What I'm currently looking for....

Topping
I enjoy co-topping and would like to spend more time service topping. I also know that my skills and equipment are not particularly advanced or comprehensive, and I do not have the financial ability to rectify this through skillshares or purchasing new equipment. However, this is balanced by love of a teasing, sensual scene with the focus entirely on the bottom's experience.
So I'm looking for people with the time and energy to engage in meaningful private/small play party encounters that may include:

- regular (fortnightly?) practice sessions of flogging and/or rope bondage either as switches or my bunny/bottom
- A reliable relationship with a couple/family that includes friendship; and either play mentorship and training, co-topping, or service-topping both parties
- opportunities to co-top/team-top an individual or couple (I love predicament play!)

I have no interest in receiving sexual contact during these encounters, but generally enjoy the ability to sexually pleasure/tease the bottoms. I am open to providing penetrative play.

Submission
My submissive voice has been getting very loud of late. I had only just dipped my toe in the water of my submissive journey when my relationship ended, so I now feel a strong urge to pursue that path, without the means for doing so.
My greatest joy in submission is being the treasured object/pet/toy/... of someone I trust completely (as least when I am an s). Without that, play is entirely hollow, and provides no satisfaction. Once that trust is established, through mutual respect, what I most desire is to provide pleasure for my dominant through my submission. I do not need to be forced to submit. When I give my submission, I do so generously and freely. The form of play is in some ways irrelevant, indeed I still need to truly explore my limits and capabilities in terms of play. However, as some form of guide, my limited experience has helped me identify rope floor work, heavy impact, breast torture, exhibitionism, and 'being shared' (i.e. offered by my D for others to top, with my Ds presence) as activities which evoke strong feelings of submission or arousal.

In terms of submission, I am looking for someone/s to take the time to build a trust with me that may allow me to explore this side of me more completely, without a sexual (i.e. penile intercourse & oral sex) relationship. I do need to be attracted to my D, but I am generally attracted to a person more than a physical body. However I generally feel safer with female Ds. I am not seeking a full time or frequent (e.g. weekly sessions) relationship. Someone described me as an alpha, but I prefer the idea of a cat. So what I'm looking for is a neighbour down the street that occasionally feeds me and gains my trust and affection, rather than an adoption.

I can't reiterate enough how important it is to me that the people in my life are completely honest with me, care about me, and choose to be an active part of my life. You probably also need to be self-aware and able to communicate your wants and needs.

While I enjoy providing people with momentary pleasure, I NEED a continued relationship to maintain my trust and mental well-being. I need after-talk and a foundation of genuine friendship.