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I am the First Lady of a Poly Ds House based in NE Ohio. I am seeking FEMALE born (that means you were physically born a female) subs or slaves, pets, dolls, sluts, holes, skanks, and bimbos to join and serve (real time) in our Poly family. Essentially right now the ideal candidate would be a long term within the house. However, I am open to speaking to anyone interested or who may have questions about a working Poly Ds House. :) I am not a Pro / Fin Domme. I have been in the life real time for over 15 years. I have earned my title as a Mistress. I do not demand respect I earn it therefore I form long lasting relationships. I live this way of life everyday and look forward to sharing it with a new member. I do not smoke, do drugs and am disease free. I expect the same from you.
I am real time only. I do not do cyber role play or game playing.

Chat on here doesn't work well so if you are interested please just send a message. Thank you! :)
*MALES please note* We are not currently in the market for male subs / slaves, however, will make the exception if a particular stellar one presents itself so do feel free to approach. Just know that all males will be trained, handled, and will serve under me. Male slaves in our House are strictly for service, my amusement and use (non-sexual).

~Lady V
Personal confirmation picture can / will be furnished upon request. You better have the same and be able to simply verify before we go into in depth conversation. I will not have my time wasted. (see journal entries for detail on the subject of verification)
2/15/2016 3:52:26 PM
Being an introvert and being a Mistress in the life is a weird combination, but it works for me. ;) -Lady V. 
1/6/2016 8:38:03 AM
Took a long break from here over the holidays to spend with family. It was very enjoyable. Signing back on here I can see there are some new faces, but not much has changed. As always if you cannot send a simple G rated confirmation picture (as I will for you) early on in the conversation it is guaranteed I will end the exchange. As much as I enjoy getting to know potential subs / slaves I do not like my time wasted by dudes pretending to be females, fakes, and flakes. Be serious or just be gone. -Lady V. 
11/7/2015 7:03:30 PM
Please Dominant Males / Females who contact me with an inquiry to help train your sub / slave: Not interested. If you cannot train him / her...perhaps you shouldn't be a Dominant in the life to begin with. Quit wasting everyone's time.  -Lady V. 
11/5/2015 5:29:14 PM
Apparently today was Redhead Day. Of course I didn't know this until the day was almost over, but at least I have a few more hours to celebrate. hehe! 
10/22/2015 4:55:03 PM
Again, I will ask you to photo verify as I will readily do the same. Sadly it has to be done see as how there are so many males pretending to be women on here or people just playing around. Know this, however, I will not instantly Skype, Text, or Phone with anyone unless simple familiarity has been established. I do wish to get to know potential subs / slaves to be sure we are a fit. I find though my time gets wasted when simple questions and the small "get to know you phase" are skipped for other forms of communication. Most who wish to run to Skype or get my phone number are likely dudes. I don't play games. I ask you not either. -Lady V. 
7/6/2015 11:58:06 AM
We had a great fourth of July! Family is in town for one more week and as much as I will miss them I cannot WAIT for things to get back to normal. :) There has been a lot of laughs and fun had. It has been a great summer so far! I am hoping all the good positive things we are working towards come to fruition soon!

Hope everyone is well!

<3 Lady V.
6/11/2015 11:35:05 AM
I have been really busy with family being in town. It has been so much fun and so exhausting all at the same time! I hope everyone is well and enjoy the summer! <3 Lady V
6/7/2015 6:10:58 PM
Yet another "female slave" admitting to being a guy. Thus, why I always ask for confirmation up front. If you cannot prove you are real than please move on. I don't need my time wasted by someone who feels the needs to play games. -Lady V.
5/13/2015 1:47:43 PM
Ten days and family will be in town for a few weeks. Pretty excited! It is a good way to usher summer in! <3
5/12/2015 1:19:05 PM

It would be nice if everyone had a working understanding of terms. However, I get that a lot are novices. If you label yourself as a slave be sure you are one. I have spoken to a lot on here that have checked the “slave” box, but truly have no clue that all of their limits or their attitude puts them as a submissive. If I pandered to all the limits most “slaves” on here have who would be serving whom? I suppose I have an old school view of what a slave should be. A slave has no rights and no limits. He/she is property. Realistically in this day and age the only right a slave will ever have is the right to choose his/her owner. Thus, they better pick an owner that meshes with their idea of how they wish to serve including their owners “limits.” A submissive is just the opposite having limits and rights.

I am open if you care to discuss any of this. Just drop me a msg.

5/11/2015 5:12:39 PM
What a joke. If you are going to send me your pic make sure it is of you. I WILL know if it is fake. Oh, and try not to pick someone who is famous. That just gives it away instantly. So funny! As if I wouldn't know. Thanks so much for the laugh!!! This is why I ask for a confirmation picture right off the bat as I do not like my time wasted. Go somewhere else with your games if you cannot confirm. ;)
5/4/2015 2:09:50 PM
From the end of May to mid July we will have family visiting off and on from out of town. It will be very busy and hopefully lots of fun! House visits as well as meet and greets can happen after mid July. :) Until then I am still very open to getting to know potential subs / slaves and arrange meetings after. We can talk here, via yahoo or Skype and when the time comes on the phone / text until. Interested in real time service? Drop me a message here! <3
4/29/2015 12:59:26 PM
I truly enjoy getting to know potential slaves for service in the House. This means not only discussing the life, but your vanilla life, and the mundane in your life as well. I wish to know every aspect of your personality including your likes and dislikes so I know if we will be a fit or not. It takes time and effort on both parties. It is important to me to know you as you know me. However, I have run into a hefty some who find holding a modest conversation to be a problem or give me attitude for simply showing interest. That along with most females on here being dudes is quite frustrating. There are many people on here trying to find that gem they can explore the life with. Perhaps if most would stop their game playing, drop their attitudes and get real CS would actually be an awesome place for those in the life to go.
4/14/2015 2:15:56 PM
I consider myself to be a polite person. I like all exchanges to be in that manner. If you are going to be rude or bratty I will not entertain it. ;)
4/13/2015 10:57:30 AM
I am so happy the weather here is finally starting to warm up and get sunny! I am very much looking forward to hikes, archery, and sitting around the fire pit with good people. :)

4/6/2015 11:49:31 AM
Nope, I am not a pic collector. If I wanted pics I would simply Google for such. However, I do wish to know the person I am talking to is real. I have a proof pic. I expect you to have the same. If this is a problem than please feel free to scam someone else. ;)
4/2/2015 11:51:12 AM
I have a three day weekend coming up so today is my Friday. :) I am really looking forward to the time off! I have a lot of things to do around here and if the weather is nice enough perhaps a hike. I do not celebrate Easter personally, but to those that do Happy Easter. I do hope you enjoy your celebrations and time with family. Have a good one all! -Lady V.
3/31/2015 4:29:42 PM
I had a great birthday! Thank you for all the birthday wishes! :)
3/27/2015 10:27:32 AM
Bring on my birthday weekend! I am very much looking forward to all the fun! <3
3/26/2015 5:27:20 PM

I will say it again...Yes, I am real. Yes, I can verify and will do so. I expect you to eventually do the same especially if we find we are interested in one another. It doesn’t have to be anything elaborate and I do ask for G rated pic. If you send a fake pic or have a fake pic in your profile that you are claiming to be you I will know. If you feel this simple request is “jumping through hoops” you can be gone. Why? It IS a simple request to be sure my time isn’t being wasted. (For those that are real here I welcome you to do the same.)

3/18/2015 3:51:39 PM
I will not off the bat talk sex or kink with you. Lets discuss what we are seeking and our limits. I especially want to know about you as a person both vanilla and lifestyle. I will not cyber so do not try.
3/16/2015 1:32:21 PM
I am not here to play games.  My profile states what I seek. I actually had a “female” contact me and after a small exchange came clean and told me “she” was really a dude posing as a female. As much as I appreciate the honesty and know this happens A LOT on here- it is still very frustrating.
3/9/2015 7:23:12 AM
Please note. If you are incapable or unwilling to provide verification of who you are (face photo with either your screen name or mine), then don't bother to write. I am not here for games, erotic stories or to talk about your fetish. I am here to find serious subs/slaves.
SweetMiss03
 
 Age: 19
 Batavia, Ohio