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Welcome
I am LapisLydia
I really prefer friend requests to be accompanied with messages.
It helps weed out bots and helps establish a connection.
But, moving on...
My name is Lydia, And I will answer to that. Calling me by terms of affection or objectification won't work well (example: baby, sugar, slut, this girl).
I really prefer conversations and friendly greetings to the "Name age/sex" approach. The "ASL" greetings just feel really impersonal and lacking effort. Yes, we are online and I am a cluster of pixels to talk to, but I'm also a person and taking time to talk to you. I will show everyone the same courtesy and ask how your day was.
Also, I'm not going to get on your case for misspelling things, however, try to put in some effort to writing out words like "you" instead of "u". It's another example of effort and wins you big bonus brownie points.
Also, betting that my ass is fantastic might sound flattering to you, it's not an appropriate greeting during the first conversation..
Offering me cookies is a good idea; I love chocolate chip...
On CollarMe...
I'm a little snarky, silly, and flirty. I enjoy reading posts, and writing.
I'm working on self love and acceptance. It's not an easy road for me; fighting a lifetime of bullying never is easy to combat. But I have an excellent network of friends, both on and off the site that help me with it every day.
On CollarMe, I'm looking to explore and meet new people. I'm not explicitly looking to be owned or have an official relationship outside friendship or play partners. However, if one happens to occur, I'm not going to throw a fit about it.
In person...
I'm a little shier at events and parties, and often make self-deprecating jokes about being awkward. This is mostly just me trying to break the ice. I do struggle with depression, PTSD, anxiety, D.I.D./M.P.D, and various social awkwardnesses. This isn't to gain your pity, it's simply to make you aware. I am working through all of the above as well as I can. Everyone has bad days, but I'm working to make sure that the bad days are outnumbered by fantastic ones.
I can be incredibly sweet and loyal to those in my friendly circle. Generally I'm considerate to most who cross my path until there is a reason to not be.
Vanilla life, life baby...
With sprinkles!
In the more vanilla aspects of things, I do have a job that requires me to be 100% vanilla in that moment. I'm lifeguard, CPR, AED, and First Aid certified.
I adore reading. I prefer non-fiction/fantasy to most other genres, although those don't get ignored. Writing is a favorite activity as well. It helps all the clutter in my head be organized so I'm able to communicate effectively with others.
I've been a Wiccan witch since June 2005. I'm an eclectic solitary, but I love to talk to those who practice the Craft, as well as those from any other spiritual denomination. I will respect your faith (or chosen lack thereof, if the case may be) as long as you respect mine.
Netflix! Because, really... it's wonderful.
My Hard Limits
as of February 3, 2014
My hard limits are things that I will not do/experience under any circumstances. I have no issues with explaining them, provided the question is posed with respect. These are non-negotiable.
- abduction play
- armpits
- asphxiaphilia
- blood play
- body modification
- boot licking
- branding
- bre*ding
- catheters
- clit torture
- cunt torture
- diapers
- face farting
- fish hooks
- flesh hooks
- genital piercing
- genital torture
- head shaving
- human ashtray
- human toilet
- needle play
- scarification
- tickling
- urethral fucking
- watersports
- minors
- animals
- nonconcent
This is by no means a finished list, but I figure it will work for now.
Thanks for reading.
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