I expect to have a small room; my tastes are austere and my belongings simple and manageable.

 

I expect to pay a reasonable rent and reasonable share of utilities in exchange for the room.  In addition to being obedient and loyal I am generous and would be of help in any other way, financially, that I can.

 

I expect to buy and prepare my own food, although we may eat together occasionally.  I am no gourmet but I know my way around a kitchen and love to cook for others

 

I expect to always clean up after meals, whether I eat alone, with you, or with any other members of the house.  I am fanatical about a clean kitchen.  Do you have a dishwasher?  If not, you will the minute I step through the door; I have trouble getting to sleep if I know there's a dirty dish in the sink!  (J/k, I am not the bad, but i do prefer to wake up to a clean sink in the morning)

 

I expect to keep the bathroom(s) clean.  As fanatical as I am about a clean kitchen I am even more so about a clean bathroom.

 

I expect to handle other housework and yardwork: dusting, vacuuming, mopping, windows, grass cutting, raking, etc. 

 

I expect that you will be gone sometimes  on trips.  At those times I will continue to fulfill my duties with the same dilligence as if you were looking over my shoulder.

 

I expect I will also take occasional trips to visit my daughters.  Barring an emergency, I will plan these trips in advance and receive your permission.

 

I expect to do my laundry and hopefully yours and any future residents.   I know some people are very particular about their laundry, and you may be one of those people.  You may want to do your own and I will respect that.  But if you allow me to do it, I will strictly follow your directions and derive pleasure from the task.  I find doing laundry very peaceful and rewarding, especially folding, when I can almost enter a meditative state and connect with my Higher Power.  I know, that sounds a little weird, but I do like to keep in touch with Her, She is the cernterpiece of my spirituality which brings me to ...

 

I expect to have some free time in the morning.  I have a routine I follow: prayer and meditation, stretches and core exercises, walking (better with a dog or two), then coffee and some reading.  I am an early riser; I acquired that habit when my girls were young and it was the only free time I had throughout the day.  I enjoy these rituals but I am not inflexible: if you need something in the morning I will cheerfully set them aside to help you.  But I assume most mornings I will be free to accomplish this physical, mental, and spiritual "maintenance."

 

I expect to feel "owned" at all times and will obey any and all orders, within reason.  However, I do not need micro-management.  I envision a level of trust will develop in which you will periodically check and guide my work but come to expect that my duties will be carried out to your satisfaction in a timely manner.  If I fail to meet your expectations I will suffer consequences fully apart from fun "play" that I will not enjoy and will strive to avoid.

 

I expect you will not tolerate any whining, complaining, or especially insubordination.  Again I expect there will be consequences for such behavior and that I will NOT enjoy those consequences (i.e., spanking would NOT be a consequence since I would enjoy that).

 

I expect you to be firm and sometimes cruel and demanding in a fun way, but that I will develop trust that you will keep me safe and undamaged.

 

I expect that I will give you so many foot rubs that I will learn every inch of your feet and what feels best for you.  I hope that occasionally you will allow me to take your shoes off at the end of a hard day and allow me to kiss them.

 

I expect us both to have vanilla lives and interests outside the house and sometimes inside of it when there are visitors.  At these times I will behave as a roommate unless instructed otherwise.  There may be extended periods when we do not interact within our roles.  Again, I do not need micromanagement. But when you use specific words or gestures, or even just a certain tone of voice, I will be ready to revert to my role of subservience.

 

I expect that all of my sexual activity and release, with you, myself, or anyone else you choose for me to serve in that way, will be controlled and directed by you.  It will be up to you to decide if that control will involve a chastity device, but if you decide that is something you want I will happily submit to wearing one.

 

I expect, on the other hand, that you will see whomever you choose, whenever you choose.  I have no rights to claim any more of your time or attention than you decide to give me.

 

I expect we will occasionally play, and yes I am very interested in what that might look like.  At the risk of topping from the bottom I will say that I have enjoyed being restrained and suffering pain: I think it is a beautiful thing to offer my suffering as a signifier of my desire to please and show my worthiness as a slave.  I have enjoyed being penetrated in humiliating ways, called a slut and a whore;  my favorite thing is to serve orally, especially being queened.  Having said all that I am fully aware that some or all of those things may not be part of our play if they do not interest you.  Or they may be allowed at times as a reward for extra work.  Further, I fully expect you to push me beyond my experiences, with you or with other play partners, male or female, as it pleases you.  The only hard limits I cannot imagine even trying are shit and blood, basically.  Pushing me to do things I don't WANT to do excites me, as much or even more than those things I DO want to do.  For it is in doing those things without complaint that I will be demonstrating my worthiness as a slave and my willingness to give up all of my power to you.  It is within that exchange of power that I seek and hope to find fulfillment.

 

I expect that either of us may decide to abandon our roles at any time in the future (although I can't envision myself ever feeling that way - I have been submissive for my whole life).  But if that does happen I expect to continue on as a roommate, at least until I find another place to live.