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AlexaVavoom
As I have received VERY many messages: please do not contact Me unless you live in the GTA, are intelligent enough to read My full profile, and are between the ages of 23-37. I am not interested in long distance at all. I am not sexually interested in CD or trans. No toilet slaves.
Although honoured at the response to Me I am very busy and cannot reply to everyone.Thank you for respecting My time.

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Very feminine Gothic Goddess interested in Female Supremacy with a gentle yet firm touch. Head of Household.
Looking for a service-oriented slave or two for long-term. Also looking for friends.Would like to connect enough on a vanilla level to make the effort of training you to My needs worth my time. Therefore, you must be intelligent, creative, and like to keep fit.You must also pass a rigorous selection process which will include writing answers to questions and performing small tasks to please Me both before and after we meet.I am strict, but flexible and understanding as well. I expect generosity, however generosity of spirit is more important than anything else. (Although somewhat demanding, I am not a Pro Domme.) I have limitations on my time and energy and expect you to respect that.
Communication is key.Cheating is unacceptable. I am openly poly and am looking for more than one person. I would expect your loyalty if I were to collar you.
About Me: I am womanly, warm, caring, very feminine, slightly girly, slightly tomboyish, slightly geeky, occasionally bouncy, and always WAY too cute. I am full of contradictions. If I respect and trust you enough, I may allow you the honour of caring for Me when I am vulnerable.About you: Ever dreamed of being a Knight in service to a Queen? A petitioner or Priest in service to a Goddess? A servant to a fine Lady? Loved and cherished by a warm, strict, wise and beautiful woman? You place yourself at My feet and at My service because you know that is where you belong. I am more interested in men than women, but am open to the possibility.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>In your message to Me, indicate what your likes and dislikes are BOTH IN BDSM AND IN YOUR VANILLA LIFE.Also tell me WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IN A DOMME.
I am interested in exploring power dynamics more than in pain and punishment, although I can certainly dish it out if necessary. I am not interested in sex at this time.
I expect you to answer any questions I have as fully as you can.Thank you for your interest.
10/28/2008 2:49:03 AM
On the forums
"They don't harness manpower to make themselves captains of industry, political leaders or clerics of a new religion." - ShaktiSama

Oh wow. I would LOVE to harness manpower to make myself a captain of industry and a leader of a new religion... sounds like SO MUCH FUN!

Who wants to be one of my chaste working temple slaves?
6/30/2008 4:36:44 PM
Realizing yet again...
that when people make assumptions, it has nothing to do with me.

Recently, was "unfriended" on another site for not taking initiative to get something back to someone when they didn't even indicate that it was important or urgent. They were especially upset because I hadn't sent them messages in a long time. Guess they didn't even notice that I don't have regular internet right now!

Also recently, was accused by a sub of looking for a cash cow.

Now, I probably should be looking for one due to my circumstances, but I'd rather just work. I've found that I just can't stand to be around certain people, whether they have money or not. I also want to be around certain other people whether they have money or not. Giving me money doesn't make me like someone, although it can definitely lower my stress level! Then again, sometimes when people give me money they start thinking they own ME! And that is unacceptable, and RAISES my stress level. Haha.

And all this led me to realize that I really dislike feeling like I'm only the object of a fetish, not a human being to be cared for. Perhaps, some people who have fetishes only know how to care for someone in one way... but when that one way leaves me feeling uncared-for, I don't really like hanging out with the person. Maybe that's my assumption and the person really does care?

Me? When I'm sick and can't afford groceries because I haven't been able to go out and work at my job, I don't want to be asked when I want to session!
Massages are great, but if massages are your thing and I haven't eaten all day it's not going to make me feel better, and I might not even have the energy to punish a sub for not making me feel better, I might only have the energy to hang up, disconnect from this person I perceive as not caring about anything but their fetish.
4/6/2008 5:40:44 PM
On being a Queen:

"Must the citizen ever for a moment, or in the least degree, resign his conscience to the legislation? Why has every man a conscience, then? I think that we should be men first, and subjects afterward. It is not desirable to cultivate a respect for the law, so much as for the right. The only obligation which I have a right to assume is to do at any time what I think right."

Potential slaves, please answer how you would apply this attitude to your service.
2/23/2008 5:31:03 PM
Searching again...

Well, I am beginning to be settled into the new place now. I've learned where many of the cool little restaurants are in the area, always fun. Haven't checked out the bars yet as I've been having some financial difficulties and what's the point of going to a bar unless you're going to have a few drinks and maybe dance a bit? I was sick for a bit too long and didn't get much paid work happening. Beginning to get a little better now.

A few of the subs I have met over the last few months are still under consideration, however a few are definitely rejected for their nonresponse to my health and financial difficulties of the last couple of months, which made it obvious they were only looking for a kink-giver not a human female Goddess - or even just a friend.

I've realized through experience of what I like and dislike about the potentials I've met so far that I am looking for a slave, not just a sub.

When a boy has an attitude of entitlement towards Me it is a huge turnoff. I desire one who will feel lucky to even be allowed in My presence, and who will demonstrate that in his attitude and actions.

Although I enjoy topping and really enjoy seeing a hot boy all tied up in rope with a shiny red bottom, it's the power dynamic and character of the other person that really turns me on or off. If I do not feel that I would want ownership of someone, I do not feel like being sensual or kinky with them at all.
1/30/2008 5:23:09 AM
Moved, settled in, and attempting to reply to all my correspondence on here.
12/24/2007 11:15:54 PM
Happy Holidays!

Sorry to disappoint My legions of eager boys... but it being the holidays right now it's still going to be a while before I'll be dealing with email.
12/4/2007 11:43:29 AM
I'm moving.

Will not be replying to messages over the next week. I'll be reading the forums for distraction so you may see Me online.

I hate moving. HATE!
11/17/2007 6:16:05 AM

Do you have an inclination for BDSM?
created with QuizFarm.com
You scored as Domination

Sex is about power and you like to be powerful. It's nice to be in charge and get what you want. And being in a position where people will do what you say is exciting.


Domination


82%

Sadism


75%

Switch


75%

Bondage


71%

Experimental


61%

Vanilla Sex


50%

Exhibitionism and Voyeurism


50%

Submission


36%

Masochism


25%

Degradation


4%



Hmm. Really don't know how I got such a high score for sadism. I enjoy giving pain sometimes but it doesn't really matter to me. I'd rather just be Head of Household and be loving towards those in My care.

Exhibitionism is rather low, voyeurism is somewhat high, so apparently they balance.
11/13/2007 7:02:32 AM
Slavery.

I was raised to believe that people should be free.

Plantation slaves struggled to be free. Black people struggled to be free. Women struggled to be free. Men still need to be freed in so many ways... I struggle to be free from poverty, from misconceptions, from childhood conditionings of oppression and oppressive patriarchy.

From reading the forums and the many pleas of potential subs who truly wish to be slaves to a Mistress, I have learned that:

True freedom is the freedom to choose what you want your life to be.

If you want to be a slave by your choice, then... that's your freedom?

Whoa. This is so difficult to wrap My brain around.
11/1/2007 10:46:05 PM
I've been both indundated with messages and rather swamped in life lately. There will be replies, have patience. Thank you.
Nicety
 
 Age: 25
 Chicago, Illinois