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Hetero Female Dominant, 54,  Houston, Texas
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Not looking for anything beyond friendship at this time. I was involved in a relationship for quite some time, and to be quite frank, I'm rather gun-shy about becoming involved in another one.

What I seek is a masochistic bottom for occasional no-strings casual play. Must be comfortable playing publicly at local events as I will not host, nor will I come to your home or meet you in some motel. LOCALS ONLY - not interested in on-line or long distance in any way, shape or form.
I will not "train" you, nor do I want you to "serve" me. What I want from you is your flesh and blood to play the melody to which my inner sadist sings.










Last Online:


 Dominant Female



 5' 4"






Actively Seeking:

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Canes and Crops

 Knife Play


 Medical Play

 Needle Play



 Anal Play

 Electrical Play


 Hair Pulling


 Masks (On Partner)

 Mental Bondage

 Plastic Wrap

 Public Play

 Sensory Deprivation


 Wax play

 Hard Limits:



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Journal Entries:
12/19/2012 8:12:32 AM

So, here's another one of those things that just make me go "WTF"?? 

Why do so many males use stolen femdom illustrations (usually of very large women smothering a scrawny slave) as their profile photos?  Are women supposed to find that attractive? 

I suppose that some do, but I personally do not.  To me, it speaks volumes about the poster's personality, and I can assure you that I do not find it the least bit attractive.  It screams "DO-ME" and tells me that you view women not as people, but as fetish delivery systems to get your rocks off.

12/19/2010 3:50:35 PM
Why is it that when a woman is dominant, she's expected to never feel insecure about anything?  She's not allowed to have doubts, or to admit when something frightens her.  Damnit!  I am a human being, a person, a woman.  I have feelings and emotions.  I love deeply.  Why is it that my being dominant has to negate all of that?

9/12/2010 3:37:02 PM




Don't you just love canes?

9/12/2010 8:08:42 AM

Todays question of the day:  Why is it that apparently 90% of the male doms out there see a female dominant and they automatically assume that either a)she's really a submissive, she just hasn't found the right dom yet, and Oh my goodness!  It's ME!!, b)she's a man-hating bitch who has to dominate men because she can't get any otherwise or c)maybe I can get her to shove something up my ass?

8/21/2010 4:38:05 PM

Why is it that some people take a cursory glance at my profile and then presume to know me?  To know my wants, needs and desires?  And to foolishly think they could fulfill them.  All without so much as a single conversation...

6/18/2010 11:09:47 AM
Ok, just another pet peeve.  Why do so many submissives put in their profiles that the only important thing is the dominant's desires and needs?  Quite honestly, that's bullshit.

Seems to me that in any relationship, BOTH people involved have wants and needs and have reasonable expectation of having those needs fulfilled and those desires realized.  If both are not getting what they need/want, one walks away.

Just my two bits of copper.

5/25/2010 10:21:34 PM
Why is it that everyone wants to be "abused"?  It's not abuse if you consent to it. Grrrrr.  Just a pet peeve.  That and "forced" anything...

3/15/2010 10:05:55 AM
Why is it everytime you think you have things figured out, life throws you another curve ball?

1/26/2010 2:18:29 PM
"I would have to care what you think to care what you say." ~as spoken to me by the beautiful and wise MistressMe who was quoting her Poppa, the Col. E.B.W. Esq.

12/25/2009 12:22:07 PM

12/25/2009 12:13:13 PM
If I am ever put to death on the hook, expect a very human performance.

~Kurt Vonnegut, Jr. (The Sixth Book of Bokonon)

10/26/2009 5:59:44 PM
The Heart asks Pleasure—first—
And then—Excuse from Pain—
         {Emily Dickinson}

10/26/2009 5:54:52 PM
I'm amazed at how quickly one simple conversation can turn the day around.

10/25/2009 6:23:13 PM
I like a look of Agony,
Because I know it's true—
Men do not sham Convulsion,
Nor simulate, a Throe—
              {Emily Dickinson}

10/25/2009 6:14:28 PM
Apparently, I've misplaced my sense of humor.

10/24/2009 5:27:23 PM
There's a great new game out there.  Folks should try it, it's lots of fun! It's called "Learn to Read a Profile". 

10/23/2009 9:20:30 PM
Here's todays second jackass email of the day.
are you married or looking to get married?
Ok what part of my profile that says I am not seeking a 24/7 or serious relationship at this time was misunderstood?

I'm thinking I'm in a pretty foul mood, as emails like this don't usually tick me off.  I think I'll just go to bed. G'nite.

10/23/2009 7:51:07 PM
Ok here we go...jackass email of the day!  Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Hello,I'll be glad to inform you that we have a part time job working at home or where ever you're going on,we are looking for a Male or Female representative,who can be working for us as a part time worker and get ($400) on each transaction you do for us at a given time.and we are happy to inform you that this would not affect your present state of work and will not cost you to register,IM for more details

*sigh* It's not bad enough that I'm innundated with messages from wankers and losers, NOW I have to be spammed as well?

10/23/2009 4:33:39 PM
I am appreciative of literate men who act like gentlemen!

10/20/2009 12:35:58 PM
*sigh*  I suppose I'm going to have to hire a first grade teacher to teach reading comprehension.

What part of "LOCAL ONLY" do you people not understand?

I do not cyber, I am not interested in being served online, I will not travel to come meet you, no - you can not come "visit" me and I'm not the least bit interested in your willingness to relocate.

10/17/2009 6:25:10 PM
I've seen so many profiles (and received far too many private messages) from people offering to "serve online".  WTF? 

What/how exactly are you going to serve me online? You certainly can't serve me domestically online.  I can't use you as a pain puppy online.  So exactly how am I supposed to benefit from your "online service"?

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