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Pansexual Female Switch, 28,  San Diego, California
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LadybugBlue - San Diego, California

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 LadybugBlue

 Female Switch

 San Diego 

 California

 5' 3"

 190 lbs

 28

 Pansexual

 Multicultural

 05/19/07

 01/22/11

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:

 Dancing

 Poetry

 Writing

 Loves:

 Amusement Parks

 Coffee Shops

 Movies

 Shopping

 Collars (Beginner)

 Corsets (Beginner)

 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Getting)

 Munches

 Tickling

 Vibrators

 Cooking

 Meditation

 History

 Diet and Exercise

 Classical Music

 Reggae

 Buddhism

 Judaism

 Likes:

 Art Galleries

 Beachcombing

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Fishing

 Flea Markets

 Gambling

 Garage Sales

 Museums

 Musical Theater

 Travel

 Bicycling (Beginner)

 Horseback Riding (Beginner)

 Martial Arts

 Snorkeling

 Walking

 Blindfolds (Beginner)

 Bondage (Beginner)

 Corner Time (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community

 Leashes (Beginner)

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play  (Beginner)

 Role Playing (Beginner)

 Shibari  (Beginner)

 Spanking (Beginner)

 Speech Restrictions (Beginner)

 Uniforms (Beginner)

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Cartoons

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Online Chatrooms

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 Simulation Games

 Sitcoms

 Web Surfing

 Aromatherapy

 Beading (Beginner)

 Candle Making (Beginner)

 Drawing

 Photography

 Sculpting (Beginner)

 Sewing

 Archaeology

 Astronomy

 Biology

 Blogging

 Chemistry

 Intellectual Discourse

 Mathematics

 Nutrition

 Paranormal

 Philosophy

 Psychology

 Alternative Music

 Blues

 Eighties Music

 Funk

 Industrial Music

 Jazz

 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music

 Oldies

 R&B

 Rock Music

 Catholicism (Expert)

 Badminton

 Darts

 Horse Racing

 Ice Hockey

 Swimming

 Volleyball

 Tolerates:

 Bar Hopping

 Clubbing

 Aerobics

 Rollerblading

 Anal Play

 Arcade Games

 Chess

 Cybering

 Newspapers

 Online RPGs

 Romance Novels

 True Crime

 Conservative Politics

 Economics

 Political Activism

 Veganism

 Americana

 Country Music

 Folk Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Pop Music

 Rap

 Seventies Music

 Christianity

 Baseball

 Basketball

 Bowling

 Football

 Soccer

 Curious About:

 Antique Shows

 Bird Watching

 Opera

 Renaissance Faires

 SCA

 Volunteerism

 Camping

 Climbing

 Gymnastics

 Hiking

 Pilates

 Rafting

 Sailing

 Scuba Diving

 Skate Boarding

 Surf Boarding

 Tai-Chi

 Ultimate Frisbee

 Wind Surfing

 Yoga

 Begging (Beginner)

 Body Worship

 Breast Play

 Cages

 Canes and Crops

 Chastity

 Crossdressing

 Dilation

 Electrical Play

 Enemas

 Exhibitionism

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Genital Punishment

 Domestic Servants

 Foot Worship

 Gags

 Hoods

 Housework Service

 Humiliation

 Hypnosis

 Knife Play

 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Medical Play

 Mental Bondage

 Needle Play

 Objectification

 Orgasm Denial (Beginner)

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Plastic Wrap

 Queening

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Deprivation

 Serving as a Maid/Butler

 Stockings

 Strap-Ons

 Suspension

 Theatrical Scenes

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax play

 Whips

 MMORPGs

 Alternative Medicine

 Art Collecting

 Astrology

 Body Art

 Cross-Stitching

 Gardening

 Herbalism

 Investing

 Knitting

 Online Auctions

 Painting

 Pottery

 Singing

 Soap Making

 Tattoos

 Cryonics

 Liberal Politics

 Libertarian Politics

 Nanotechnology

 Nihilism

 Occultism

 Physics

 1950s Household

 Cuckolding

 Goth Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard

 Polyamory

 Swinging

 Vampirism

 Victorian Household

 Blue Grass

 Electronica / EDM

 Hip Hop Music

 Opera

 Punk Rock Music

 Show Tunes

 Agnosticism

 Atheism

 Druidism

 Feng Shui

 Hinduism

 Islam

 Kabbalah

 Mormonism

 Neo-Paganism

 Reiki

 Scientology

 Taoism

 Wicca

 Auto Racing

 BMX

 Kick Boxing

 Paintball

 Skiing

 Sky Diving

 Snowboarding

 Dislikes:

 Raves

 Hunting

 Weightlifting

 Fire Play

 Gas Masks

 TV News

 TV Sports

 Karaoke

 Female Supremacy

 Gorean Lifestyle

 EMO Music

 Operetta

 Body Building

 Boxing

 Golf

 Street Hockey

 Tennis

 Wrestling

 Hates:

 Running

 Diapers

 Horror Movies

 Low Carb

 Hard Limits:

 Fisting

 Watersports

UPDATE:  I have updated my "seeking" to female subs, since I seem to get hits and messages without selecting males anyway (not that I really care what you have between your legs - chances are I won't be playing with it much anyway).  WITH THAT IN MIND, any potential sub that messages me without reading my whole profile, or who messages saying nothing more than some form of "order me around, i am scum" will find their messages ignored and, if multiple empty messages are sent, will find themselves blocked.

About me:

I'm 28, single, and learning more about the BDSM world. I affiliate as a poly switch bisexual, if you want to use labels anyway, though I tend to bottom more for specific scenes/playtime, and prefer being a Domme of sorts for the day to day.  I go by LadyBug Blue, LadyBlue, or you can also just call me Blue.

About what I am looking for:

My future dream sub/slave/whatever you want to call yourself (ie: the s in the D/s dynamic), will need to preferably be local.  I would love to spend every hour of every day in the lifestyle, but in this economy and job market, and where I am in my life at the moment, that just is not feasible.  I have listed out some of what I would ideally like in my journal.  If you are interested, take a look and send a message with any questions.  Good, honest questions from people who truly want to know more will not be ignored.

While a relationship may be able to start online, it will need to be able to move to IRL at some point, as I spend 40 hrs a week on the computer at work, I do not want to spend every waking non-work hour on it as well.

And for those of you reading all the way down here, yes, the tatas in my profile pic are mine, and they are real and home-grown.

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Journal Entries:
11/26/2009 8:51:32 PM
Well, well, well, much has happened since I was last online here. First and foremost, there is no longer actively (and soon will not be legally) a husband in the picture for me. A am vaguely still seeking....something, but nothing intense at this point in time, as I am still healing. Not much else to say at this point.

12/21/2008 8:53:38 PM
Well, I've posted and changed my profile to show I am actively seeking...  I have been testing the local waters and feel greatly conflicted.  In some ways, it almost seems as though I am asking for too much, but at the same time, I don't see how what I am wanting is truly too much.  Certain things I am definite on are keeping a sub journal and being open to assignments, which will most likely include some form of written assignments from time to time.  I also insist on the sub/potential sub having his/her own place and job (though I can assist in finding a job if the potential sub is in a similar place to where I was this time last year).  The sub journal will be an eventual requirement, and that is purely because I want him/her to have a safe place to write what is really going on and check in on their reality without fear of punishment.  While I may (and will) request to read portions of it or see it from time to time, nothing in the journal will be subject to punishment or retaliation.  Another thing I am looking at in a potential sub is ensuring our tastes and styles mesh well.  No matter how much W/we may want to create a relationship with that D/s dynamic, if the sub is looking for high impact play and 24/7 TPE or human toilet play, they may well be disappointed by my sensation play scenes, part time D/s time and human toilet hard limits.  I've lost track of were I was going with this, but if you are reading all of this in with interest in potentially serving Me, I appreciate your effort.  And if you understand all of my rambling, I congratulate and applaud you.

10/9/2008 1:35:59 PM
Well, life's been getting better, slowly.  Not quite looking for a sub yet, but I will be, and soon, I think.  The beginning of the year at the latest.  In that vein, I received a message yesterday, asking what I am looking for in a sub.  It was quite a question, and got me thinking.  I finally came up with a much longer answer than I think she was expecting, but I think it's worthwhile to post here.  Some things I would prefer in a potential sub:  1) obedience. some bratting is fine, but when it comes down to it, I would rather reward than punish   2) their own place. Moving in may eventually be an option, but I do have a husband, and we're currently in a studio apt with a cat.   3) the knowledge that, while I am married, He will not be the master, nor am I an alpha sub. I will have My own sub, though I may request service be performed for Him, and I will require the same respect be given to Him as to Me and any other Master/Dom/me that W/we may be around.   4) an open mind. I am still learning, and I doubt anyone will ever be done with T/their education. I am also human, with other demands on My time beyond BDSM   5) the realization that while some sexual play may occur, as will play time, I do have a primary relationship with my husband, and He will always come first. (though I may cum first LOL)   6) I will also prefer a sub/slave that will be willing to do their homework, and is willing to accept assignments, which may include essays. I was an English Major, and I am a writer. I use my education.   6a) sub-category to the above. While some web-speak is fine, specifically online, in written assignments I do get twitchy about poor grammar/spelling. If this is an area that my sub has problems with, I want them to be willing to work on it with me.   7) Open to protocol and restrictions that I set at My will. I will always negotiate rules and punishments with My sub, but I will demand that they live up to the negotiation   8) A sub journal. What can go into it, etc, will be discussed.   9) someone open to a combination of negotiated and agreed upon limits and roles as well as the organic growth that comes with any relationship.   and the most important thing: someone I get along with. On the flip side of that coin is what I am not looking for.  I do not want a doormat, a primary partner, or a Dom to collar me.  Doormats are flat, one dimensional, and go under my feet.  A sub, while she/he may serve for me, should be a complete person that can be molded to My will as well as their own.  I have a primary partner.  He would be upset if my sub tried to take his place.  He was here first.  I am not looking to wear someone's collar.  It's just not where I am at right now.  I also do not want to be a random babysitter for other Dom/Domme's and their property.  There are a few select exceptions, and most of those are not on CM.  Wow!  I've been getting long winded on here.  I guess I should say as well that if you are interested in possibly serving me, CM me with what you are looking for in a Domme.  Also, if you refer to something posted in one of my journals, I will know you read to the bottom of my profile page.  That is a GOOD thing.

7/19/2008 3:13:40 PM
Random rant on honesty, roles, and WIITWD -

IMHO, this lifestyle, this microcosm is built on a need for honesty and communication. That being said, in my world, my circle of friendship, and in consideration for any future subs/pets, I require honesty. Don't say you want to be a pet, or even a sub, if you need constant attention and refuse to open your mind to behavioral restrictions. I do not let my cat on the computer, nor does she have my constant attention. In the same way, if I were to have a human pet, they would have limited access to the internet daily, and while I would be attentive to their behavior, they would not have my undivided attention. 

Honesty - Be honest about your needs, your likes and preferences. And be consistent. Don't say you want my husband to be primary Dom, then act as though I am your main owner and he is alpha sub. He is not collared and it is unlikely we will ever wear each other's collars. It just wouldn't work. 

Some of you may wonder where this is all coming from. Suffice it to say, yes, I've been burned, and I've been doing a lot of journaling and thinking about how things went wrong and what can be corrected in the future. I am also thinking about any future subs/pets/etc I may have and the steps they will need to go through to get to the consideration period and the additional steps/hoops they will need to go through to gain a collar from me. 

The occasional scening and play is fun, it's easy, and I have TONS of room for it. At the same time, I do some time want to have another sub someday, and my previous experience was, to say the very least, a learning experience on how trying to do so much right can go so very wrong. 

And if you read this, you know who you are and what you really are. Live with it.

4/8/2008 11:10:10 AM
I'm currently still looking for sources to use for training and mentorship for my more Domme side.  Our girl is no longer ours, though.  She dropped her collars this morning.

*expletive* 

2/3/2008 6:30:49 PM

2/3/08 - Yaay!!! My puppy girl is on the site now!!!!  *happy dance*    And I like playing with emoticons...... they're fun....


1/27/2008 2:22:38 PM
1/27/08 - Haven't been around in here lately. My darling Ruhe and I have happily found a girl whose collar we share.

Life is good right now!

5/27/2007 3:56:47 PM
I've noticed a trend. My profile has been looked at by only men it appears. I realize, as my ever so kind husband reminds me, that my cleavage is appealling, but please, keep in mind, I have no interest in being dominant towards men. I am still in training after all.

My apologies, sirs.

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