Confident, intelligent, and safe. I am more on the traditional side of things as far as partners go. I don’t believe that it is right that the women boss around the man. The man was created first and therefore is ruler over his domain. I feel that the women should submit to her bf/husband as it states. I feel that this gets rid of a lot of fighting, arguing and the like that comes with living with someone or just having a relationship. My vanilla interests vary, I love shooting pool, museums, and adventures. I am a firm yet gentle Dom. I am someone who will take the time to know you from the inside meaning your sense of humor, intelligence, likes and dislikes. I have my limits on what I am willing to do, and I stand firm on them and won't budge (hence where my stubbornness comes in) I wont beat, torture, do potty play….read my likes and dislikes. I am Dom who will treat you as an equal in public, but in privacy you will be submissive freely. My image of ideal submission is a sub kneeling at the feet of her Master, resting her head on his knee while I run my fingers through her hair affectionately. Want more e-mail me.