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So I just relocated to a new home, miles away from where I used to be.
A little bit about the conundrum that is me: I am a 30 year old boy at heart inside my man's body. I like to think I'm a well-rounded individual; smart, athletic, artistic, quick-witted, creative, and caring. I'm a big guy, 6' 1", 250 pounds, but I like to think I carry it well. I work out quite a bit, not as much as I like, but who really does? I'm a semi-professional artist, meaning I have done some work for money, and in fact I'm working on a highly visible piece currently. I like all sorts of media, TV shows on DVD (though I almost never actually watch TV), movies, music of all kinds, literature, and popular fiction. I enjoy sports of all kinds, except baseball.
In the Lifestyle, I know exactly what I want, which sounds demanding and inflexible, but it's actually not at all; I'll explain that in a minute. I have been practicing BDSM for 14 years, but I've known I was a lifestyler since I was 4. Not kidding, I can tell you the moment I realized it. I am, myself, most into the bondage aspect of the lifestyle, though I fully appreciate almost all the other sides and avenues available. I have a great deal of real time experience in many areas peripheral to the bondage; outfits, role play, spanking, caning, flogging, humliation, domination to name a few. I have experienced the other side of it, too. I tell most people that I am 75-80% Dom, and 20-25% sub. Just about anything I'd do to my partner I'd be willing to let be (or already have had) done to me. It's only fair, and truthfully it's sometimes fun!
In regards to what I would like: I want to meet someone with an open mind, and a real desire to be in this lifestyle. I've only ever dated one girl who was actually a BDSMer by choice before I was around. I've brought two vanilla girls into the fold, but neither were the one for me. I want someone who can have a relationship outside of the lifestyle with me, but who is also excited enough about it that the lines might blur occasionally. I want someone who thinks that a Dom/Sub relationship is truly that, a relationship where each member is an equal partner. I think that communication beforehand leads to everyone getting what they want.
If you find this interesting, or have any questions, feel free to email me... this was a first attempt, and it was cut short, so look for revisions that ought to be coming soon.
Oh yes, one other thing... I have no idea how long I will be here in Myrtle Beach. I'm in the process of chasing a childhood dream, and if things work out I will be moving. Where to exactly, I'm unsure, but it will most likely not be here. However, it's still an "if" right now, and there's no way to tell when I'll know for sure.
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