An open letter to the Doms of CM.
As someone who has female friends on this site I would like to addess some of the so called Dominants on the site.
Submissives are people. They are human beings who are not just there for your amusement. They deserve respect and consideration, not to be treated like your own personal emotional punching bag. If they reject you it isnt because they are bitches or teases or fakes. It is because you are clueless and do not know how to treat a person, submissive or otherwise.
If you think that just because a woman is submissive that means she should sleep with you just because you said hello to her, you are an idiot.
Just because you deign to talk to a submissive does not mean you have earned her submission.
Submission is a gift that is given by the submissive not something you should expect to be handed to you the second you meet for dinner.
A date is a time for two people to get to know one another, if a submissive agrees to go on a date with you, it is just that a date, not an agreement to serve you, and definatly not a free pass for you to assume she will be having sex with you that night.
Being a Dominant is about showing respect, earning respect, and being a good person. Do you really think that being an obnoxious ass is the way to attract a good submissive.
Please stop acting like neanderthals, it make all of us guys look bad, and it really is in bad taste.
so treat people like people and learn that respect is earned no matter what you call yourself.
Thank you for listening. |