Also, we have been approached by "pet" subs who's idea of service is making the Dom their jailer. While a slave's life should revolve around his master's, the Dom's life cannot revolve around maintaining a slave. It means the Dom is serving the slave's pleasure, which is a role reversal. If your idea of ownership is somehow the Dom takes care of everything and all you have to do is wear a collar and sit at his feet, we're definitely not going to be on the same page. A jailer gives up his freedom to his prisoner...you are a slave because it is what you are and what you need, is to serve, otherwise you are a fetishist with an active imagination, which is fine, just not what we seek... I appreciate the fantasy it's just not what we do. Ownership/belonging to someone should be a life enhancing experience, not a way to run away from life. No way out doesn't mean you are chained, it means you are bound...