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April 15, 2012 This your wake up call! It's spring, the grounds are lush and green, flowers and weeds abound & gardening is stressing me out. I need your help, you know who you are. Life is not about an even exchange it is about knowing deep in your heart that you are where you're supposed to be, doing what your Mistress requires and happily providing service it is within you.


July 26, 2011
Consider this: It's all about Me and it's always about Me. I'm a Capricorn "a serious soul" I'm sensual and sadistic, a B.B.W., a bitchy crabby slut and I love to spank bad boys, service oriented submissives may apply for My attentions. The search goes on...I seek a boy for domestic &/or yard work, if you're local and are service oriented, I'd like to hear from you. It is my belief that friendship is build on a solid foundation, that includes our life/love style, especially this life/love style. We're attempting to build a relationship aren't we? Trust can be lost far too easily. One rumor & the communication, trust & relationship is at risk. I look for you to offer Me your obedience & your submission; it is not something I will 'force' or take away from you or beat out of you.
Let's make it safe & consensual, we both know it's never sane.
Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like no one is watching.

Lady ~V
P.S. I love the feel of rope, I enjoy being tied. Did I mention I will switch for rope?



6/17/2009 6:25:10 AM
Today it's raining, that means tomorrow it will be easier to pull more weeds.

I've been told what I seek is not a submissive, but a house boy.  Someone to complete chores inside and outside my home. 

How about a companion? A male submissive who has household tendencies?  I've never considered a slave as it goes against what I consider the description of the traditional slave.
6/12/2009 1:24:11 PM

I feel so alive at peace, serene, pleased with my life as it is at this moment. No commitments, except as I choose, this is a change for me and something I have been working up to for some time.  Sometimes life throws curves that are impossible to catch, no matter how big the mitt.   

Throwing a question out to those who read my journal. Why. Why do men think they are submissive when they are bottoms, just looking for a session or two. No thought to what I may need or want from him or building a relationship. This is my gripe...feed back??  Please copy and paste this section prior to writing your response.
3/16/2009 2:10:33 PM
March 16           

Lovely weather - want to tie you up outside in the woods. Then I want to work on you.  Blindfolded you have no idea what's coming, a tickle or a pinch, whip or cane.    

Later I want a long sensual massage
2/16/2009 4:13:42 PM

A day for catching up...

My health is slowly recovering; It's been so cold that my hips and back, feet legs and knees have been aching. At least today was sunny it's deceptive though - I just about froze my tush off walking earlier. 

Painful to admit I have problems - the weight has to go, house repairs must be made, starting with plumbing (water) leaks...wish I could pin point exactly where they are, but can't seem to. Next windows;  It's as though the windows let every draft in...brrrrrr. I will really be pleased when our days start getting warmer.


Lady ~Victoria       

PS still seeking











11/12/2008 6:15:01 AM
Wednesday, November 12, 2008        
A new President! I can't tell you how much this thrills Me!!! New opportunities, perhaps America will clean up her act and help those here at home more often than not instead of those elsewhere?  I've being going through some rough patches, health wise and will back in the saddle" very soon.  There's really nothing worse then lack of health is there? Peace to all,        Lady ~V



9/22/2008 1:28:25 PM
What is it with men who lie? Who pretend to be someone or something they're not?  Am I just that dumb? Ok to lie about ones age, should be a red flag - and not calling or being in contact outside of work hours always means he's married. Shaking my head, I know sometimes I am dumb, but do I look stupid to you? There is no "S" on my forehead and no "L" for listener or loser either.   So get over it! 

I am sadistic, who can blame me? Sometimes the best fun I can have is pinching, hitting or hurting another, so long as it's something they know is coming. I'd rather punish then discipline and yes there is a huge difference. Ask me sometime ok? 

Getting back to reality now; lovestyle or lifestyle how hard can it be to find someone who is interested in some of the same things I am?   It's fall officially today  - stay warm.  

Lady ~Victoria
9/8/2008 12:13:38 PM

TIME FOR FUN!   

bottom or submissive 

I want a new boy toy
 for 

Sadistic pleasures CBT, Wax, Bondage, Gags and more 

I need to play with you 
 


8/24/2008 10:54:26 AM

    Here it is almost Labor Day - the end of summer...and then it's gone all too fast. Michigan summers are barely a blink in time before winter starts arriving bit by bit until it's so cold goose bumps are a permanent fixture on My body.

    Mean while I wish all you Players would just drop right off the planet. I've had face to face contact with a few of you, please tell Me -  what's with the GAMES? I have feelings;  your games are hurtful and then your games just piss Me off. 

    Ok, back to My other rant - So many of you view Me in this venue and so few write and when you do write it's never with any real spirit of passion zest of life that surrounds LIFE, living or the Lifestyle.  I know you want to put your best foot forward, so Please, do and take a chance - engage Me, invovle Me. (weg!)

    Rolling My eyes, If you care enough to write - to take a few moments and tell Me about yourself. Not just "gee i like your picture" what moved you to tell Me?  What is your plan?  Ok you really just want Me to spank your tush or play with you; you aren't really going to dust My home, mop My floors or give Me a massage are you? Let me guess, you have no plan to be or do anything I NEED or I WANT are you?  BE HONEST WITH ME, can you be honest with Me?  Can you cut the crap and be honest with  yourself

    Are there any real submissive men out there that are free, able and avilable to meet My needs, desires and are like minded?  I'm not looking for a bottom, but a submissive male. 

    Ok, I am done ranting and raving for the moment. Enjoy the last few weeks of summer...if you're not a  Player and not someone who I can't introduce to My friends at some point - stay away. But if you have some real passion, zest for life and really are a submissive (in need training or not) contact Me.

    Warmly Lady ~Victoria
7/30/2008 8:26:47 AM
July 30, 2008          

Sometimes life gets so rushed that I don't have the time or patience for the lifestyle at all. Let alone interviewing or trying to fit anyone else into my life.        Lack of desire? NO Lack of time, finances and patience. Guess that's what keeps me real...             
Shaking my head, what I need is help with all these chores!          Any volunteers?
6/26/2008 10:28:10 AM

Happy Summer to you all! 

It's time to start talking about some basic rules to follow if you are new to BDSM.   

Always follow these simple rules, they could save your life.  Attend munches to meet people and always meet people in public.  Always make a safe call when meeting someone for the first time.  Do not play, scene or session on the first "date".  Do not until you feel safe with the other person.   Listen to your inner self (those tummy flutters or red flags) that is one way of knowing something's just NOT OK.   Whatever your need - GO SLOWLY  - it could save your life.  Read read read as much as you can about BDSM. Ask questions, remember there are no stupid questions.        

Be well, stay safe and have a great summer,   
 
Lady ~V

6/13/2008 7:33:45 AM


This message goes out to all you who "View Me" but don't contact Me - please do take the time - if you're that shy or don't think you measure up then stay hidden. Same goes for the "Admirers". Take a chance, it's your life isn't it? I'm not a mind reader, if you're attracted to Me let Me know it and let's start talking.  Life's short try eating dessert first!

Lady ~V

5/26/2008 6:04:29 AM

Memorial Day   


I'd like to THANK all the men and women who have served our Country.  Either serving now or have served anytime in our past.  Those YOU remember who died defending the USA.    

Take a moment and thank a Veteran for YOUR Freedom.  

Lady ~V
5/9/2008 9:06:35 PM

Hey Hi,

All you Michigan men pay attention-

submissives- bottoms- Switches; into D/s? bondage? impact play? like pain? take direction? household chores?  My personal chores? 


Have you got a good sense of self? smart? *sam*? laughter? humor? comedy? long walks? good food? music? did I mention humor? 
 
Walk beside Me, share what's important in life, I am a Dominant Woman seeking a submissive male.

I will enjoy your abilities; you will finally have fulfillment in your life.

I am about respect, communications, trust, companionship & humor.  

Do you have the desire to share all that life offers?

I'm available to singlemen over 35 years of age; ONLY those who take the lifestyle seriously, with honor and respect, realize your life will be in capable hands, Mine.


Note: if you're only purpose is to sit at My feet - do not respond; keep moving along. you're not My type. 


Looking forward to hearing from YOU,
  Lady ~Victoria

2/21/2008 7:34:56 AM
February 21, 2008

What a beautiful day today is, the sun is shinning (such a simple pleasure). I love sunny, blue sky days, especially when there's snow on the ground. Is it something you take for granted? BTW Last night was the last eclipse of the moon we'll have until 2010. 


Thank you all for writing lately, I appreciate each and every message, especially articulate, thoughtful messages (you know who you are).

I know I am a different kind of Domme; I am ME most importantly, not following some written or unwritten code or book of rules.  Maybe that is why it is so difficult to let just anyone into My life. Into My private little corner of the world - hey it's MINE.
OK time to ask - Are you My beshert? Do you think you can meet My needs?
That wasn't some kind of challenge, it's a    rhetorical question. I have simple needs, simple desires, don’t take that the wrong way, I like beautiful, lavish, soft, expensive, lovely things, but they are things, get My meaning? I am a beautiful human being who has desires and wants and most importantly needs, do you want to meet those requirements? Can you meet My needs?

Sometimes I seriously think it’s about Female Superiority, sometimes I think it’s about genuinely caring about someone that puts that person on the proverbial pedestal and then again I know it’s about internal needs and desires to build a foundation around meeting someone else’s needs, wants and desires.

What is it for you?      Lady ~V

1/17/2008 7:16:51 PM
January 18, 2008 

Happy New Year!

I've had my birthday and quit smoking, not in that order and we're only half way through the month.
Down side I lost my job in late December, that really is the pitts.  
Upside is that I will do more then survive, I will thrive...just watch me.  I could use a muse  is it you?

I've got time to grab a cup of coffee - let me know if you do!
 
~V
9/3/2007 7:43:24 PM

9/307 

Happy Labor Day - summer is offically over and although I've been dating - I'm still not in a relationship that meets more then a few needs. Remeber - it's about ME of course it's about you too, but if I'm not happy no one's happy. Get it?

Sad as it seems affection has become much more important then I thought it was when I wrote previously.  Oh yeah and I'm also willing to switch for rope/bondage. There are times when I NEED to feel that rope.

Enjoy the warmth and sunshine that September offers!

~V

7/3/2007 8:44:27 PM
July 4, 2007

 Summer is half over - Happy Independence Day!

Lately I'm enjoying more JOY! Feeling positive helps; up beat and enjoying the warmth that summer brings. 

Ok, still looking, waiting for someone to share my special talents with - on - and service - how will you serve me?

Meeting new friends (submissives & bottoms), enjoying the people I know and adore, playing a bit, smiling, laughing and adding JOY to my life.  I love it when I feel good inside and outside.  Smiling

Be well,  
Hugzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz ~V
 
1/8/2007 11:34:46 AM
April 4, 2007

Deep sigh, all you male submissives, slaves or wannabes who are not at least forty (40) years old STOP begging for my attention. 
Hey, nothing against you, just NO interest. 

Any of you out there who live across the BIG LAKE (ocean) or more then 3 hours from ME (train, jet or auto) stop asking for MY attention. 
Long Distance DOESN'T WORK for ME. 

Pay Attention!
 
Lady ~V

1/8/07
   Ok, where are the handsome, submissive men? I only seek only one or two of you with a genuine interest in D/s, bondage, companionship & a long term relationship.  No married men, none who are involved in a relationshp (even it's just sex); even if you're miserable in the relationship - if you're not legally free, keep right on walking past me.
I am educated, direct, have a great sense of humor, am BBW who is a Domme/switch. I love to spank a bad boy and sensually play with the male body. It's time I add some JOY in my life.
Lady ~V

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 Age: 23
 Newyork, New York