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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_slavery_%28BDSM%29
I'm a picker
I'm a grinner
I'm a lover
And I'm a sinner
I play my music in the sun I'm a joker
I'm a smoker
I'm a midnight toker
I get my lovin' on the run
Wooo Wooooo Still looking for a guy with the balls to step up and "make it happen" LOL so who got the guts to court this hot girl? so far, NA DA, lol For a sex slave to be naked is the natural order of things in sexual slavery. It reinforces constantly her position as a sex slave in several ways.
1. Nakedness symbolizes for the sex slave that she is completely open to her Master and nothing about her is hidden from view.
2. Nakedness lets the sex slave know that she owns nothing, not even a piece of cloth to cover herself, and that she in fact is owned.
3. Since clothes are a priveleged item and the norm for most people, her nakedness makes the sex slave aware that she is different and subordinate to her Master and all others who are clothed at all times.
4. Of course nakedness also carries with it the feelings of vulnerability and the control of the Master on the sex slave's body.
5. Ultimately, nakedness gives the sex slave a constant feeling of being a total slut and sex object. One must understand there is a difference between a "slave" and a "sex slave". I do "sex slave", not "slave". :) The BDSM form of sexual slavery is a type of sexual roleplay where one partner, generally referred to as the submissive, agrees to perform sex acts as directed by their Dominant. It is considered an expression of D/s. The power to control one's own sexual activity is deeply held in most cultures, and to offer this power to another has strong erotic overtones. It can be a very powerful and exciting exchange, but can also be hazardous if not enacted carefully. It is very different from commercial or social sexual slavery in that the activity is completely consensual and can be ended by the submissive at any time. A sex slave in BDSM adopts the role of a sex slave, but is not actually owned. The BDSM community does not accept non-consensual slavery as a valid concept. Sex slaves are a specific form of BDSM submissive, and not all submissives are sex slaves. Many submissives have no sexual component to their role at all. Others have specific limits as to the sexual activity that can be required of them. Sex slaves can be of any gender or sexual identity. In cases where relationship/contract extends to public venue it may include the right of the dominant to select clothing, demand nudity, require public service, and many things that might be seen as deeply humiliating, denigrating or even objectifying for those in vanilla relationships. Such public requirements could include requiring very revealing clothes, leash and collar, mild forms of torture such as breast bondage or even all of the above at once. I'd love to find "mr right dom" and go alllll the way to a total no limits sex slave, omg, lol total feminization included, all the surgeries, then tortures and degradation..... :)

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11/7/2014 2:23:48 AM
is it my imagination or are the people on this site more and more becoming whackjobs with psychotic profiles?  LMAO  at least I get some good laffs surfing profiles :)

10/31/2014 5:10:38 AM
Here's a bit of info not in my profile, I'm retired, have my own income, and I'm quite willing to relocate, SOUTH, lol, I want to get away from the northern winters, it makes my bones ache.  HOWEVER, relocation has strings attached naturally. :)

10/17/2014 7:14:59 AM
TGIF and a bare assed TG :)  doesn't get any better than that :)

10/9/2014 4:30:57 AM
I like this.  It's from an unnamed dom on this site, and you wannabe a dom types should read it, study it, learn it, live it :)
A Man who displays sensitivity will be a Master who is sensitive to you.
A Man who displays humility will be a Master who will show you respect.
A Man who is not afraid to cry will be a Master who understands your tears.
A Man who is quiet will be a Master who will hear your quietest whisper,
A Man who knows fear will be a Master who will not leave you to face yours alone.
A Man who will listen to a child will be a Master who will always work to understand your words.
A Man who can stand alone will be a Master who will not crush you under His weight.
A Man who controls Himself with ease will be a Master with the ability to control you in the same way.
A Man who does not have to prove His point will be a Master with many worthwhile points to share.
A Man who never makes demands will be a Master who treasures anything you give.
A Man who doesn't run after you will be a Master you will never need to run away from.
A Man who is calm will be a Master who can weather your storms.
A Man who has walked the path to peace will be a Master able to guide you along that path.
A Man who does not shout will be a Master who will never deafen you.
A Man who knows Himself will be a Master who will have time to know you.
A Man with an open mind will be a Master who never stops learning.
A Man who never stops learning will be a Master who never stops growing.
A Man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called Master.

9/17/2014 6:13:08 AM
now, these are the areas I'd be interested in relocating to, south or north Carolina, possibly Georgia, Florida, Arizona, Nevada, Colorado, possibly southern California... definitely not north, my old bones can't take the cold winters anymore, and I love the outdoors :)  I know Colorado has winters, but, they also have legal weed, so that qualifies as an exception, one other exception would be NYC :)  LOL.

9/15/2014 7:55:41 AM
now why is it that every dom on this site seems compelled to give a "lecture" on what bdsm is all about?  first off, it's only their opinion, and everyone has their "take", and secondly, they rarely take into account the standard rules, procedures, and protocols that are long established by the bdsm community at large.  it's a mystery to me, I'm tellin' ya, LOL

9/11/2014 8:49:38 AM
A snippet from a REAL dom's profile on this site:
"D/s relationships are based on trust. The first step is establishing
that trust. I've heard Doms say that it's all about Them. On the contrary,
it's all about the sub. A Dom is only a tour guide, leading the sub
deeper into his or her inner self."

9/8/2014 5:26:15 AM
I thought this was 2014 AD, not 2014 BC, or am I mistaken? LOL  when I read some of these wannabe a dom's profiles, I think I AM !!!!  OMG

9/5/2014 3:34:29 AM
Please have an IQ of at least 130 if you're gonna approach moi :) (for the record, mine is 154)  *smooooches* to all you fellas with some intelligence, and a kick in the balls to all ya dumbasses :) heh heh

9/1/2014 1:05:59 PM
For a sex slave to be naked is the natural order of things in sexual slavery. It reinforces constantly her position as a sex slave in several ways.
1. Nakedness symbolizes for the sex slave that she is completely open to her Master and nothing about her is hidden from view.
2. Nakedness lets the sex slave know that she owns nothing, not even a piece of cloth to cover herself, and that she in fact is owned.
3. Since clothes are a priveleged item and the norm for most people, her nakedness makes the sex slave aware that she is different and subordinate to her Master and all others who are clothed at all times.
4. Of course nakedness also carries with it the feelings of vulnerability and the control of the Master on the sex slave's body.
5. Ultimately, nakedness gives the sex slave a constant feeling of being a total slut and sex object.

8/9/2014 2:34:38 AM
   
i'm looking for the guy that's gonna "step up" and make it happen, not just "wish [I] was closer", "my family is having health issues right now", "I'm very busy with work", "I have a toothache", or the million other internet excuses,etc etc etc, LOL

7/22/2014 7:35:57 PM
so why is it all the fellas that say "I wish you were closer" never want to step up and make it happen? LOL


3/20/2014 4:37:40 AM

For those of you that do approach me, please understand this thoroughly, I'm looking for a "partner in crime", LOL, keyword being PARTNER.  I am NOT looking for some bossy asshole's ego to appease that wants some kind of abusive relationship. 


2/26/2014 6:48:43 AM

it's such a compliment when a str8 fella looking for GGs checks out my profile, even if he doesn't bother to send a message :)


2/20/2014 5:21:56 AM

any cool doms age appropriate for me, looking for a live in "all about sex" tgirl, get in touch :)  ya never know for sure what the future has in store ..... :)  please note: 19yo is not age appropriate for me, LOL


2/18/2014 6:33:41 AM

I have come to believe it's an endless parade of BOZOS on the internet :)


2/18/2014 6:33:03 AM

why is it when the subs and slaves want to be properly, and politely approached, insist that proper and standard protocols like SSC and RACK are in force and enforce them, the wannabe doms whine that there are no "real" subs?  LMFAO  a "wannabe dom" reveals himself instantly when he says he's a "dominate with 30 years experience", yeah, right, don't make me laff so hard, I piss myself......


2/16/2014 7:42:33 AM

i love to be sodomized :)  I think I figured out the "code" on here when doms post of pic of themselves with a big dog, or horse, heh heh


2/16/2014 4:14:49 AM

my favorite implements for a nice sound ass beating are canes and crops :)


2/16/2014 1:43:01 AM

I like to drink water after a guy drinks it first :)


2/15/2014 7:07:03 AM

I like to drink beer after a guy drinks it first :)


2/14/2014 4:42:45 AM

still looking for a florida dom that can rock my world :)  lol  actually, any warmer climate would be fine, I've lived in the northeast all my life and I'm TIRED OF THE FUKING WINTERS, LMAO


2/12/2014 5:00:11 AM
For a sex slave to be naked is the natural order of things in sexual slavery. It reinforces constantly her position as a sex slave in several ways.
1. Nakedness symbolizes for the slave that she is completely open to her Master and nothing about her is hidden from view.
2. Nakedness lets the slave know that she owns nothing, not even a piece of cloth to cover herself, and that she in fact is owned.
3. Since clothes are a priveleged item and the norm for most people, her nakedness makes the slave aware that she is different and subordinate to her Master and all others who are clothed at all times.
4. Of course nakedness also carries with it the feelings of vulnerability and the control of the Master on the slave's body.
5. Ultimately, nakedness gives the slave a constant feeling of being a total slut and sex .
 

2/9/2014 1:18:51 PM

watch out for anyone claiming to be from a long island munch, buncha haters, don't dare post pics of themselves, yet attack you verbally, then hide behind a "block".  LMFAO, buncha losers, omg, tooooo funny.


1/25/2014 10:53:11 PM

it seems as the temperature goes down, the number of psychos on this site goes UP, LMFAO


1/21/2014 5:03:06 AM

 For a slave to be naked is the natural order of things in slavery. It reinforces constantly her position as a slave in several ways.

1. Nakedness symbolizes for the slave that she is completely open to her Master and nothing about her is hidden from view.

2. Nakedness lets the slave know that she owns nothing, not even a piece of cloth to cover herself, and that she in fact is owned.

3. Since clothes are a priveleged item and the norm for most people, her nakedness makes the slave aware that she is different and subordinate to her Master and all others who are clothed at all times.

4. Of course nakedness also carries with it the feelings of vulnerability and the control of the Master on the slave's body.

5. Ultimately, nakedness gives the slave a constant feeling of being a total slut and sexual plaything for all others.


1/21/2014 2:11:03 AM

when I see guys put "strict" and "harsh" in their profiles, that makes the red flags go up, and the bells and whistles go off .... get with the program fellas, this lifestyle is about mutual pleasure and is supposed to be FUN, if ya here to find someone for an abusive relationship, you're prolly a sick fuck and belong in jail :) LOL  THIS IS 2014 AD, NOT BC


1/17/2014 2:54:17 PM

these are the girl's rules, and there should be nothing surprising here to a real dom :)

 

1. trust is earned, not freely given out of thin air.

2. the girl MUST consent to all activities that shall be engaged in.

3. the girl sets ALL LIMITS to consented activities.

4. the girl can stop a dom/scene with a SINGLE word, i.e., the "safeword"

 

get it straight dudes, especially you dom "wannabes"


12/19/2013 5:56:51 AM

The BDSM form of sexual slavery is a type of sexual roleplay where one partner, generally referred to as the submissive, agrees to perform sex acts as directed by their Dominant. It is considered an expression of D/s.

The power to control one's own sexual activity is deeply held in most cultures, and to offer this power to another has strong erotic overtones. It can be a very powerful and exciting exchange, but can also be hazardous if not enacted carefully.

It is very different from commercial or social sexual slavery in that the activity is completely consensual and can be ended by the submissive at any time. A sex slave in BDSM adopts the role of a sex slave, but is not actually owned. The BDSM community does not accept non-consensual slavery as a valid concept.


12/19/2013 3:43:15 AM

this is the one thing from the "Ten Rules for Dominants" that is posted all over the internet that none of the guys on this website EVER seem to "get" or understand.  I read profile after profile after profile missing this KEY CONCEPT in modern BDSM.

 

Rule 6 Be Sensitive

There's a very fine line between a sensitive, caring dominant and a self-righteous, insensitive overbearing clod. Your scene should be a creative synthesis of your needs and fantasies, and your bottoms needs and fantasies. Although, on the surface, your submissive is serving you, what actually is happening is that dominant and submissive are serving each other. Earn the complete trust of your submissive and never violate or even threaten to violate that trust. His or her submission is a gift to you. Use it appropriately.


12/9/2013 3:00:49 PM

i like to chat with guys that can carry on an intelligent conversation without constantly talking about their dicks .... cuz only dicks always talk about their dicks, then I get sooo confused if I'm talking to a dick? or dick's dick? omg


12/9/2013 11:05:57 AM

what's with all the married doms on here?  that's pretty bogus, and they want an LTR? LMFAO why would I put out for an LTR when someone else gets all the benefits?  then they have the audacity to say "you gotta pay your own way, your on rent and bills", LOL, get real.  that might happen when snowballz freeze in hell, LOL


12/2/2013 5:55:56 AM

it appears to me, after reading many profiles, there are very few "doms" that even have a clue about a "Submissive/Slave BDSM Play and Willingness Check List" which is a questionnaire that is "filled out by a Slave and provided to their Master before playing with them. This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common ground for play."   "doms" get to pick from this list, you DO NOT get to do or have "whatever you want", period.  this is 2013 AD, not BC, and this is the common protocol that anyone who wants to indulge in this lifestyle should follow, according to SSC and RACK custom.  some of you guys REALLY need to get over yourselves, LOL  then maybe you could get some play partners instead of constantly bitching that everyone is fake except you.  learn proper protocol and approach, learn some fucking manners, get over your hostility, and you might find a good time for a change, instead of the subs "suddenly" disappearing on you cuz YOU crossed the line and said or did something that's totally fucked up and risks the safety of the other person.


11/25/2013 3:47:02 PM

I have come to believe that there are NO half decent doms in Pittsburgh *frownz* LOL


11/24/2013 2:23:06 AM

any of you so called "doms" on this website know how to train a tranny to lactate? heh heh, I do ... when u want trained on how to do it, let me know.  again, I remind u all, it's 2013 AD, NOT 2013 BC. :)


11/22/2013 5:09:05 PM

I guess I'm old fashioned, cuz I expect the man to make the move, i.e., initiate contact, cuz if you wait for me to do it, you WILL be waiting a long long LONG time, LOL


11/15/2013 2:37:21 PM

I have a "one line" "experience" test for all you DOMS that think you are experienced.  any time u want to take it, send me an email :)  heh heh


6/4/2013 6:28:06 AM

older transwoman (50's) seeks an older (45+) "dom" type gentleman for an extremely kinky, fun, romantic relationship.  SSC rules apply of course.  i like courtesy, intelligence and personality in a man.  a good sense of humor is very important.  no married/attached guys, single only please. pushy egotistical types get nowhere with me, so don't bother.


3/25/2013 5:36:31 AM

i'm ready to relocate fellas, SOUTH of Pennsylvania ONLY, LOL  :)


2/9/2013 10:45:38 AM

i'm looking for photographers, models, makeup artists in the pittsburgh area to do some TFP shoots, hit me up ... TFP is explained here: http://dreamstrike.com/stmarc/tfp.html

 

as i've mentioned before, my B.A is in photography and filmmaking from PPU :)


1/23/2013 8:10:54 AM

still looking for a local friend for fun that's capable of saying more than "suck my dick suck my dick suck my dick"  LMFAO


1/1/2013 7:09:52 AM

As it pertains to BDSM, slavery refers to a dominant
person owning a submissive person as their property. It is a consensual
exchange of power between individuals. The use of the term 'sex slave'
rather than just 'slave' is sometimes used to differentiate between
consensual slavery and non-consensual slavery, because sex is not a
necessary component of consensual slavery. Not all submissives are
slaves, though all slaves would normally be considered submissive in
the relationship. Sex slaves, and their owners, can be of any gender,
sexual identity, or orientation.[1]The types of activities entered into
are usually well defined in advance and sometimes spelled out in a
"slave contract", a non-legally binding document that outlines the
desires, limits, and expectations of all involved. Slaves can and are
often expected to perform sexually, though typically many
relationship-oriented dynamics are also clearly negotiated, including
clothing, diet, speech restrictions, household affairs and schedules.
Typically outlined are clear expectations of whether the couple will be
monogamous or polyamorous, and if there would be
permission/expectations of sexual interaction with other people.
Otherwise, a sex slave is often expected to perform many of the same
functions that are expected of a slave/submissive, including wearing
very revealing clothes, being shared, collar and/or leash, S&M
activities, or bondage.[2]The duration of this ownership may vary
anywhere from a few minutes, as in a scene, to a lifetime commitment.
Slaves may be traded by their masters, enabled by sex club events,
personals in BDSM interest magazines or internet based social
networks.[3] The owner might be any person or group, though the
majority of such relationships are usually either one dominant, or a
committed dominant couple owning one or more slaves. Commonly, an owned
slave is also said to be a collared slave, though not every slave wears
a physical collar. A slave who has satisfied the duration of the
negotiated time of service is expected to be released, unless a new
duration of service is negotiated. At any time, the slave has the right
to revoke their legal consent to the relationship; effectively
nullifying their status as a slave.[4]Generally the expectation with a
slave are greater, and less subject to the whim of the slave than with
a submissive. A slave has agreed to serve and obey and does not need to
make a decision each time. Although expectations may be spelled out in
a contract, they are frequently very broad, and give tremendous room
for the dominant to direct the slave.


12/17/2012 9:37:48 AM

i'm still looking for a proper dom to have fun with :D ... and YES, i'm VERY PICKY and i'm a SNOBB :D


12/9/2012 9:43:03 AM

btw, i have a very high IQ, so i'm looking for someone with a minimum IQ of about 140, otherwise, we will fail to communicate, LOL


12/9/2012 9:28:22 AM

remember darlings, if you have "SERIOUS" in your profile, don't bother contacting me, i'm just in this for some fun and extreme sensations, not into your mind games, sorry.


10/15/2012 7:03:30 AM

how come so many so called "DOMS" have yet to realize subs give consent, subs set limits, subs tell doms what "activities" are allowed ... that is the reality of bdsm, case closed, LOL


7/30/2012 7:16:25 AM

i've been reading profiles today, and again, i must remind MANY so-called wannabe a doms that this is 2012 AD, not BC, get with the program, LOL, bdsm is about KINKY SEX, CASE CLOSED :)


7/18/2012 5:06:26 AM

have any of you other girls ever noticed it's always the guys without pics that have the most to say about how someone else looks? LOL


6/28/2012 4:53:15 AM

a heartfelt THANK YOU to hardtdc for the following email: "Gotta say, I loved reading ur profile. Rarely do I encounter someone on sites like these that not only knows what they want, but are also brutely honest. U My dear, are to be applauded. Bravo I say " ... thank you for stepping up and sayingt that dear :) MANY *smooooches* to you darling, heh heh.


5/21/2012 5:05:13 AM

i read on a very nice dom man's profile "D/s relationships are based on trust. The first step is establishing it. I've heard Doms say that it's all about them. On the contrary, it's all about the sub. A Dom is only a tour guide, leading the sub deeper into his or her inner-self." ... now, that's the kinda guy i'm looking for with that kinda mindset. :)


1/17/2012 3:54:47 PM

any of you that like the role of a "service top", i'd love to hear from you :)


1/13/2012 8:54:51 AM

i changed my "orientation" from "sub" to "switch" ... cuz i realized i really do like to "top from the bottom" sometimes, lol :)  "service tops"  yummmy ... so i figured it's only fair to let guys know this before they approach me, since the line "i'm not the doormat type" didn't seem to do the trick, LOL


12/2/2011 10:33:05 AM

winter here again in the northeast, UGH, lol ... i think i wanna move to the southwest, in the desert, sand, sun, blue sky, dry ......  heh heh


11/9/2011 10:35:23 AM

for you "wannabe a dom"s heh heh, don't contact me unless you KNOW the diff between ABUSE and BDSM. ok darlings? LOL  i guess i should not be surprised how many ignorant ppl think an abusive relationship is what bdsm is all about, but i am :) lol


10/7/2011 7:11:08 AM

guess where i am on this list? LOL

Within the S/M subculture, different people use the words "submissive and slave" to mean many different things. When submissives say "I want to be your slave," sometimes they mean only that they want to be tied up and whipped. Many professional dominants routinely refer to their (usually not very genuinely submissive clients) as "slaves." At the other extreme, there are people who want to be full-time personal servants, and who truly want to exist solely for their Dom(me)'s use, pleasure and convenience. And there are many shades in between these two extremes.

1. the outright non-submissive masochist or kinky sensualist
Not into servitude, humiliation or giving up control; just pain and/or spiced-up sensuality, on the masochist's own terms and for the masochist's own direct pleasure (i.e. turned on solely/mainly by one's own bodily sensatons rather than by being "used" to gratify one's partner's sadism).

2. pseudo-submissive non-slave
Not into even playing "slave," but into other "submissive" role-playing, e.g. schoolteacher scenes, infantilism, "forced" transvestism. Usually into humiliation, but NOT into servitude, even in play. Dictates the scene to a large degree.

3. pseudo-submissive play slave
Likes to play at being a slave; likes to feel subservient; may in some cases like to feel one is being "used" to gratify partner's sadism; may even really serve the dominant in some ways, but only on the "slave's" own terms. Dictates the scene to a large degree; often fetishistic (e.g. foot worshippers).

4. true submissive non-slave
Really gives up control (only temporarily and within agreed-upon limits), but gets her/his main satisfaction from aspects of submission other than serving or being used by the dominant. Usually turned on by suspense, vulnerability, and/or giving up responsbility. Doesn't dictate the scene except in very general terms, but still seek mainly her/his own direct/pleasure (rather than getting one's pleasure mainly from pleasing the dominant).

5. true submissive play slave
Really gives up control (though only temporarily; only during brief "scenes" and within limits) and gets main satisfaction from serving/being used by dominant-but only for FUN purposes, usually erotic. May/may not be into pain. If so, is turned on by pain indirectly, i.e. enjoys being the object of one's partner's sadism, on which the submissive places very few requirements or restrictions.

6. uncommitted short-term but more than play semi-slave
Really gives up control (usually within limits); wants to serve and be used by the dominant; wants to provide practical/non erotic as well as fun/erotic services; but only when the "slave" is in the mood. May even act as a full-time slave for, say, several days at a time, but is free to quit at any time (or at the end of the agreed upon several days). May or may not have long-term relationship with one's Mistress, but, either way, the "slave" has the final say over when she will serve.

7. part-time consensual, but real, slave
Has an ongoing commitment to an owner/slave relationship and regards oneself as the dominant's property at all times. Wants to obey and please dom(me) in all aspects of life-practical/non erotic and fun/erotic. Devotes most of time to other commitments (e.g. job) but Dom(me) has first pick of the slave's free time.

8. full-time live in consensual slave
Within no more than a few broad limits/requirements, the slave regards herself/himself as existing solely for the Dom(me)'s pleasure/well being. Slave in turn expects to be regarded as a prized possession. Not much different from the situation of the traditional housewife, except that within the S/M world the slave's position is more likely to be fully consensual, especially of the slave is male. Within the S/M world, a full time "slave" arrangement is entered into with an explicit awareness of the magnitude carefully, with more awareness of the magnitude of power that is being given up, and hence is usually entered into much more carefully, with more awareness of the possible dangers, and with much clearer and more specific agreements than usually precede the traditional marriage.

9. consensual total slave with no limits
A common fantasy ideal which probably doesn't exist in real life (except in authoritarian religious cults and other situations where the "consent" is induced by brainwashing and/or social or economic pressures, and hence isn't fully consensual). A few S/M purists will insist that you aren't really a slave unless you're willing to do absolutely anything for your Dom(me), with no limits at all.


8/25/2011 8:56:50 AM

why is it 95% of the so called "doms" on this site think every sub is fake?


8/19/2011 4:48:29 AM

why is it so hard to comprehend that the slut/sub/slave sets limits? and not the wannabe a dom?


8/2/2011 11:39:45 AM

it might help to read this before you approach me, LOL

http://dl.dropbox.com/u/5957458/BDSM_Overview.html


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missmargot
 
 Age: 43
 Moreno Valley, California