interested..' or some such response quite enough as I think that there is no need to be rude to S/someone you obviously have no idea about.

 Hmm, that said, maybe I should have just told her to go fuck herself. Not wanting to be rude, of course!! ;)