I was recently asked "what is it that you really want".... what a loaded question. I'm going to try to sum it up but obviously there will be more than just the few things I list below but these are the basics and are in no particular order.

1. Someone honest

2. Someone who knows that there is a time and place for everything

3. Someone who can be sadistic but can also be loving and tender when needed

4. Someone who realizes that life happens and there are things that are just beyond our control

5. Someone who will care for me and protect me

6. I would like to feel wanted and needed. To be a prized posession.

7. Someone who will understand that my submission does not come easily, that it must be earned and never taken for granted.

8. Someone I can look up to and be proud to call my Master and know that he is proud to have me as his sub

9. Someone who will be posessive of me, will be protective over me and will not allow anyone to play/touch me in an inappropriate manner without Him present.

10. Someone I can laugh with and enjoy quiet times with, just being together and enjoying the closeness we share.

I'm in a funk. I'm looking for something that probably doesnt exhist. I am ready for more than just a playmate, an occasional fling. I want something real. Something more. Something that will fulfill my needs not only as a sub but as a person.

I have met several people from various sites but either they were not looking for the same thing as me.

Some of the people I have met acted like they wanted more but when it came down to it... they only wanted a casual encounter.

I'm about to completely give up. Not only give up on finding someone who is into the lifestyle but give up on finding my "match" in general.

Ok, recent events have forced me to add a few more "rules"

1. If you think you can order me around or demand I do things within a couple of days of chatting, It isnt going to happen.

2. Dont bother asking for a pussy pic. That will get you blocked ASAP.

3. I dont do virtual collars or online relationships. I want the REAL THING.

I was scrolling thru some of the other profiles on here and came across one that made an impression on me. In it she states that she is the sub and any D-type that is interested should make the first move. I thought about this for several days and decided, she's right. Any Dom/Master that has an interest in getting to know me better should contact me, not wait for me to contact them.

So.... I guess I need to update my rules AGAIN!!

I am looking for a Long Term, Real Time Relationship.

If you are not local, please dont waste my time (or yours).

If you travel all the time for business/work/whatever and are out of town more than you are here, dont bother.

If you expect anything on the first meet/date... move along.

If you are just looking for playtime or sex... im not the girl for you.

If you are under 29 or over 49, you will go directly to my bulk mail.

If you do not live in GA, you will also go to my bulk mail.

Ok, more rules....

If you dont know the difference between dominant and dominate...please dont waste my time.

If you are just looking for a booty call or think that because I am a sub I will just bow down to you without getting to know you first.... move along

If you expect any play/sex on the first meet.... it's NOT going to happen.

If your idea of a "date" is to meet up somewhere and you either expect me to pay or we go dutch.... think back to how you were raised and what a gentileman is supposed to do (ie. hold doors, show respect and pay for dinner) It's not like I demand an expensive meal, shit coffee is usually under $5

If you are not local, please dont bother. If you have no intentions of actually meeting IRL, dont bother contacting me. I do not do the cyber thing, dont believe in "online relationships" and I am not going to relocate.