My style of bdsm is a very physical one, although power exchange *is* the starting point. I like to feel every one of my lovers move, her breath, her muscles getting tense when she's enduring pain - hence I keep close bodily contact (don't read: fucking) during sessions and love biting, pinching, scratching, all sorts of clamps and the like. However, I also enjoy my thin carbon rod, my crop, floggers and cane :)