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Hello, and thank you for visiting my profile, I've been into bdsm for about as long as I can remember. My life has always been pretty structured, and in a lot of ways bdsm has played into that. I don't expect someone to be my slave or to just submit to me, but I long for peace and order. I have always been naturally dominant. I've always tried to be the best at everything I did. Not about being better than anyone else... but about pushing myself farther. Well, to make a long story short, college flew by, as did grad school, and post grad training... and well... now I'm supposedly an adult. Instead of just becoming content and drifting off into the married/children/tv/picnic lifestyle that I see everyone around me headed towards, I find myself looking for new challenges and new conquests. And to be honest, this is where I am at in bdsm. I'm really interested in finding someone as educated and driven as I am, that can share my enthusiasm for trying new things and experiencing parts of life that just haven't been open to me before. I live to travel. I finally have a passport and some freetime, and I intend to use it. I spend a lot of my spare time now either in the mountains hiking or on the beach. I'm lucky enough to have a job that keeps me well off, but lets me keep my independence. I really enjoy current events and politics, but in a more positive way than the typical people that sit around arguing all day and trying to prove a point. I'm really looking to find someone out there that is at a crossroads like I am. Someone that can give as much back as I feel like I have to give. You don't have to be perfect, just confident in yourself, and confident with who you are. Outside of bdsm, I also enjoy working out, reading, scary movies, board games, the occasional night out with friends, or just sitting around by a fire, or simply laying around doing nothing. As far as bdsm is involved, I have about 5+ years of experience of varying degrees in a few prior relationships. I mainly enjoy bondage, power exchange, humiliation, some role playing... but a lot of it depends on the other person, and the dynamic between us. I would love to chat more if you've made it this far. I would be glad to send you a picture. I am honestly one of the few on here that keeps my face off here for professional reasons. I have nothing to hide, I'm more than glad and capable of proving to you who I am before we ever meet. Good luck in whatever you are seeking.
spicyNsassy
 
 Age: 36
 Yaounde, Cameroon