Exp'd classy, centered, femme lady ISO smart, fit, secure and masculine alpha guy who enjoys relinquishing control to a dominant woman. Serious & sincere ONLY. Do not expect copious amts of email. Must be willing, able & ready to talk then meet. If you write me with some sort of fantasy, you will be ignored. Must understand what serving is about and who the focus is supposed to be on. Pay close attention: NOT interested in xdressers/feminization/sissybois. Should be between 45-60. Must be single, local and available. Absolutely no wife or S/O. I don't share well with others. Should understand the meaning behind the title of "keyholder". I'm attracted to intelligent, mature, fit, confident & accomplished men. Should have an active, well-balanced life & searching for someone to compliment it. Looking for what I call the "swirl"..a blend of D/s & vanilla. If you feel you may fit this description, please send a proper letter of introduction. If you don't meet my basic requirements and repond, your email will be ignored. News flash, if you tell me you're a sexual submissive, you will be ignored. If I feel we have something in common, I will respond with same.