Happily married, but looking to explore my submissive side and darker fantasies. Looking for absolute discretion, online play (no video or phone though), maybe real time later. I like the idea of many things, but have explored few. I am not seeking to be controlled beyond play situations.
Well educated, British and fun loving. I travel a lot professionally within the US and internationally. My career is important to me. Although I travel a lot, I can not see my self traveling to meet someone (unless we happen to be in the same city). I live in Houston, but occasionally travel to the San Francisco Area, Bangkok, and Perth.
I'm not interested in men that are younger or shorter than me. I am seeking someone that I'm attracted to, can trust and respects me outside of play. I'm passionate and adventurous.
I'm intelligent, fit and attractive - and seek the same. Not seeking mature dom's.
5/21/2012 12:40:59 PM
THINGS I AM NOT APPRECIATING:
Having graphic photos sent to me (please be classy and clothed!)
Trying to call or video chat me, without asking first.
And the answer is 'no' by the way, without exception.
I am not interested in seeing you, or hearing from you, until we have chatted some, and I get a measure of the man.
I will let you know if I am ready to speak with you.
How scary it is trying to find a nice, respectful and trustworthy guy with a kinky/dom side?
(I know... WARNING - Read the label: Dominant men tend to be pushy!)
If you are overly possessive or pushy after a few days of chatting, I will politely extricate myself.
Telling persons I am not attracted to their photo.
I do not like to, or want to, hurt feelings, but I will try to politely tell you. Better sooner than later, right?
I believe attraction is important. I am fit and attractive and seek likewise (I am also looking for someone who is cultured and intelligent - but a photo can't tell u that).
5/21/2012 12:26:47 PM
Seems like there are a lot of very interested persons. Thank-you for your interest. I am trying to respond, but I know I've missed some of you. Apologies.