Women only. Thanks.

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I am a gentle, strong, Dominant leatherwoman living in the New Mexico high desert sun. Happy, healthy, growing, working, exploring.

I am not actively seeking additions to my household at this time. However, I'm open to correspondence and possibilities. If you choose to contact me, please be honest, be courteous, be sincere. I have very little tolerance for drama, whining, clinging, manipulativeness, or moodiness, and I have no tolerance whatsoever for lying or falsehoods.

I identify as an Owner - I am a planner, a protector, a strategist, and a leader. However, I do not generally go around with a whip in my hand, cinched up within an inch of my life in corsets and high heeled boots - I am a real person, with a real job, real emotions, and real relationships. A title which was given to me years ago, and which has fit well and held true for years is "Benevolent Dictator". I have a long-term submissive, and a slave (both female), with plans to expand the family as the right candidates appear.

Those who are enamoured of the S/m fantasy - a life of buttplugs, costumes, paddles, and constant sex - would not be happy with me. Someone who needs constant focus, continual monitoring, or who expects my undivided attention would not be happy with me. A gentle, respectful, submissive follower, who simply wants to belong, serve, and obey would probably do quite well.

History has taught me a lot of what I have to offer, and what the future might bring. I offer guidance, loyalty, cohesiveness, and leadership. I am an Alpha, and my leather household is based on pack dynamics. Wolf packs are affectionate, mutually interdependent, and supportive of each other, while still maintaining a clear and strict hierarchy.

Future additions to my family will most likely be goodnatured, submissive female slaves, or possibly those who ID as submissives (again, female, goodnatured, and strongly and comfortably submissive).

Essential qualities: Comfortable in a beta role, ability to successfully integrate into an existing hierarchy, and the ability to adapt with a minimum of friction to a quiet, well-ordered household with high standards of behaviour and clear expectations of how we treat one another. Excellent sense of humor is a plus.

I am also romantically single, and am open to finding a romantic partner. This person would most likely be a lesbian Butch Top or switch.

If what I have said interests you, I encourage you to strike up a dialog with me here. Dominants and submissives, Tops and bottoms, slaves and Owners - I welcome intelligent conversation with all.

However - if you are just looking for a sex or play hit, please don't bother me. I'm not interested, and you will be pointedly invited to leave me alone.