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Hetero Male Dominant, 43,  Sacramento, California
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Lets see how this goes. I am a fairly laid back individual wandering through life and looking for a companion. I identify as a dominant with a slight sadistic side. Im looking for a submissive to be my prized possession, not someone who wants to be micromanaged but someone who wants to work together with me to make our lives better. I used to say I wanted the 1950s dream before it was trendy. Now I say that I want the 1950s dream with a woman who can be silly, brainy, and thoughtful, as well as a bit perverse and naughty. Bottom line, Im looking for someone who can engage my mind and not just my body. Be it friendship, conversation, or potentially a relationship. Im not really all that picky.

But, you know, Im a real person. My journey through kink has been part of my life, but gasp theres a lot more to life than kink (and finding a submissive who understands that would be a total plus). Along my journey, I have found that I am still a gamer, a bit of a costuming enthusiast, and a lover of all things old and antiquated. I am still very much a substance over style kind of a guy, but there are times when I tend to go for a specific ideal or look, and go with it. And in the process of all of this I wouldnt mind finding someone who I could get to know and maybe show a few things to or have a few things shown to me, I am pretty much down with most anything from bowling to the beach. Life is a winding thoroughfare and I really need to enjoy it a bit more.

So if you are still interested, drop me a line. I dont really have preferences. Be over 18 (which youre supposed to be on this site) and not old enough to be my mother. I really dont care what youre up to in life as long as you enjoy it and you feel its important to you. I prefer meeting people who are local, but I dont want to limit myself, so if you think wed match, message me regardless of distance. Im looking for something serious and meaningful. Those things dont come together quickly so dont expect to be you to me and taking complete care of you anytime soon.











 Dominant Male



 5' 10"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female


A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Historical Shows



 Coffee Shops


 Renaissance Faires


 Scuba Diving


 Blindfolding you

 Breast Play

 Canes and Crops

 You wearing my collar


 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Control

 Card Games


 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games

 Web Surfing


 Alternative Music

 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Nineties Music

 Show Tunes


 Antique Shows

 Bar Hopping



 Garage Sales




 Body Worship



 Electrical Play

 Local BDSM Community

 Being Massaged

 Erotic touch

 Hair Pulling



 Placing you on a leash

 Massage (Giving)

 Modern Primitivism


 Obedience Training


 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Spanking you

 Wax Play


 Arcade Games



 Comedy Shows

 Horror Movies

 Online Chatrooms

 Science Fiction

 Simulation Games


 TV News

 TV Sports


 Intellectual Discourse

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Blue Grass


 Classical Music

 EMO Music

 Industrial Music


 New Wave

 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Rock Music


 Amusement Parks


 Musical Theater




 Housework Service

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