I have been in this lifestyle for over a year and been with one Dom. I am open minded and intelligent but also strong willed and can be hard headed. I don't give myself to just anyone, only like minded men who can be dominate in most areas of their life but are also strong enough to admit that at times they aren't. I like a gentle sensual soul who appreciates life and what it offers. I have a busy schedule studying 2 degrees, plus work and family; my Dom always comes first but not if it interferes with my professional career or family, although saying that if he has constructive advise I will always listen and then follow through. I need and desire a man who will take control and will make decisions, someone who will help mold me into the person I'm capable of being and in return servitude respect and if deserved my gift of total surrender. I'll never question and always be by his side or in the shadows if he prefers. I have a dark dry sarcastic sense of humor that not many understand and only a few appreciate. I am considered to be quite a dark moody person but who is giving and always there for even the people I dislike.