Question for subs and slaves: is it acceptable for a sub or slave to insult a Domme?
Message from exploringfemdom: Time to lose about 160 LBS. there is NOTHING dominant about a woman or any person who cannot take care of their OWN bodies. Seriously what planet are you living on? Why would I , a self respecting male sub want to serve a a woman who cannot lead by example? Why would I want to serve a woman who cannot get off the toilet by herself? Finally the thought of eating you and or making love to you is repulsive and sickening. You do realize that becoming a femdom does not excuse you being fat and obese. It is not a means to an end to avoid taking care of yourself... Seriously this is sickening and I feel sorry for yourself as you live in such denial you are only ruining your own life
To my many friends and true subs: Any feedback for exploringfemdom? I posed this question to subs before and got some fabulous feedback! Its amazing to hear from the "real" subs and slaves. They have incredible insight and really understand what the lifestyle is all about. I have even learned a thing or two and am grateful for all the comments.
Thanks for your constant support!
From LD: Dear Ms Labou, I don't believe insulting a Domme is at all the proper thing to do. One must after all, just consider the source of another's remarks, and move on. If people just spent the same amount of time acting positive rather than negative, the world certainly would be a better place. Your beautiful, the one You allow to knell before You, should forever relish in his good fortune.
From Jonathan: Saw what the idiot wrote, that you posted in your journal. I had no idea there really were people that clueless. I mean I guess I did, but I try to pretend they don't exist. Sorry you had to encounter the jerk. If you get his address I'll go sock him in the eye for you.
From C: First, it is really offensive that people feel the need to be that insulting! I am sorry that you had to put up with that. I have a feeling that dude has a very unhappy and unfulfilling life.
From Eric: i write only in response to our friend, exploringfemdom, and find myself absolutely overwhelmed to consider how one might respond. We could try to educate the lad as to how if sees only the physical, he might try his luck with the blow-up doll of his choice, or given his obvious deep and reflective nature, maybe we could simply stuff a pair of thigh-high boots and have fun seeing how long it takes him to figure it out. In the truest tradition of how those with the least to say often say it the loudest, it would be a good laugh to have him explain dominance, or better yet, submission, but i think it more likely that he is not exploring; he's merely lost. Ultimately, i worry that anything more substantive would simply be beyond his grasp, and a waste of Your time. One cannot educate the intentionally ignorant, and there is nothing won by besting a fool in argument. Such people never add, they only detract, and on the final tally, even the time spent dismissing them is a cost greater than their worth.
From Cape Cod: Never acceptable
From LA sub/slave: Well, to start with, and this is NOT the first time i have used this word, it is ultimately about being respectful. To serve a Woman, a sub/slave MUST be always be deeply respectful. Grateful. Attentive. But ALWAYS respectful. This guy was obnoxious for anyone, and clearly he will never be collared.
From Buena Park: Wow! What a horrible mean person. You should report him. You are very sexy! He does not understand how to worship beautiful people like yourself. He is just a very unsecure person. Do not listen to him, he is just being an @$$. I hope more people read your journal and sees how mean people can be. Again you are truly beautiful and sexy!!
From Illinois: Insulting ANYBODY in such a way is unacceptable behavior. What that person wrote is truly mean spirited and I believe it was written by an individual whos own self esteem is deeply disturbed. i'm sorry you had to endure that message.
From Trucker slave: That idiot showed his ignorance of this lifestyle Ms Lexi. This slave is very sorry You had to read that crap. To answer Your question, anyone that shows disrespect to anyone in this lifestyle, Dom/Domme or sub/slave does not understand this lifestyle. Especially one they know nothing about but judge based on appearance.