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LeslieStone

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(Last updated July 28th, 2018 reverified Jan 2022. Nothing's changed)

My names Leslie from South Central Wisconsin, a 49yo CD MILF whos driven by a need to pleasure, obey, and serve another for the sheer joy of a job well done.
You will know me as a submissive slut and a bit more enlightened in wanting to understand your role, needs and desires.
I enjoy my strength and pride as a submissive and being well educated with a strong personality.
Leslie

Interests outside of sex include photography, graphic computer programs, cooking, hunting, hiking.
Sex stuff includes role play Masterslave, Ds, Directoractress, Pimpescort. Bondage of nearly ANY type. Wam. Grunge. Food. Toys.
So there!
How about your list and what on mine do you like?

Ps1Please, if you send me a message, say something other than Hi, whats up?, or just your stats.Think about it if you were getting a message like that. What is my incentive to respond? Say something that would compel or enthrall me enough to write you back.PS2.I dont demand much but it would be best if you were fairly close to Madison and over 40. Non sex activities such as the outdoors (hunting, fishing, hiking) photography, cooking, and artcrafts Occupy my leisure time.

PS3.

The Nine Degrees of Submission that has been found all over the web in some or another will help help you understand where I believe I stand in the subslave continuum.Me I believe than I can sit comfortably in level 6 with a few items from level 7

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The 10 Kink Commandments 1. All activity must be safe (we do not cause true harm), sane (we only engage in activity when we are clear of mind), and consensual. 2. One must always be respectful of your partners safe word (redyellowgreen) and their hard limits. 3. We only enter into activities after we have gained trust, education, and an open mind. 4. Always be polite and ask questions. 5. Do not touch anyone elses equipment without permission. 6. We always must be clean, hygienic, and mindful of our own equipment. 7. We will always be mindful of aftercare. 8. We do not engage in humiliating and degrading scenes solely for our own amusement. 9. We always protect one anothers anonymity from the harsh eyes of the vanilla world. 10. And, most importantly, dont forget to have a good time.



XXXThe following does not have to involve any hanky-panky.

I would like to meet for some picture taking. I can take yours and you can take mine. My outfits will range from common to bedroom wear. NO HANKY PANKY NECESSARY or expected!

If you are another cdtv who just wants pics.... No play required, ok?

I have lighting and a few backdrops for use. As for cameras, you can use yours or mine. Most any camera now days would work as long as the composure and the lighting is good. Dont sweat the camera!I cannot host.Start about 9ish AM and leave about 1ish.There you go.PS... I DO have a video camera and if you would like yourself or whatever filmed, we can talk about that too. Thats my Day job.XXX

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 LeslieStone

 Submissive Transgender

 McFarland 

 Wisconsin

 5' 9"

 180 lbs

 49

 Pan

 Caucasian

 01/07/14

 

Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant male

Sub / Slave Male

Switch Male

Male Dom Couples

Friends

 Lives For:

 Movies (Expert)

 Bondage

 Crossdressing

 Masks (Wearing)

 Cooking (Expert)

 Photography (Expert)

 Loves:

 Fishing

 Flea Markets (Expert)

 Museums (Expert)

 Shopping (Expert)

 Travel (Expert)

 Bicycling

 Camping

 Hiking

 Hunting

 Snorkeling

 Yachting (Expert)

 Collars

 Corsetry (Beginner)

 Exhibitionism

 Leashes

 Masks on Partner

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Stockings (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse

 Nanotechnology

 Writing

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 New Wave

 Swimming

 Likes:

 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Art Galleries

 Beachcombing

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Garage Sales

 Climbing (Beginner)

 Rafting

 Running

 Scuba Diving (Beginner)

 Ultimate Frisbee (Beginner)

 Walking

 Wind Surfing

 Begging (Beginner)

 Blindfolds

 Erotic Hypnosis (Beginner)

 Gags

 Objectification (Beginner)

 Wax Play

 Biology

 Chemistry

 Conservative Politics

 Libertarian Politics

 Philosophy

 Physics

 Industrial Music

 Badminton

 Bowling

 Darts

 Skiing (Beginner)

 Tolerates:

 Clubbing

 Going to the Opera

 Musical Theater

 Liberal Politics

 Curious About:

 Bird Watching (Beginner)

 Raves

 Cages

 Canes and Crops

 Corner Time

 Electrical Play

 Gas Masks

 Hoods

 Humiliation

 Obedience Training

 Maid / Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Play

 Speech Restrictions

 Suspension Bondage

 Theatrical Scenes

 Watersports

 1950s Lifestyle

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Dislikes:

 Bar Hopping

 Horseback Riding (Beginner)

 Chastity

 Domestic Service

 Sensation Play (Beginner)

 Hates:

 Genital Punishment

 Foot Worship

 Rituals

 Oral Service

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 Diapers

 G-spot Service

 Modern Primitivism

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Journal Entries:
3/28/2018 9:21:34 PM

I am starting a 30 day delay before meeting anyone. Why? If you can make the effort to know me through email and chats, there's s a really good chance you'll follow through with meeting.
Meeting someone for the first time on a lustful impulse isn't my thing.
That said, if you become my Daddy, Master, or other similar title, and you want me to meet someone under your direction, I'll follow your wishes.


12/31/2017 12:23:11 PM
New Years Goal:
Chat and meet someone who will be my lover, friend, and Dom who will also be kinky enough to be an occasional pimp. 

12/28/2017 10:55:01 PM
LeslieStone

I'm sure the right man can find me quite useful. Looking for a man with a plan. 

12/13/2017 7:12:49 PM

I've always considered serving a Master and lover who would also be my pimp to my ideal Man.  Alas, lots of wannabes to date but no one who has matched by needs, yet!  Yes. Needs and not just a dream. 
Yes. You are reading that correct. I'm looking for someone who would work with me in the business of escorting. Could that person be you?



11/21/2017 6:31:48 PM
Sigh. Some show promise and then they fade away.
I want to be useful. I really do!

9/28/2017 8:43:32 AM

Interests outside of sex include photography, graphic computer programs, cooking, hunting, hiking. Sex stuff includes role play: Master/slave, D/s, Director/actress, Pimp/escort. Bondage of nearly ANY type. Wam. Grunge. Food.
So there!
How about your list and what on mine do you like?


7/28/2017 8:12:56 PM

There is a bucket list item that I would like to get checked off that involves roleplay. 

You would be a Pimp and I would be your hoe.


There would be a casting call of sorts and if I meet your standards, have the right clothes, the web site I have is worded right, and other details refined, I then would see your clients you've set-up. Or... You would have me get clients some other way determined by you.


The Icing on the cake would to have a client who would hire me as an escort.
Gotta make it official.

If that went well, to continue as a real working girl.  Not 24/7 but enough to make worth our while. 


4/17/2017 6:08:19 PM
Say we knew each other for a little bit and one of your friends offered you a few dollars to get me to go over to his place to play.
You tell me that your friend is feeling blue and he needs some cheering up involving sex. 
I agree since it's your friend.
Would you tell me about the money or would you spend it on me for clothes, makeup, boots, etc to make me feel special enough hoping that I would agree to go out with someone else or him again?

1/3/2017 12:09:31 PM
Pictures!
New pictures of me in the Gallery!

10/19/2016 6:16:51 PM

Values of a Slave

What makes a good slave/servant will vary inevitably based upon the whims of those they serve, however, many consistently agreed upon best practice values that are desirable in a slave may include but are not limited to: (in no particular order)

  • Genuinely moved to service because of the internal happiness it creates within them.
  • Honorable behavior in word and deed.
  • Enjoys taking direction, being useful and performing a job well done even when tasks are otherwise undesirable.
  • Has the ability to grant large amounts of trust to a worthy Master.
  • Can clearly and respectfully communicate difficulties, concerns and potential conflicts regarding orders they are given.
  • Has a clear understanding and acceptance that the Master is not infallible yet genuinely has hopes the Master is correct.
  • Has a high degree of self worth and recognizes both service and Mastery as worthy callings.
This was from the bdsm wiki

I agree with all of it

10/19/2016 6:08:32 PM
Six Responsibilities of a Master

(Found this on another site and it was hailed as a good example so I am reprinting it here)


A good Master understands that compatibility at the outset is essential.

A good Master doesn't turn Himself inside out trying to fulfill someone else's vision of mastery.

A good Master understands that building trust and respect take time, and that inspiring the slave to continuous consent to give over authority is an ongoing process.

A good Master is clear about what his priorities are, communicates them and enf***es them.

A good Master is clear about what his responsibilities are, and fulfills them.

A good Master adapts to changing circumstances.

10/19/2016 6:07:07 PM
Nine Degrees of Submission

(Placed here for a reference point)
(Not edited from original)

Nine Degrees of Submission

by Diane Vera

© Copyright 1984, 1988 by Diane Vera. All rights reserved.
This material may not be copied in any manner without express permission.
Reposted with permission of the author

Within the S/M subculture, different people use the words "submissive" and "slave" to mean many different things. When submissives say "I want to be your slave", sometimes they mean only that they want to be tied up and whipped. Many professional dominants routinely refer to their (usually not very genuinely submissive) clients as "slaves". At the other extreme, there are people who want to be full-time personal servants, and who truly want to exist solely for their "owner's" use, pleasure, and convenience. And there are many shades in between these two extremes.

To help sort out the confusion caused by differing uses of the words "submissive" and "slave", I have made the following list of nine degrees of submission, arranged in order from least submissive to most submissive.

(Since I'm a bisexual dominant woman, I will refer to dominants as "she" and submissives as "she/he", but the following categorization can also be applied to S/M people of other gender-role orientations.)

Level 1
The Outright Non-submissive Masochist or Kinky Sensualist: Not into servitude, humiliation, or giving up control; just pain and/or spiced up sensuality, on the masochist's own terms, and for the masochist's DIRECT pleasure (i.e. being turned on solely or mainly by one's own bodily sensations, rather than being turned on by being "used" to gratify one's partner's sadism).

Level 2
Pseudo-Submissive Non-Slave: Not into even PLAYING "slave", but into other "submissive" role-playing, e.g. schoolteacher scenes, infantilism, "forced" transvestism. Usually into humiliation, but NOT into servitude, even in play. Dictates the scene to a large degree.

Level 3
Pseudo-Submissive PLAY Slave: Likes to play at being a slave; likes to FEEL subservient; may in some cases like to FEEL that one is being "used" to gratify one's partner's sadism; and may even really serve the dominant in some ways, but only on the "slave's" own terms. Dictates the scene to a large degree; often fetishistic (e.g. foot worshippers).

Level 4
True Submissive Non-Slave: Really gives up control (though only temporarily, and within agreed-upon limits), but gets his/her main satisfaction from aspects of submission OTHER THAN serving or being used by the dominant. Usually turned on by suspense, vulnerability, and/or giving up responsibility. Doesn't dictate the scene except in very general terms, but still seeks mainly his/her own DIRECT pleasure (rather than getting one's pleasure mainly from pleasing the dominant).

Level 5
True Submissive PLAY Slave: Really gives up control (though only temporarily; only during brief "scenes" and within limits) and gets her/his main satisfaction from serving and being used by the dominant --but only for FUN purposes, usually erotic. (May or may not be into pain, but if so, is turned on by pain INDIRECTLY, i.e. enjoys being the object of one's partner's sadism, on which the submissive places very few requirements or restrictions.)
Uncommitted Short-Term but More-Than-Play Semi-Slave: Really gives up control (though usually within limits); wants to serve and be used by the dominant; wants to provide

Level 6
PRACTICAL/NONEROTIC as well as fun/erotic services; but only when the "slave" is in the mood. May even act as a full-time slave for say, several days at a time, but is free to quit at any time (or at the end of the agreed-upon several days). May or may not have a long-term relationship with one's Mistress, but either way, the "slave" has the final say over WHEN she/he will serve.

Level 7
Part-Time Consensual-But-REAL Slave: Has an ongoing commitment to an owner/slave relationship and regards oneself as the Mistress's "property" at all times. Wants to obey and please her in all aspects of life --practical/nonerotic as well as fun/erotic. Devotes most of one's time to other commitments (e.g. job), but the Mistress has first pick of the slave's free time.

Level 8
Full-Time Live-In Consensual Slave: Within no more than a few broad limits/requirements, the slave regards herself/himself as existing solely for the Mistress's use, pleasure, and well-being. The slave in return expects to be treated as a prized possession. Not much different from the situation of a traditional housewife, except that within the S/M world, the slave's position is more likely to be fully consensual, especially if the slave is male (since men certainly aren't socially pressured into this kind of lifestyle). Within the S/M world, a full-time "slave" arrangement is entered into with an explicit awareness of the magnitude of power that is being given up, and hence is usually entered into much more carefully, with more awareness of the possible dangers, and with much clearer and more specific agreements than usually precede the traditional marriage.

Level 9
Consensual Total Slave with No Limits: A common fantasy ideal which probably doesn't exist in real life (except in authoritarian religious cults and other situations where the "consent" is induced by brainwashing and/or social or economic pressures, and hence isn't fully consensual). A few S/M purists will insist that you aren't really a slave unless you're willing to do absolutely ANYTHING for your Mistress, with no limits at all. I've met a few people who claimed to be no-limits slaves, but in all cases I had reason to doubt the claim.

The above list isn't intended as a rigid classification. Most submissives don't fall neatly into one of my categories; there are still further shades in between. (For example, a live-in slave with an outside paying job would be category 7 1/2.) Also, the same submissive may attain different degrees of submission with different dominants. My list is intended simply to show the wide range of different possible meanings of the words "submissive" and "slave".

In the S/M subculture, the majority of "submissives" seek scenes in categories 1 through 3, whereas most dominants I know (including myself) seek slaves in categories 6 and 7. If you're a "submissive" in categories 1 through 3, you are probably best off seeking a relationship NOT with a dominant, but rather with a fellow "submissive", or with a switchable (a person into both roles). She and you can take turns acting out each other's "submissive" or masochistic fantasies.

When a submissive says to a dominant, "I want to be your slave", it's often hard to tell exactly what is meant. Lots of people FANTASIZE a much greater degree of submission than they are able or willing to attain in real life, and lots of "slaves", especially inexperienced ones, over-estimate their own desire for real-life servitude. A dominant must CAREFULLY find out how far the "slave" REALLY wants to go. CAVEAT EMPTOR.

Revised May 1988

The preceeding article and two others by Diane Vera -- "Kinds of Masochism and/or Submission" and "Temporary Consensual 'Slave Contract'" -- appear in The Lesbian S/M Safety Manual, edited by Pat Califia, (Boston: Lace/Alyson Press, 1988) (ISBN 1-55583-301-2)

Sadly, the book is currently of print, but used copies are available through Amazon.com.


1/2/2016 12:47:17 PM
I want a man who will constantly remind me of my place.

Who treats me like a sex toy.

Nothing more than entertainment.

A desperate drooling fuckdoll that needs to be controlled.

I want to feel inferior.

To be told this and believe it.

There’s something inside me that craves being broken.

Sometimes.

1/2/2016 12:45:40 PM
"A News Years Resolution" - What better motivation is there?
Gotta have goals behind the motivation so I thought of this.
For myself and others like me.

Everything in your life should be aimed at getting fucked more.

You should always be thinking about it. I do.

If you must remember that your exercise program, your diet, your sl**p, and your beauty regimen are all aimed at making you look and feel better for men.

You need energy to work out and look your best for every throbbing, cum-stuffed dick you can attract.

Even if you have a boring normal job, remember that you only go so you can make money for clothes, makeup and the opportunity to get FUCKED more.

Nothing in your life is unrelated and that means that your real purpose should never be far from the front of your mind.

You are fuckmeat, plain and simple. You exists only to milk the cum from men’s cocks and bring them entertainment and pleasure. Just accept it and stop fighting because resistance really is useless.

Just open your legs and mouth, do your makeup, sculpt your body, and let go.

You will be so much happier - simple, quiet, and filled to the brim with cum.

I'm from south Central WI near Madison, WI. Any Men want to help me keep my NY resolution?

11/14/2015 5:41:50 PM

What is it about the prostitution angle of sex that enraptures you?

This is a repost of a question from another group and I though the answer was pretty cool. (Mistress Elanor refers to a forced prostitution fantasy but I thing that scenario can apply here too)
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(Dommes and Masters Who Pimp Straight Male Slaves for Profit and Amusement)
https://fetlife.com/groups/99877/group_posts/637971…



(The question)

A question for the Subs
by MistressEleanorR 8 months ago
What is it about the forced prostitution fantasy that so enraptures you? When did you first start becoming interested in it, and are there any particular events that led to your fascination?

(And the answer that intrigued me)

syphilter: 3 months ago

Prostitution, be it male or female, is a popular fantasy. For some, it is the lure of being desired so much that someone would actually pay for the pleasure of being with you. Oddly, the reverse is equally as powerful of a draw, that someone cares absolutely nothing for you, that they are looking to "get off" and you happen to be available. And, for some, it is the idea of being forced to do something they really want to do, but are afraid to bring themselves to do... determining which your sub wants will help you determine how to proceed.

(My comments on the matter)

This is pretty close to how I feel about being a prostitute/whore. The dichotomy of how you are seen. For me, I don't necessarily have to be paid as an actual hooker but to role play for my Master and act like a hooker for him to go where he sends me or to be there in his presence with whomever he pleases.

I hope that gives you a better idea of the kind of Master I am looking for.

-Leslie


5/29/2015 2:27:36 PM

If you Had Me for 24 Hours?

I have seen the captions and posts shared around that say...

"What would you do if you had me for 24 hours?"

Now it's my turn for this little experiment since I have not done this before.

Say I showed up or made myself available from Thursday noon to Friday noon the next day in late June or early July. What then?

Be creative with setting, clothing, dress, makeup. location, who's involved, etc.

Thanks! I can't wait to hear what you all have to say.

Leslie


12/5/2014 9:42:48 PM

The type of Cuck boyfriends I would consider.

Active Boyfriend.
They both know had he wants in on it. He want to watch or get her dressed or even watch as she seduces a man to sleep with. He wants to hear all about every thing she does with her other men. He may even recommend men or types of men for her to sleep with. He is all about the cuckold life and loves every minute of it . He does not feel diminished by his gurl's infidelity. He loves that she is a slut.

Instigating Boyfriend
They both know and it was his idea. He wants his gurl fucked by other men he just loves knowing other guys have been using his slut. He is all about being part of the cuckold lifesyle and loves setting up his gurl on dates and asking other men if they want to come back to there place. He is the one on point hunting for men to do his gurl.

Dominant Boyfriend
He wants his gurl fucked by other men and is more then happy to make that happen and if she if less then happy about it all the better. He enjoys seeing his gurl taken by men he pics out for her or sending her out to pick up men when she is "not in the mood". His gurl is his whore and is there to do what makes him happy. He just loves being a cuckold on his own terms.

Sissy Boyfriend
He is submissive to his gurl and gets off on her cheating. He wants to be made to dress in female clothes to one level or another. He loves being told he is not a real man. When his gurl is being fucked by others he does not wish he was the other men he wishes he was his gurl being fucked.

Submissive Boyfriend
He is in on the act knows he is living a cuckold lifestyle. He takes his orders and get off on the humiliation of his gurl being used by others. He wants it rubbed in his face. He loves it all but wants to be "made" to take it.


12/5/2014 9:41:11 PM

Can a CD have a Cuck?

 

Yes. You read that right.

With all the variations out there, I was wondering if you have ever heard such an arrangement?

For me, if I would have my own cuck, he would by my submissive and would love to watch my activities, help me find a partner, and help me prepare myself to look the best I can for such a partner, and if he wasn't present, be my anchor to go to and tell him my stories.

That may not be what a cuck is exactly but for me, it is a starting point to talk about this.

Why am I asking? There have been more than one person wanting me to be their Domme. I don't go too far in that direction but thought I could accommodate some of my admirers using a middle ground.

I'm just thinking about this. Not sure where this will go. There it is! :)

Thanks for your input.

-Leslie
South Central WI


4/11/2014 9:08:00 PM

It's 11pm on a Friday night and nowhere to go.  :(

Send a quick message, I may be on!

 


3/14/2014 2:45:41 PM

My Slave Registration Number (SLRN) is 825-242-132 https://www.slaveregister.com/


3/13/2014 11:00:21 AM

Reasons to get with a CD/Sissy
1.  We can dress like Whores.
2.  We are easy.
3.  We know how to work a cock.
4.  We do what your GF won't.
5.  We never turn down anal.
6.  We like the taste of cum.
7.  "No" means "Yes"
8.  We know our place.
9.  You don't have to ask twice.
10. We are never tired for sex.
11. People expect certain things from us
12. Everyone knows our desires
13. We obey orders
14. Will accept being demoted to a sexual
15. Can be pimped out

 

If you have suggestions for any more, please let me know.

 

 


3/10/2014 9:43:44 PM

If you saw me walking along a street or sitting on a park bench, where would it be?

Meaning...

 

Like if I would be sitting at a certain place in a park or walking along a street during a certain time of the day, where would you like it to be?

 


2/13/2014 10:43:25 PM

For some of you out there who are hesitating to contact me without pictures, I'm working on it!  Really I am!

 

I want to not be too much of a surprise in that you will be more likely to show up, right?


How's this...

When the pics are posted and you like what you see, do you think you would participate in having me in handcuffs and being a part of a group that I would be a plaything for?

Right.  That would be me availing myself to stick whatever you have into anywhere you want.

So there.

Stay tuned.


-Leslie


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