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I am looking to develop and build a long-term, monogamous relationship, with Ds at its core.

On and off here since 2013 due to its frustrating nature, Ive successfully met people from here, having had significant and important relationships with a few.

Per my headline I am active now with the goal of building a romantic and intimate relationship, with Ds at its core. I realize and understand this takes time, and for me it involves elements of vanilla dating or dare I say vanilla life - shared passions such as travel, music, good food (vegetarians welcome), intellectual conversations, art museums, theatre and cinema. I suspect I've already lost more than most, but for those still with me, please do read on. I dont self identify with DDlg, but by the same token I am kind, compassionate, nurturing and protective. I dont live to punish (but wont hesitate when necessary, and if you ask if Im a sadist Id say, no, but administering pain does give me some pleasure), nor am I doom and gloom. I live in the real world and expect the same of you.

Ds works best when there is a true connection, healthy and whole relationship, because while it is a core part of who and what I am, it does not wholly define me (and the same should be true of you).

Rounding out the above, I seek a single, educated and intelligent woman. A true submissive, she thrives on pleasing (and serving) another. Kinky sex has a significant place within this dynamic, but it is only one aspect, albeit an important one. Ideally, she will have a creative streak and be spiritual (I have my own beliefs, but am respectful of others), will already be leading a healthy and active lifestyle or at least not the total opposite - smokers, obese (I purposely did not use BBW as curves are lovely and desired), heavy drinkers, drug users (420 is fine), need not reply.

For the record, I am single (divorced), professional, educated, typically active mentally and physically, well travelled (main photo - Portugal, others range from Russia to Scotland and literally places between), and a young, fit and active 51.

Presently an urban warrior, I am equally adept in the country where I have lived and enjoy going literally off the grid, and long-term would prefer a smaller, quieter setting than NYC. In the interim, I prefer local (tri-state area), but am open to connecting with those that are not. However, if you are not local, understand that within a certain framework e.g. safety, comfort, practicality I will expect you to be willing to travel (eventually, not right away) to meet me and be committed to relocation at the appropriate time.

If youre still reading, thank you. I acknowledge whether in print or speech, brevity is not my strongest quality. Furthermore, I am going to presume 1) you are interested in what I seek and 2) I have conveyed I am not what seems to be the typical male Dom CM poster.

If you would like to know more, please get in touch.

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HisObedientOne
 
 Age: 19
 Rown, United Kingdom