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BBW Domme looking for subs (male and female) to have wicked fun with!



I am a busy mom, I work part time, I have a husband and two very young sons so I can't do 24/7. I would love to find a sub that would understand that I can not be there all of the time. I have other obligations that must come first. With the right person it could be possible for them to be around me and my family often.

What I am looking for in men: 6'0" or taller. Weight is not an issue, I like to wear very high heels and it is a huge turn on for me to have a man still be able to look down to me while I am wearing my heels giving him orders. Crossdressing is not a turn on, but the humiliation factors, heh heh, I love making a man blush! What I am looking for in women: I love them in all packages, who doesn't?!!

I don't get into online domination or cyber sex. I want the real thing. A computer for me is a tool for communication, to be able to keep in contact with someone. Now I am not saying that I wouldn't give some orders to the right sub, I am just saying that a predominantly online relationship is not what I am wanting. That being said, the sub should be willing to come to me. To me it shows a dedication to wanting to please me.

I need an outlet for my sadistic and sensual sides. Someone who is not a doormat, but rather someone who can take the initiative if and when at the proper time (such as pleasing me). I don't mind subs that are sassy, just know when is the proper time for that particular behavior. But be warned, I am a control freak and do not tolerate subs thinking to push my buttons.

If I am well pleased with my sub they recieve pleasure, but if there is disobedience there is punishment. I have a closet for those who are naughty.





UPDATE!!!
Dr. says bones are fusing well, I am now off the neck brace but must still be careful. I can have sex again! Wooo Hoooo! LOL! Boys and girls fire up those fingers and start contacting me again!

Rose is Back!
8/19/2006 12:09:36 AM
So here I am sitting bored to death, can't do much.  I was a shut in for a while, that sucked!  But now I can drive, just can't overdo things or I get bushed real easy.

There is only so much book reading, watching tv, and sleeping a person can do!

I do love my husband though, he is doing double duty, working and trying to take care of the house and the kids.  But I am a little annoyed with him, he gets frustratred at times because of everything that needs to be done.  I asked him if he now understood why I sometimes get so cranky or tired.  And of course in typical male fashion he answers, "No."  No appreciation, just doesn't get it even though he is starting to get a glimpse of my life.  *Sigh*  Some men will just never learn, good thing I like his cock.
7/3/2006 9:11:44 PM
It's gotten really tough these past months, some men which I was really getting to know and getting excited about meeting, I've had to put off because of my neck injury.

I hope to continue the relationship with them when I am able, and to hopefully meet some more.  Maybe even a female sub?  Who knows!! 

In the mean time I plan on concentrating on a quick healing.

Bye for now.
4/10/2006 10:10:58 PM

So the time has come, I've had enough of doing nothing. 

I'm still limited in things that I can and cannot do, and in the future will be having spinal surgery.  But I have got to live my life even if that means living with the pain.

So boys.....


Come and get it!

3/6/2006 12:22:31 AM
Here I am on the road to recovery!  *happy dance*

After too many xrays and MRIs it was discovered that I have shoulder impingement syndrome (hard to wave a whip around) 
and even worse a herniated disc in my neck (the more serious injury).  I've had two cortisone epidurals for my neck and almost two months of physical therapy.  Things are looking better.  I have opted not to have fusion surgery for my spine and am hoping that the disc will heal with time.  This entire time I have been off work and hopefully at the beginning of next month I will be released by the doctor. 

Wow, the thought of a normal life again.  I can't wait!
1/6/2006 11:35:29 AM

*sigh*  So as Murphy would have it, life has gotten difficult for me.  On 12/17 I injured my shoulder just by rolling over in bed.  Over a week I was in the doctor's office 3 times, the ER twice, and had a MRI performed.  On the 9th I will be seeing an orthopedic surgeon.  I don't know what is going to happen, so those of you who have been contacting me, please understand. 

9/4/2005 1:10:07 PM
Ok, let me clear one thing that was asked of me.  When I talk about a sub being accepted into my family I am not talking about them becoming 24/7.  I have two young kids, I can't do that. 

I mean that I am hoping the situation would be that friends (vanilla) and family will see this person as a very close friend and it will not be out of the ordinary for the person to be around a lot.

Hope this clears up any confusion.
8/26/2005 9:26:32 AM
8/26/2005 9:24:05 AM
So here I am absolutely disgusted.  I checked male subs/slaves in my state and OK.  Not one man ever posts to the forums.  I am convinced that these guys are all wankers or just looking for quick kinky sex, despite all their dribble about wanting to find someone.
8/21/2005 12:54:29 PM
After talking with my husband I've come to realise that my profile could appear to be too negative, despite my intentions.  So I am going to see what the new re-vamped profile yields for me.  If you like what you see, even if you are not necessarily interested maybe just think it is a good profile, let me know.  I'd appreciate the feedback.  Thanks.
8/19/2005 8:56:38 AM
Are there truly any people out there that want to just play?  My husband mentions that on another website the female subs are all looking for men to marry.  I think I am finding the same problem here just with opposite gender.  I am not looking for wham bam thank you ma'am, I would like to have a relationship with someone, it's just I can't be there constantly for someone.  I'd like to find someone that even if we weren't in a session would still want to come over and just hang out.  Maybe even in time become integrated into my family.  (Wishfull dreaming maybe?)
PatriciaHot
 
 Age: 24
 Roseburg, Oregon