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Hetero Female Mistress, 42,  Bedford, United Kingdom
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To be fair to my predominantley submissive side i have decided to split my profile. This one will remain for my dominant side, where as a new one will be for my submissive side.

I am not looking for any other submissives, quite happy with my girl and cd maid.












Last Online:


 Dominant Female


 United Kingdom

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 2"

 140 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Bondage (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)

 Classical Music


 Coffee Shops  (Expert)

 Fine Dining (Expert)


 Museums (Expert)

 Musical Theater



 Horseback Riding

 Scuba Diving (Beginner)



 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)



 Electrical Play (Expert)

 Local BDSM Community (Expert)

 Fisting (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Massage (Getting) (Expert)

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)

 Plastic Wrap (Beginner)

 Role Playing


 Spanking (Expert)

 Stockings (Expert)



 Vibrators (Expert)

 Comedy Shows

 Science Fiction

 Alternative Medicine


 Cooking (Expert)


 Meditation (Beginner)


 Biology (Expert)






 Alternative Music


 Eighties Music


 New Age Music







 Going to the Opera

 Renaissance Faires





 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Dilation (Expert)


 Gags (Expert)

 Knife Play (Beginner)


 Medical Play

 Mental Bondage

 Munches (Expert)

 Needle Play (Beginner)

 Obedience Training (Beginner)

 Orgasm Denial (Beginner)

 Public Play  (Expert)

 Sensory Deprivation (Expert)

 Card Games




 Folk Music


 Heavy Metal Music

 Opera Music



 Rock Music


 Neo-Paganism (Beginner)

 Body Building

 Curious About:

 Theatrical Scenes

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Bar Hopping




 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Country Music

 Hard Limits:


 Domestic Service


 Housework Service

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay




 Gorean Lifestyle



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Journal Entries:
12/30/2009 4:39:20 AM
What a lovley xmas this has been.  Xmas day with family.  Boxing day a small private bdsm party at mine with close friends, can still hear the buzing of the violet wand followed by knife play on a sensitised back, all whilst in a karada.  Absolute bliss.

Day after boxing day it was off to Ann and Rolys party for the first time, excellent venue, plenty of space, good play equipment, clean and lots of friendly folks.

New years eve will be an absolute delight to a rope bondage slut like myself.  Im off to a private rope party at a friends house, this particular friend has his own A frame in the lounge.  The same A frame I had my first taste of suspension on droooools.

I hope that everyone is having as much fun as myself this festive season.

12/25/2009 3:02:08 AM
Happy Yule, xmas and belated Solstice greetings to you all.

10/25/2009 11:01:38 AM
Yet another great weekend.  Went to an early Halloween party at the Whipkicks.  Certainly was a party with a difference.  Pass the parcel had forfeits, have to admit i lucked in on that one, my forfeit was to spend 30 minutes in a straight jacket.  Such hardship lol, not as a lover of bondage i was in seventh heaven heheheh.

I even won the second pass the parcel my prize being bondage tape (can it get any better).

Totally shattered once again, but what a wickedly fun party.

10/18/2009 1:34:58 PM
My apologies all for not replying , currently recovering from a fantastic weekend, Oblivion on friday followed by Treason on saturday, im completely wiped but smiliing a lot teehee. 

Will reply once brain is back in gear.


9/22/2009 1:13:00 AM
What a wonderfull weekend I ended up having.  The night at Oblivion went well, lots of birthday cuddles and a lovley pressie from Marmite who runs Oblivion.

Saturday night could not have gone better, friends travelled from as far as Felixstowe, Leicester,  Lancashire to attend.  A night of conversation from the silliest to the most indepth, coupled with lots of laughter.  Two lots of birthday spanks for me plus a good caning, thus endeding the day with a bang, or rather a slap and a wack lol.

My girl suprised me with my pressie, she had bought it when we were at a festival two weeks ago, Id admired her purchase so much id attempted to buy one for myself, they didnt have any left, which turned out to be a blessing as her puchase was my pressie and she had had to blasse it out.  My suspension hook is now cunningly disguised as a candle chandeler holder hehehehhehe.  No more awkward questions from the family heheheh.

Sunday at the BBB we all travelled up from mine, met up with some very dear friends of mine Kathy and her sub Lesley. Kathy was running a stall there and is quite the artisit when it comes to making BDSM equipment.  For my birthday she gave me the pick of all the floggers, with there beautifull hand turned handles.  Cant wait to try it out.

All in all an excellent if not exhausting birthday weekend.

9/17/2009 3:23:36 AM
Its my birthday today. 

Lots of plans and treats in store over the weekend.  Have friends from different parts of the UK, coming down tommorow night and we are off to a bdsm club, then Saturday night a party of mine and on Sunday the BBB.

Good job ive booked next week off, think Il need a week to recover heheheheheh.

7/21/2009 11:46:59 PM
I had to laugh today at the pomposity of some on here.

After a short conversation with a preported Dom, it was demanded that I present myself over camera.  Naturally I declined, and was then told i should be obeying.

Again I declined saying I would only obey  a Dom if i was there sub, and that is was ridiculous to expect me to obey someone i had only shared a few words with and not as yet met.

For some reason this person could not accept the fact that he was supposed to get too know the person first, see if there was mutual compatability.  Instead it was instand barking of orders.

Yet another uber Dom crossed off the list lol.

7/2/2009 12:29:40 PM
Well things are certainly looking up.  Spent five days at my friends the whipkicks convalesing and having a great time with two good friends.  They took me too every garage they could think of and at the last one, i found just the right car.  They had also organised a fetish picknick in the forest which was a total blast.

Picked the car up today, felt so good to get my freedom back.

Health is getting there though still some side effects from the crash that need a bit more time healing.

Really looking forward to next weekend, west london munch on the friday and lovetrix outdoor festival on the Saturday, fingers crossed on the weather.

All in all life certainly is getting better

My sincerest thanks to all my friends for being there whilst i went through this all xx

6/24/2009 10:19:56 AM

Im pleased to say, I am now well and truly on the mend.  The antibiotics have cleared the chest infection, thus allowing my diaphragm finally time to start to heal.

I can finally breathe, up unit 4 days ago just walking from room to room had me out of breath. 

Ive had such love and support from my friends in the community.  I am one very lucky lady.

Im really proud of myself, i have a chronic phobia of doing my paperwork at home, today i have cleared all my paperwork, filed it, cleaned out the outdated stuff from my files.  Sorted out all the paperwork to ensure i get a real price for my car,  their initial offer was a total joke.  Plus they chose the wrong lady to mess with, i wont be taken for a ride and know the true value of my car and have all the documentation including a full service history with the makers of the car.  Another grand on the offer and Il be happy.

Yet again i extend my thanks to my close friends in the community for their support and practical help whilst ive been going through this.  Coming out into this world has meant that i have met true friends who I can really trust and be totally me. xx

And also to the people on here many thanks for all their kind wishes to me, i was really touched by your kindness and kinda restored my faith on collar me.

Damn its good to finally be well on the road to recovery.

6/10/2009 11:58:06 PM
I was in a car crash last week, one which could so easly have killled me, however my guardian angel must have been watching over me.  As the fireman said half a foot the other way and efficitively i would not have been able to walk away.

Was very traumatic i was trapped in the car for over an hour, but i cannot praise the fire brigade enough, they helped keep me calm and from going into shock and got me out safe and sound.

im in a lot of pain from the accident at the moment, in my diaphragm and shoulder blades
A simple cough is agonising, and as for a sneeze, lets just say extra painkillers where needed that day.

On a plus note, many thanks to my friends for there help too me whilst im incapcited and car less.

5/18/2009 9:52:35 AM
Well i was a very naughty girl on Sunday.  Went to the BBB, had allowed myself a certain amount of money to treat myself to either a new item of clothing or a knew piece of equipment.

Lets just say i spent nearly triple the amount of money id allocated.  However in my defence the new metal boned corset from elegantly waisted is absolutley devine and the rubber mini skirt just completes the outfit.  And as for the toys well what girl could resist a magic wand hehehehe, certainly beats any of the vibrators you can get from the local sex shops.

All in all a very expensive but enjoyable day.

5/3/2009 8:32:15 AM
Many thanks to you all for your kind get well messages.

I am slowly but surely begining to feel more human again.  Hopefully by end of next week il be back to my normal bouncy self.  Till then lots of fresh fruit and veg for me, plenty of amo for my body to fight back.

Hope your all having a great bank holiday weekend.

5/1/2009 12:23:36 AM

It would seem that yet again im jinxed on the bank holiday weekend coming up.  Having lots of lovley things set up including staying with my dear friends in london. 

Ive ended up with the dreaded lurgy, my own fault in a way, I continued to go into work all week despite feeling rough, then yesterday my body said enough is enough and had quite a scare nearly passing out at the doctors.

It transpires ive been working whilst having the flu, though not swine flu thank God.

Am following doctors orders now and getting plenty of rest, drinking litres of water and taking medication at regular intervals.

Many thanks for the messages from my friends that are keeping me sane, whilst my normally active self is having to be kept in check.

4/13/2009 3:26:12 AM
What a wicked weekend ive just had.  Have spent the weekend on a friends narrow boat, which was conveniently located close to one of my favourite club venues and munch and also then just an hours journey towards the coast for a house fetish party.

Lots of fun and laughs, catching up with friends in london ive not seen for a long time at the West London Munch.  Then the next night a drive to Portsmouth, where the Domme in me popped out to play and gave the Hostess of the partys sub a good thrashing, then dealt with a very errant maid.  All good fun.

Hope everyone has had a good Easter

1/23/2009 1:48:04 PM
Back from the states, just slept 24 hours, but now over the dreaded jet lag.  Found a couple of large g and ts on the plane back aided sleep, though did increase the urge to smoke, thank goodness for the nicotine inhaler.

Was definitely a once in a lifetime experience.

1/17/2009 11:09:12 AM
Having a fantastic time in Colorado.  My first ever visit to the states.  Have to say ive found everyone to be so friendly and helpfull over here.
Only downside is the jet lag, my poor body doesnt know if its day or night lol.
Even the long flight over was cool, had such a laugh with the cabin crew ended up eatihng my dinner in the galley with them.
Was very proud of myself ive put off for years coming over to isit my friend because of the lenght of time i would have to go without a cigarette.  Visions of murdering fellow passengers used to come to mind lol.  But my new years resolution of grabbing life by the balls came through.  That with a little help from the nicotine inhaler, made for a pleasant journey.

10/31/2008 3:14:33 AM
Im off to a deliciously naughty fetish halloween party at Mistress Jos in Portsmouth.  Should be excellent fun.  There is going to be a raffle system, £1 a ticket and for this the lucky recipients will recieve 6 of the best from one of my implements when there number is called out.  All money raised will be going to breast cancer charity.

And if im lucky will end up with a sore bottom myself by the end of the evening.

Happy Samhain all xx

9/19/2008 9:16:46 AM

What can I say Ive just had the best birthday in years.

As my close friends know, the last year has been very difficult for me, health wise, financially and emotionally. But thanks to my dear friends rallying round ive got through this year.

I normally dread my birthday as the last few years they have been quite shitty. However this year a complete turnaround. My friends had decided this year it was all to change.

My birthday started the weekend before, with my friends Kisses for me and Kisses to night, who spoilt me rotten right down to a birthday cake with trick candles. The inner child jumped up and down with delight.

The night before my birthday i was taken ill whilst at my friends T5tarts house, which meant i couldnt drive home. Again all turned into a positive, it meant for the first time in years i didnt wake up on my birthday to an empty home. Instead it was hugs when i was poorly and bacon butties and coffee made for me on my birthday morning.

In the afternoon, my daughter gave me a new hair style which i absolutely love, then i was taken out in the evening for a delicious meal and lots of fun pressies.

Even work came up trumps, they did a birthday party for me all of them bringing in different foods, plus chocolate and flowers for me.

This is one happy little lady, who truly counts her blessings and the wonderfull friendships she has.

A big big thank you to all my friends for being there for me throughout this year.

An extra special thank you to Harmony, Raven Muse and Metal Miss, for keeping me sane, listening to me for hours, giving advice and cuddles when needed. xxxxxxxxxxxxx

8/25/2008 12:10:55 PM
Friends list

Please note I will only add people onto my friends list who i know in real life.

I have recieved friend requests from people ive never spoken too let alone met.  Please do not be offended if i decline your offer.  As ive stated above i only add if i know you in real time.

Hugs to all xxx

8/8/2008 2:09:02 PM
To all those fakers, wannabees, kinksters, please dont even bother trying, you are wasting your time.

Having been collared in the past to a manipulative, lying deceiving sadistic kinkster, who gave the facade of being a Dom, I have learnt my lesson well.

Unless you truly understand the concept of D/s and the fact that the sexual aspect is just one small part of it, then dont waste my time.

7/18/2008 3:44:09 PM
Something i cant understand, my hard limits clearly states puppy/pony play. So why does this seem to encourage memos from people into K9 fun and beastiality.  One puzzled subby

2/26/2008 10:15:28 AM
Now learning the art of Shibari, so if anyone has any handy links on this, please drop me a line.

8/18/2007 5:39:32 AM
Lets get something straight.  I am NOT looking to help you double 'Domme your bi sub.  And if your a ''Dom?'' wanting someone to bring out your sub side i am not the one.


Rant over

8/5/2007 12:29:31 AM
What i cant understand is my profile clearly states im looking for a Dom.  Not a sub, not a thrill seeker, picture collecter, time waster, but a Dom.

It would appear it is too much effort for some to actually take the time to read a profile.

Ive now stopped looking, when it happens it happens, till then my life goes on.

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