Have recently separated from My husband of 13 yrs.  I am not seeking new relationships at this time as I work to heal My own heart and life.  Also, to reiterate something I thought was made clear in My profile -- I DO NOT ANSWER ILL-THOUGHT-OUT ONE-LINER requests of any sort.  Its a waste of My time if you can't be more imaginative, well-spoken and interesting than to make one simple line the full statement of your introduction of yourself.    THINK, people!  Stop wasting My time!

Happy Birthday to Me.

AMAZING that the concept of actually wanting to KNOW someone before they "profess their admiration" is producing so many negative comments.  Perhaps it is those that look at My thoughts and feelings and misread them so completely that are in the wrong.  I have no sense of "failure to comprehend" in the fact that I far prefer people that wish to get to KNOW a Person before they simply assume themselves welcome to a place on that Person's pages.  Get a LIFE, people ... and leave Me to Mine!  The CONCEPT here is to find someone that is compatible.  If that means My opinions "offend" your sensabilities in some way, then by all means... just PASS ON BY!  Really!  I have already found the sort I seek and those on MY "Ffriends" listings are actual FRIENDS!  This social age doesn't give you carte blanche to walk through another Pperson's existence like you have rights to create what you wish in Ttheir lives.  Arrogance certainly comes in alot of flavors!

I'll say it again... to "admire" Someone you haven't even spoken to is NOT a compliment!  It is akin to stalking and is rather a desparate move.  If you've placed yourself on My Admirer's list without even speaking to Me, REMOVE YOURSELF!  I have no desire for such attention.

Good day.

Today, I am pleased to say that a lovely little kitten has wiggled her way into My good graces and seeks to further connect.  Wwe have been in contact for some while and Wwe are now taking the next step to see how many more may be on this path Wwe now share.  There will be no mention of names -- as neither of Uus is interested in the asshats that find "stealing" Another's prospective property as a "personal challenge."  Suffice to say... I am happy and so is she and that is enough for Uus.  I wish Eeveryone out there the same luck in finding a good match as I have been blessed to find in her.

Really.  Really??  Look boys, if you list yourself as a "straight, male submissive" and then tell Me that you're seeking "forced" bi activities at the TOP of your list???  Guess what.... YOU"RE BISEXUAL!  For heaven's sake, be honest with yourself and with Me!  Otherwise, I truly have no use for you.  It isn't "forced" if you're begging for it, buckie.

If you've added Me as Someone you "admire" without so much as writing Me a message or getting to know Me, please remove your admiration.  Frankly, I have no use for empty flattery and this is one of the emptiest forms I know.  Either speak or just go away.  Its rather simple.  But don't "admire and run."  It isn't cute, it isn't sexy and I don't find it flattering, so much as I find it senseless.  Thanks for paying attention!

Hello?!~  In My profile, I clearly state that I don't deal with liars.  PUTTING YOUR OLD PICTURE ON A NEW PROFILE NAME ..... is LYING!  If you've approached Me before and been told NO.... don't think you're going to get a different answer than the one you got before!  Please, people.... Stupidity is NOT sexy, appealing or magnetic to Me!  Its a SERIOUS turn OFF!  Use the brains the Universe gave you!!!  I keep RECORDS... perhaps you should too!

Really REALLY sick and tired of lying assholes that think this Lifestyle is just an excuse to cheat.  Good gods, men, if you can't get your needs met by a vanilla wife, then DIVORCE before you start seeking your next Partner!  NO ONE CAN TRUST someone that lies to his primary partner.  In a Lifestyle where your very LIFE can depend on that trust, don't start it on the wrong foot!  IDIOTS!

Won't be online much for the next several days/weeks.  My granddaughter -- less than a year old -- has been diagnosed with Cancerous masses and we'll be in the hospital helping her parents.  Please be patient for answers if you choose to write me in this horrific time.

Returning over and over to a profile of Someone that has refused you isn't complimentary... it doesn't show longing... it doesn't show respect.  Its creepy.  If you're told "No, thank you" -- let that be enough.  Be adults enough to take "No, thank you!" as an answer.  Use your energy finding what you Need, what you really Seek in Life and Lifestyle.  Don't waste it on being creepy.

I am wonderously curious at the idea that subs and slaves here seem to feel that the appropriate way to approach a Dominant is "ass and genitals first!" Seriously, people?  Have some self-respect and respect for the One you approach.  If you were meeting Someone you admired and wanted to get to know better in the real world, wouldn't you shake Their hand first, show them an open face, let THEM tell you what They wish to see and when!  Approach is the ONLY opportunity at a first impression, people!  Show a prospective Dominant that you GIVE a damn about more than your pleasures and fetishes!  Use manners, use your ability and your BRAINS-- Not your asses!

Ok, girls, what IS the point of listing yourself as bisexual if you're not willing to give a Female Dominant a try?  That isn't bisexual -- that's bi-sensual (in other words, you're willing to get with another woman as long as it is to turn on your man....).  Truth in advertising, people.  Is it REALLY too much to ask?!

Where is My girl... the one that adores pain AND being pampered, the one that NEEDS to be under My feet and control, but knows how to be a great support as well, the one that is just as comfortable naked as she is in the clothes I choose for her, who knows what it means to be an asset and not just a sweet ass.... where is My girl?!

 Where is My boy... the one that knows his place, seeks to satisfy, support and add sweetness to My life, but never assumes himself above Me, the one that adores hard play, pain and pet play but doesn't seek total dehumanization, the one that knows what loyalty, obedience and service mean and seek to give it without question, the one that has some training but still seeks Mine to make him truly "special," truly "perfected" just for Me... Where is My boy?!

YES the picture is a Joke!!!  ....... maybe.... ~winkgrins~

I often wonder at the seemingly vast world need to suffer, to commit suffering upon one another needlessly and without cause or corrective measure attached, to simply do damage for damage's sake and walk away as though nothing occured.  I often wonder at the increasingly astonishing numbers of people willing and able to easily lie about their lives, themselves, their needs and desires and to shatter those they touch without regard for the ongoing or percussive nature of their exit.  What is it that makes people do what they do?  Nature, nurture, lack of nurture... in this immense world of harm... should the lesson not be -- what can we take away from these experiences that makes us stronger?