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Updated Profile - August 2006
Plus Size Suburban seeks subtle 24/7 D/s lifestyle
I am a stable, happy person that enjoys life and happens to be both Dominant and Sadistic in my sexual needs and wants. I'm intelligent and have a sarcastic and warped sense of humour. I want a longterm committed relationship with the right person, and am prepared to take my time to find that person. I'm looking for an intelligent, spirited, masochistic and sexually submissive guy that can make me think, feel, and laugh my ass off, who desires a long term committed relationship based on love, communication, and trust.
About D/s and sex in general.. I dont play casually, nor am I looking to be anyone's "on the side" relationship who is looking for kinky times, or escapism out of an unhappy relationship. I'm smart, stubborn, bossy, passionate, and kinky. I'm a control freak and thrive with the mental and power exchange aspects of bdsm... but I'm not going to go into the specific details of what I've done, or what I'd do to you, until I know you much better. I set the pace... and I expect alot. I'm open minded, but have no patience for games or those seeking instant gratification stimuli.
About me: I'm financially stable in a job I really enjoy, divorced, love being a mom to my 13 year old son, and am itching to travel and explore the world more. I'm a movie fan, both at the theatre and snuggled down at home. I'm passionate about listening to music (as long as its not country, or the girl/boy band crap). I love walking, and enjoy the outdoors of this great province alot. I have many friends, and much of my family is local... and I actually like them :) I have a cat. I have 1 plant that tolerates me.
About you: I would love to find a guy that thrives in good coversation and mellow times with friends and family, just as much as exciting times out and about. A guy that doesnt mind getting dirty (in and out of the bedroom), but appreciates being clean as well. A guy that ideally seeks marriage (or re-marriage, as the case may be).. but only with the right woman he's prepared to respect and adore as they spend their life growing and thriving together. Gotta like kids... gotta like pets... gotta like me :) Know yourself, and be yourself.. ultimately, chemistry and compatible life paths are the key.
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So today I'm browsing through Canadian male submissive profiles, and what do I read, but some lame jerk who has actually copied sections of my profile description word for word to supposedly describe who he is a person. I bet he copied others essays in high school to be able to graduate too. How annoying.
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Well now I've just turned 37... who knew that the search was going to take so long to find a compatible partner.. sometimes I get impatient, but then I just have to believe that he'll be worth the wait. I would really love to be excited about having a 3rd date though... getting to know each other takes time. |
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Well I feel like a real idiot tonight... I actually thought I may have found him.. and let down my guard, and left myself vulnerable.... only to discover that I'd been lied to... about several things... things key to determining the evolution of a real meaningful relationship. I try so hard not to be jaded... but why do so many people seem to have a problem being honest, even to themselves? I know I have to keep putting myself out there... it's the only way I'll find what I want in a partner... but I really wish there wasnt so many players out there. It hurts.. and not in any of the fun ways. |
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I'm disappointed that I have to explain the most basic of things... I feel like I put alot of effort and detail in my own profile.. I'm making an effort to be direct and honest about who I am, and what I'm looking for... but it seems like I still have to spell some things out.
If you approach me on here, and it seems like we hit it off through messages, I -will- want to chat on the phone... and I -will- want to meet... yes boys, that means in Real Life. I'm not looking for tributes... I'm not expecting you to start paying my rent... but I'm looking for a serious relationship in the real world, not some fantasy and/or online thing. If talking on the phone, and/or meeting face to face is too intense or real for you... then dont waste my time by approaching me in the first place. |
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Just some food for thought before approaching me. So many boys on here claim to be respectful, and believe in Female Superiority (I dont personally, but thats a discussion topic if interested in the whys).. but really what they mean is that they are really good at giving lip service. Being respectful of women, is not just when it suits you... not just when you think there is a possibility of 'getting some'.. not just when something better hasnt come along yet. Disrespect has got to be one of my biggest triggers... if you arent interested, SAY SO.. if you change your mind, SAY SO.. if someone else seems more interesting, or you are looking for a Drive Thru Domme for instant gratification, SAY SO. I would much rather have an honest answer, than the disrespect of no reply at all, or a lie.
Please, someone on here prove to be the exception.. D/s compatible AND not a jerk.. I'm getting impatient. |
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I just don't get it.. sighs softly. Maybe I'm asking too much.. when I say I seek a guy with intelligence and humour, THAT is just as important to me as D/s compatibility. Being a Domme is part of who I am, all the time, but that doesn't mean I'm actively doing D/s things all the time. I've got (mostly) vanilla friends, a vanilla workplace, and I'm the mother of an 11 year old son. Finding someone that can hold an interesting conversation, keeping me engaged, happy and/or amused that has NOTHING to do with D/s is JUST as important to me as D/s compatibility is. If all you are on here for is to talk/seek D/s, and either have nothing else to offer, and/or are not willing to share of yourself, then I am not the Domme for you. |
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| Age: 24 |
| Zamboanga city,
Philippines |
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