This describes pretty well what my Mistress thinks of a slave:
"i really wish i had a dollar for every time i had heard this or read this on a profile .... i would be retired and living with Padrone on a far away island that we had brought
i have a few ideas on this statement and hhmmm have a feeling that some people will not like them but here goes ....
a person cannot claim to be a slave if they have never been owned ... they can have submissive tendancies but to claim they are a slave is doing a mis service to those of us that ARE real slaves
A person cannot really claim to be a slave online... how can they serve their Master fully and completely if they are not actually with them, or at least in the same area code ?
A person who claims they are a slave knows its more than sex, if thats all you are looking for then you might be sexually submissive but a slave ? nnaahh... not in this lifetime
A person cannot claim to be a slave if they are always looking at what is in it for them ... to be a slave means that your wants and desires are unimportant, if you are willing to do something for your Master and are always looking for the reward for yourself then thats not a slave
A person cannot be a slave if they dictate what they will and won't do ... a slave has some hard limits possibly but those are things a Master knows about before submission, to claim you are a slave but won't do the ironing, the cooking etc does not make you a slave *alpha* or otherwise".
I borrowed it from another site where another slave described being a slave.
If this is not you then move along ...