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| NOT ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR MEN I HAVE FOUND MY TOY AND I AM ENJOYING THE GAMES. STILL AVAILABLE TO CHAT AND MENTOR AND ASSIST AS REQUIRED.
NOW LOOKING FOR A CUTE SUBMISSIVE FEMALE TO ENJOY AND INCREASE HER AND MY EXPERIENCE , SO AS I ALWAYS GET WHAT I WANT I WILL LET YOU KNOW WHEN I FIND HER.
Why Hello, this is kind of Deja Vous I used to be on this site when it had a slightly different name. Then I decided to to do the whole marriage thing and be respectable and have the picket fenced home and a family and a cute family pet. So I gave up my perversions and became a stepford wife. Sadly it didn't last , well not sadly, it just didnt last and we went our separate ways, I missed the lifestyle and he missed normal people who didn't want to tie up his ass and torture him lol.
So I am a Dominant female, I am mainly seeking inexperienced submissive men but I occasionally enjoy a cute female. I am patient and enjoy inexperienced subs that I can explore with. if you are already well trained you are probably not for me. I appreciate other peoples trophies but I like to create my own.
I am medium build. I have been in the US for 10 years I am originally Dutch but I speak perfect english.
I am clean safe and disease free.
I have a job here in Texas so not looking to relocate. I have a nice home and I can accommodate by prior arrangement.
I like straight men who have sub tendencies , I find men who have demanding responsible jobs where they are in control are the best to Dominate as they are open to giving up that responsibility and control and finding the freedom in doing that. So if no one would guess you are a sub then you are looking for me. I also like sub females willing to learn or I am willing to mentor. I will work with Dommes and give a female perspective on training your sub or be involved if that is required and agreed.
I am a Hedonist I love pleasure and all ways of obtaining it. Erotic torture excites me wax, I am skilled in needle play (the anticipation of that can be intoxicating) caning and I adore metal and chain bondage. I only train by informed consent and I operate safe words and signals.
No one under 21 will be considered, I have limits and will respect yours. I don't pay or expect payment no money will be changing hands.
No on line real time only so be prepared to meet after initial initial chat introductions etc. I am a mentor and teacher and will advise and encourage the unsure.
Open to friendship and getting to know new people. Doms who want to discuss the lifestyle are welcome .
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I am not Pro Domme nor do I wish to be. I am not looking for tributes But I willaccept them graciously if you send them and I dont train for cash. If you want to buy me a gift on Amazon then by all means send me an Amazon Gift card every one likes gifts. I like gifts very much but I am not for sale and I never will be. |
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I think I have flu I feel pretty rough and just as I am about to get a few days off ?What is all that about.
I have met a few good people on here and I plan to engage in the next level with 1 or 2 .I can assure all concerned I am discreet however I am not into married/ attached people who are going behind their partners backs I dont need to deal with hysterical wifey who has just discovered your kinks. So if you going to try and sneak behind a partners back go sneak elsewhere as I want subs who are man and woman enough to take responsibility for their own actions and own their kink be proud and not cheat on those who care for them, |
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To save some folks fingers from typers cramp I would like to point out that I am not an on line Domme. I am purely hands on very hands on. I like to get down and dirty with my pets without the aid of a keyboard.
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Well we all live and learn. I tell you what there are some pretty judgemental people residing in this world we are supposedly we can enjoy and celebrate our kinks. As long as its legal and consensual live and let live thats my motto. I have been told off because I might want more than one pet, I have been told off for not liking extreme pain play. I have been told off for not wanting to do on line only real time. Give a kinky hedonist Mistress a break guys. I want to see my pets going the extra mile because my pleasure means so much to them not because I might beat them to a pulp. Each to their own....
So last night I had a gem of an evening and I met with a old friend a Dominant and his new sub. He is an amazing patient man who cares for his subs and she is a new sub who has discovered the lifestyle in her 50's after many sheltered years feeling repressed and guilty about sex. It refreshing to see that anyone can explore their need and desires at any age.
The sad thing is that in her late teens this subs first sexual experience revealed she was a squirter and she gushed like a fountain.This experience followed by ridicule from her partner who told her she wasnt normal led her to avoid sex for years.
Her Dom is working with her to embrace the squirting and be proud of it and explore all aspects of her sexuality. He asked me to put take part in a play session and I was blown away by her gushing pussy I have never seen anything like it. She was proud to be serving her Dom and a Mistress to the best of her ability.They are working towards her posting her own squirting videos and I am sure she will have many fans and good luck to her. I am sure many will enjoy her talent.
I wish them both luck and seeing the progress this sub has made confirms my belief that
submission brings freedom and a Doms guidance and control can give a sub the permission to be themselves and explore their desires without judgement.
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I am a little bit of a contradiction as I am a Domme who believes in personal freedoms and our right to chose. After we have all chosen this lifestyle /interest/sexual preference. We are on here by choice are we not? . So then we should each respect each others right to chose to seek the right person/people for them. Accept that right person may not be you. Why get angry /aggressive a little bit stalky if someone says no? . They have given an honest answer take it with grace and move on. Would you prefer to be lied to or led on?
If you not the right person this time you may be the right person next times, so dont waste energy on the no's save it for the hell yes's.
Trust me I get rejected to but I just straighten my crown and walk on like a Boss.
I keep being asked why do I want to hear from Doms if I am a Domme ,simple there is nothing wrong with making friends and sharing with the like minded. |
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Well nothing changes , still plenty of subs writing to me telling ME what I will be like and telling ME what I will do . I think their little heads are confused. I and I alone will decide what I will be like. If you want to be in control and tell people what to be like you aint really a sub .....I am just saying. Oh and if I don't start chatting with you it means I am not interested .., comprende.
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