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I started in the lifestyle in real life at age 19 as a submissive. I quickly branched out as a switch. BDSM has always been an important part of who I am and how I interact with those I care for. On a personal level, while I am a switch, I prefer to relate to most people I meet as an equal. While I may not have personal relationships that do not in some way involve BDSM, I don't care for being pigeon-holed by those I am not intimate with. At play parties and in social situations I often put on my dominant hat. It is indeed the role I am probably the most naturally inclined to. For very select and intimate situations I still enjoy submitting. I don't have much use for standardized BDSM. I believe that ultimatly any BDSM interaction is all about mutual gratification. It doesn't matter what or how you are doing it if you and your partner are having a wonderful time together. If there is to be formality I like it to be that which is created joyfully between consenting partners rather than from outside expectations. I am "into" too many BDSM activities to count. I like all genders and in-between genders in my partners. Most power orientation situations get me off. I do fire play, cutting, needle play, role play, play-rape, name calling, hair pulling, face slapping, CBT, geni-torture, medical scenes, fetish wear of all sorts, objectification, anal, oral, vaginal, watersports, impact, service, position training, foot worship, body worship, scratching, bitting, hummiliation... well you get the idea. I make molded hand crafted leather masks that are painted and very lovely. I like leather quite a lot and have some pictures on here. If you are local and interested in anything I make let me know and I can give you a little bit of a deal off the store prices. If you want to look at my store it is one of my website links.

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8/11/2007 7:02:54 PM
     I need to mention as far as Dominant men here are some things I am not interested in:  

1.   I don't want to play with anyone who is cheating on a wife or significant other.  If she isn't ok with it then I am not ok with it. 

2.  While I am open to older men I prefer to stay within an age range of 25-40.  Eventualy I would like a serious relationship and that is best within a range of my own age.  That doesn't mean I would not make an exception for a paticularly interesting male.

3.  I am not into long distance.  If you are not in Iowa or you don't travel to Des Moines at least once a week ect I am probably not interested.

4.  I am not interested in casual encounters and I don't do sex with everyone I play with.  If you are traveling through town once on business and want a quickie there are women you can pay for that.   I would love to find that commited partner and be his little whore.  I would not like to be your one night stand.

As far as relationships go I am really seeking a friend first.  I want someone to pamper and worship.   I want to be valued and appreciated by someone who I make the focus of my attention.   I have a lot to offer someone.  I have areas that need improvement.   I am young, fairly attractive, come from an intact family in small town Iowa.  I don't have a history of abuse or mental problems.  I am intelligent, employed consistantly, and capable of standing on my own.  I would love to find someone to share myself with. 

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cherry99
 
 Age: 30
 Little rock, Arkansas