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Hetero Female Dominant, 43,  Pocatello area, Idaho
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Whatever you are about to write and ask me to do for you or to you, the answer is NO!













 Dominant Female

 Pocatello area 


 Willing to Relocate

 5' 3"

 130 lbs






 Lives For:

 Collaring you

 You massaging me

 You being my domestic servant

 You doing all of the housework

 Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me

 Horror Movies


 Female Sovereignty

 Alternative Music


 You begging

 Blindfolding you

 You worshiping my body

 Tying you up

 Disciplining you with a cane

 Hair Pulling (Beginner)

 Total control of your orgasms (Beginner)

 Treating you like my butler (Beginner)

 You worshiping me in stockings (Beginner)

 Whips (Beginner)

 Science Fiction

 True Crime


 Soap Making

 Lifestyle BDSM




 Disciplining your genitals

 Going to munches

 Sensation Play (Beginner)

 Spanking you


 Board Games

 Card Games






 Anal Play


 Enemas (Beginner)


 Cuck Options

 Curious About:


 Electrical Play

 Local BDSM Community

 Modern Primitivism



 Strap-Ons (Beginner)


 Hard Limits:



 Public Play





 Latter-day Saints


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Journal Entries:
1/10/2015 9:28:49 AM
If only - people were who they say they are. If only - they would not reach in and tear at fresh wounds. If only - they realized putting their wants before mine only alienates me further. If only - my heart were smaller and less tender. If only - I could make a balm for my soul as easily as I can for my skin. Don't push me further into the abyss. Let me heal and emerge in my own time. I will emerge better than ever if you do.

7/31/2011 11:56:19 AM

If you are wondering where my Lady chats on this site, you can find her in male-submission under the name BeautifulPhantom.  A few things you need to be aware of: no female submissives are allowed, male subs must ask "May I enter?" when they come into the chatroom and "May I be excused?" when they want to leave, No PM without permission.  Also, be aware that she is an op in the room, she may not have a lot of time to spend just with you if the room is busy.  She enjoys those that contribute to the room conversation more than those that want to go straight to PM.  Happy chatting.

5/17/2011 12:36:47 PM

Many people have been asking where Lady sells her collars.  They can be found at   She also does custom orders so don't hesitate to contact her here or at her gmail address (listed on the website) if you see something you like but need a different length, color, or stones.

2/10/2011 4:52:05 PM

I found this on another site but I had to steal it as it's too funny not to share.

10/18/2010 8:21:01 AM

Woo hoo, my Better Built Bondage Book is finally off the back order list after 7 months.  Guess I better finish getting the basement cleaned up so I can start on the dungeon equipment.  I found a miniature antique lock for slave's collar too.  Started kinda crappy but this is turning out to be a pretty damned good day!

10/5/2010 1:07:11 PM
I guess there has been some confusion about what I mean by Alpha slave and beta sub.  So hopefully I can clear that up.

My slave uses the title of slave even though he is allowed opinions and options in our life together.  It makes him happy, thus he gets to keep it.  I realize he is really a submissive and thus I asked for a beta submissive.  I need the feedback as to what it working for everyone and what is not.  I cannot deal with someone that would remain unhappy rather than speak up.

My slave tends to be dominant with males in the household, thus he is the Alpha.  I see no way in which I could have a harmonious household with two Alphas in it, thus I seek a beta.

By beta, I mean someone who doesn't have a problem with my Alpha giving him an order.  Just because my Alpha is submissive to me doesn't negate him from giving an order to a beta.  A beta would not look at my slave's role in my life as the model for their interaction, he would simply be the Alpha to the beta.

9/13/2010 3:52:45 AM
Wow, I guess when it rains it pours.  No sooner did I get called back to work than slave landed a new job.  I don't seem to have the free time I thought I would (slave wants a Levi quilt done for his birthday) so I have delayed the bath product online classes again.  I have been looking at my recipes though to get a better idea of what would be easy to get all the ingredients in a local store or at a reasonable price online.  I am also making a few things here and there with my son to find out what is not too complicated to teach.  Insomnia at least lets me get a few things done so I am off to dye some more Levi purple for this quilt.  LOL!

8/23/2010 3:27:52 PM
After getting laid off 3 times in a week, we decided to move back to Idaho.  Sure enough, as soon as we got settled, the same company called Lady back to work.  She leaves Thursday.  Slave will stay here and manage the website sales while she's gone.  We worked it out so she is leaving the day she has to work and coming straight home after the last day.  She'll be tired when she arrives but will spend more time at home that way.  Thank goodness for RedBull.  Anyway, as she will be working 13-14 hour days, it's 4 days at home so she will be working on a materials list for the online homemade bath products classes.

Don't worry, she plans to give 2 weeks notice on each of the classes so those interested will have time to gather the needed supplies.  Also she has a list of websites that she uses for her own supplies if someone can't find something locally.

6/22/2010 4:41:12 PM
It has been a long time since I designed a website.  I need to get back in touch with my contact for tips and tricks.  Oh well, am sure I can find some html tutorials on the net somewhere if he's too busy these days.  But, in spite of the difficulties, is up and running.  I am trying to fit in a photo session for the new designs I have gotten done between work, a trip to Idaho, managing my sales, and making room for my son to return.  I guess a busy life is a good thing, gives me less time to think.  LOL!

4/22/2010 3:40:43 PM
The politicians and economists would have us all believe that the economy is improving.  Perhaps it's true.  But somehow I think if you ask that man that just got downsized for the second time in as many years he would have a different answer.  We are heading back to Casper.  Be talking to everyone once we get settled.

4/5/2010 2:03:43 PM
Slave got lucky in the job department so you may have noticed we have moved.  I am still looking though very hopeful that I can get on his crew so that we get transferred to the same towns at the same time and only have one rent.  Though every time I think of myself running a loader, the song "She Thinks My Tractor's Sexy" plays in my head.  Wild!  In the meantime, I am making collars and thinking about selling some of them.  Got to find something to keep my hands busy while he's at work.  LOL!

2/25/2010 6:04:30 PM
Gotta love it when things don't go quite right.  Tried programming a universal remote to the dvd player as it's remote was broken.  The pause key now plays, the stop key pauses, and the play key stops.  Oh well, as the ones I found on the internet were $20+ and this was $7 I guess I can live with it but yikes.

11/24/2009 3:22:53 PM
Well, the nice thing about being laid off is that I have time for my hobbies again.  I so love beading.  The picture I was working on before I went to work is about 2/3 done and getting further weekly.  I should be able to frame it in a month or two.  YAY!


11/12/2009 8:59:16 PM
Well, things have changed with us a little.  Lady was laid off so we went back to her house in Idaho for a while.  Then Slave got a job so we relocated back to Wyoming again.  We hope to stay in one place for a little while again.  LOL!

9/8/2009 3:53:19 PM
Someone asked recently what we do in our free time and what kind of music we like? 

To which we have to ask what free time?  Lady works ALOT.  18 12-hour days in a row with only 3 days off leave just enough free time to run the errands and get groceries.  Slave spends all his free time while she works doing all the mundane things that she doesn't have time to do, laundry, cooking, cleaning, and making her as happy and relaxed as possible with such a psychotic schedule.  When we do have a spare moment we both love mud bogging.  We have his and hers trucks to play in the mud with.  

I guess this is also a good time to mention that while Slave and I enjoy our 24/7 power exchange, but with that schedule Lady cannot maintain it for more than a week or two at a time.  Not a problem if a third were sub to us both, but if he wanted just Lady as Domme, then it needs to be clear. 

Now as to music, we say thank goodness for satellite radio.  Country is all you can pick up on the airwaves here and we both like Rock.  Slave is more Octane and Lady is totally Alt Nation.  Needless to say, her preferance wins when we are in a vehicle together.  LOL!

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