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Vexticy
Under Consideration. Please respect my privacy during this very challenging time.
2/17/2015 8:02:30 AM
I just have to vent a teeny bit- it disappoints me that many messages seem to be strictly about sex, people like me who look to be in 24/7 LTR's look at all aspects of D/s and wish to get to know the person they are committing themselves to- D/s takes commitment from both sides i commit myself to my Dom in all ways and He commits all of Himself to me, there are no lies, secrets, etc. and W/we discuss everything from the chores I am expected to do, to how W/we are each feeling, O/our innermost thoughts, fantasies, etc whether they might be bedroom oriented or simply dreams of how O/our seperate or mutual lives will be in the future.....it's not "hello take your clothing off....ok now I'm done see you later" (well perhaps in a role play/scene) and that's how I feel several people are when they message me dirty things without so much as a hello how are you, many people on here message me as if they are already my Dom, I respect all Doms rights to act as Doms but I feel I deserve to be treated as an individual until I have entered into an agreement with someone, with that being said I would also like to point out that I am a submissive and not a slave, I've gotten several messages beginning with "hello slave......" My profile clearly states that I am a sub and I believe there is a profound difference between a sub and a slave..... Anyway that is the end of my rant, if anyone is tempted to give constructive criticism/feedback or has any disagreement with what I've typed I'd love to hear what and why, i am always looking to learn. I apologize if any offense has been taken, I do not wish any of this to be taken disrespectfully.
2/2/2015 11:23:57 AM
I am currently involved with a Dom who doesn't have much experience and I'm trying to find sites W/we could research together, He has admitted to me that He has a fetish for watching His submissive get "used" by another man and/or woman or Dom, I'm not sure how other Doms take to that I would assume they would not be ok with sharing a sub or if I could handle meeting both Doms needs at the same time even if it's only for short periods of play only with Him as my 24/7, or if being shared is something I would like, I love to please my Dom but another part of me cringes at the thought of being shared I usually instantly say no... But the temptation of bringing Him that satisfaction in undeniably there....
dangerouslady
 
 Age: 34
  New Jersey