Top 5 Reasons to Date a Supervillain

• Snappy dresser
• Romantic dinners in lair
• Lots of laughs
• Can build robots and lasers (yes, really)
• Minions, baby. Minions.

Parallels between Myself and my Fictional Namesake

• I hold advanced degrees in Physics and Engineering, and have spent my career in high tech business. I have also worked in the financial sector, helping an investment firm buy and run companies.
• I can fly aircraft, pick locks, and know several martial arts.
• I possess genius-level intellect... really.
• I fucking hate Superman! (Although if I see a man in tights, I have nothing against that.)

Me in Real Life

My Criminal Career

• I have been an active member of the SF Bay Area kink/BDSM scene for the last 3 years. I host events, volunteer as a Dungeon Monitor and help out behind the scenes in various ways.
• I recently released a girl from my service and ownership. She and I were in a serious relationship for nearly 3 years. We shared a 24/7 Sir/girl relationship. Our relationship was poly-playful in that we each played with other people subject to mutual negotiation.
• What I most desire during play is 'intensity'. Too much is not enough in whatever we do together. I like to get into peoples' personal space and head space. I am very sadistic, but I have a very strong ethical sense. I only enjoy sadistic or humiliation play when I am convinced my partner deeply wants what I am doing.
• I have attended Cleo Dubois' Weekend Intensive for Male Dominants, Midori's Rope Dojo course, and Topologist's Core Rope Curriculum Level IV, among many other classes and conferences.
• I can be very intense and sadistic in my play, but I only enjoy doing things that my partner is into as well. I treat everyone with kindness and respect unless we negotiate otherwise for a scene.

What I am looking for

• A primary partner for a long-term relationship ultimately leading to children and a family. It is not necessary for my life partner to be compatible as a play partner, however it would be a bonus.
• Play partners. I prefer the psychological over the physical or technical. I love humiliation and degradation, D/s dynamics overall, and impact play that reinforces an emotional dynamic such as over-the-knee spanking. I do practice suspension bondage. However, I prefer that rope be an instrument of my Dominance rather than just another prop to make people look at you. I am technically proficient in rope, spanking, floggers, paddles, and single tail, among other implements. I love to play hard, but I am respectful of others' limits and desired level of intensity during a scene.
• Public versus private play. I am a public player. I appreciate the accountability this creates for myself and my play partner. I like how being in public can make my bottom feel more vulnerable, and gives me the opportunity to showboat a little. It is also reassuring that if that if an emergency occurred during our scene, I could call upon outside help. For these reasons, I am unlikely to agree to private play unless a very close relationship has already been established.

Relationship Orientation

Requirements

• Be local to the San Francisco Bay Area
• Willing to meet in person in a safe, neutral public location. I am not interested in extended online communication.