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LadyThornrose

Hello friends. I haven't bothered logging on here since August. Real life has been difficult and I don't have the energy for "unreal" life. I'm only interested in relationships that will make a tangible difference in my real/vanilla life. I didn't answer most of my emails since they were so old. Let me know if you would like to be a part of each others' lives. FYI - Still married and sexually exclusive, still looking for people to provide me with the things I desire and who want the things I can provide.

If you're not interested in SSBBW's, don't waste our time. If you are ONLY interested in SSBBW's, don't waste our time. There is much more to me than that.

























Plain English: 1. I'm married and sexually monogamous at this time. (I don't cheat.) 2. I like to get to know someone for a LONG time before they are allowed in my physical presence. 3. I am only interested in people who value their privacy as much as I value my privacy. 4. If we don't share a vanilla/real-life friendship, I'm not interested in any other type of relationship with you.


I'm always interested in making new friends of ALL walks of life. If you just want someone to correspond with and confide in, I'm here for you.

I value people and I am not interested in hurting/harming/abusing anyone. That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy a wife variety of BDSM activities, it means that I am only interested in activities with consenting adults. I like stretching limits but I'm not interested in making you an inanimate object. I'm not interested in forcing you to express your affection and adoration for me. I am interested in people who take pleasure in pleasing me.






















I have a consort and beloved subs/slaves. I'm just interested in correspondence (including Domination) with like-minded people.
FYI - The things I value most are love, kindness, gratitude and generosity. 80/20 Vanilla/Ds, 80/20 mental/physical I would love to find a "butler" type of submissive. Are there any Jeeves', Iantos, Alfreds, Dornez', Belvederes, Wongs or Jarvis' out there? :)
Thank you for all of the birthday wishes, especially the postcards and other treats! It means so much to me and I am so very pleased! :)


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No person or organization has my permission to use anything I have posted on this site.

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Hello New Friends!


I've removed most of my photos so I want to make something clear. Depending on your viewpoint, I am an apple-shaped BBW or SSBBW. If this isn't your thing, no need to apologize by saying "I'm sorry, that's just the way I feel." Anything you feel is GREAT! But if I'm not your "thing," don't waste your time contacting me. You've been told.

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I am currently in a physically monogamous relationship. Let me repeat that. I am in a physically monogamous relationship. Whether or not I'm happy in it doesn't really matter, does it?

I am a very loving, affectionate, caring - almost matriarchal - person. I believe that women are to be treasured, respected, obeyed, provided for and protected. I don't think one proves their superiority by being cruel, rude or unkind, and I don't think that D/s is a financial transaction. (Sorry to disappoint some of you!!!) I like the traditional roles of men and women with one twist. I think men are at their best when they give themselves COMPLETELY to the service of ONE woman. A woman that respects and appreciates their submission. (What a beautiful gift!) I just love win-win situations!

- I would love to find a local sub friend near the North Charleston area to do mundane activities with: sightseeing, running errands, window shopping, etc. NOT a physical or sexual relationship.

- I'm available If my soulmate should come along. HAH!

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I've archived the rest of my profile to my 09/06/2009 journal entry.

5/4/2014 8:15:00 PM

I've learned so many valuable things here... what I'm like, what doesn't thrill me and what I'm indifferent about.  I'm "for" men who take care of the women in their life.  In EVERY way.  I'm "against" abuse and inhumane treatment.  Punishment and inflicting pain doesn't do much for me.  I'm more interested in willing, grateful SERVICE.  Oh.  And I still love human lab rats.  :D

 

 

2/13/2014 11:29:06 PM

Is anyone interested in playing Hearthstone?  I would play WoW but my account is expired.  :(

2/13/2014 11:20:24 PM

Happy VD!

6/8/2013 2:45:09 PM

"Define love."

 

"...The active caring and concern for the health and well-being of another person's body and heart. Active. Not passive."

 

- Karen Marie Moning 

 

 

5/15/2013 12:24:45 PM

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.

-Lao Tzu

 

 

 

 

1/23/2013 5:26:25 AM
I am so incredibly grateful that last year is over and that this year is off to a FANTASTIC start. This is the best year yet. :)
1/8/2013 2:01:14 PM
I want someone who gives me what I want and who wants what I give. Win-win.
1/2/2013 3:52:17 PM

Happy New Year!  It's my favorite "holiday."  Happy 2013!  It's going to be a GREAT year! 

 

My wish for this year is weekly maid service... and an extra $1000 a month... and... and... I'll just sit here and hold my breath.  LOL

 

My resolution... and if you don't like resolutions, keep it to yourself... is to seek out the good in every one.  I'm going to refrain from criticizing anyone... including me! 

 

 

9/24/2012 10:36:40 AM

Thanks for the birthday wishes!  It means a lot to me.  :) 

9/19/2012 6:48:38 PM

Birthday wish list updated.  Hint hint.  :)

5/15/2012 8:22:35 PM

This is the way the world ends. 

This is the way the world ends. 

This is the way the world ends. 

Not with a bang, but a whimper. 

 

5/13/2012 2:53:20 PM

Happy Mother's Day to everyone but me.

5/1/2012 10:38:36 AM

Happy thoughts.

4/1/2012 12:10:59 PM

Happy April Fools' Day!

 

This is sincere, even though it's April 1st: 

 

Thank you, thank you, thank you, to all of you who participated in my March Lab Rat project!!!  It meant a great deal to me.  It was VERY enlightening!!!  I have made what I hope will be lifelong friends, and definitely had some clarity about who I would wish to have as submissives, and more importantly, who I WOULDN'T wish to have as submissives.  (Shame.)

 

If you didn't complete the full month, I hope you will still do it.  I hope that some of you will continue to share with me your continuing "good deeds."  It brings me a great deal of pleasure to hear about them. 

3/17/2012 1:22:03 PM

Happy St. Paddy's Day!!!

3/11/2012 3:29:01 PM

I want to give a very heart-felt thank you to everyone who chooses to participate in my little lab rat projects.  I have enjoyed it so much!!!  This months project has been so enlightening!!!  It's great to see what someones REAL intentions are.  Very educational and useful information. 

3/10/2012 3:05:19 PM

Dear subs: 

 

Why do I have to look at your junk every time I read your profile?  Is that for you or for Me? 

 

Lady Ann

 

 

3/7/2012 9:09:00 PM

Happy International Women's Day!

3/6/2012 1:37:35 PM

Is anyone here an electrician?  I have a few questions that I need to ask someone.  Thanks! (By the way, these are practical, non-kinky questions.)

3/1/2012 6:35:53 AM

Dydd Gŵyl Dewi Hapus!  Happy St David's Day!

2/29/2012 8:40:52 AM

HAPPY LEAP YEAR!!!  Today is my favorite day.  :)

2/28/2012 2:50:02 PM

Thank you, w, for Frédéric Chopin "Nocturne #20 in C-Sharp Minor.

2/28/2012 12:36:06 PM

I'm emailing the project instructions/guidelines this afternoon.  Tell me if you don't get it.  And THANK YOU for doing this for Me!  

2/25/2012 8:15:57 PM

Happy Anniversary to me! 

2/23/2012 11:18:05 PM

Thank you, rob, for your thoughtful questions about the project.  I wanted to comment on a few things here, for other people that might be interested in participating. 

 

There is nothing "freaky" about this project.  It can be completely private and anonymous.  People are less likely to want to do it because of the LACK of freakiness.  It doesn't involve your penis or vagina.  It's not about you.  It's about service to someone else without receiving personal gratification from it.  It's not even about Me!  Feel free to pick someone else to be the recipient of your service. 

 

This is an experiment in adoration freely given.  It's an experiment in whether or not people are willing to do something to make the person they adore happy WITHOUT every detail being commanded.  It's also an experiment in whether or not you can stick to something... even something small and insignificant... for a full month.  A few people have already been culled.  I'm really curious to see who will last.  

 

I'm not giving every detail at this point because I don't want the people who require every detail to be part of the group.  However... full information will be given before it starts, and you are free to opt out at that time. 

2/22/2012 1:49:45 PM

Thank you to everyone who expressed interest in being a lab rat.  :)  More details will follow (privately) but let me summarize it here.  It will be for the month of March, and it will require 10 minutes (at your leisure) each day.  (Allowances will be made for seven days.)  How hard is it to do something... anything... for ten minutes a day for one month?  NOT VERY HARD.  If you're not willing to make this minimal commitment, move along.  :) 

 

 

2/21/2012 12:17:20 AM

I'm looking for long-distance lab rats for a new project.  It will take about ten minutes a day, at your leisure. 

2/14/2012 5:14:32 PM

HAPPY VD!!!

 

Pamper someone that you adore.  :) 

2/12/2012 12:55:57 PM

I was updating my Amazon wishlist today and I came across a book that I've wanted for ages:  Worshipping Your Wife.  Check it out on blogspot!  And live it!  :D 

2/12/2012 10:44:56 AM

Ugh.  I really hate the porn video ads on here.  Maybe I would like them better if they showed men!  8D

1/28/2012 2:25:01 PM

What ever happened to chivalry?  Romantic gifts?  Adoration for the sake of being adored, not because of being commanded?

9/9/2011 11:58:49 AM

Two more weeks until my birthday.  And you know what a baby I am about my birthday.  :)

1/4/2011 7:16:32 PM

Happy New Year!!! 

12/10/2010 6:28:11 PM
Does anyone have any GOOD ideas for earning extra money online? 
11/24/2010 8:22:36 PM

Happy Thanksgiving Day!  (If you're someone who celebrates it!)  If not, Happy Day!

10/8/2010 10:43:01 PM
I'm looking for friends to recruit to World of Warcraft.  Let me know if you're interested in playing with me.  :)  
10/2/2010 7:41:34 PM
If I hear one more person suggest that all submissive men are inadequate or flawed, I'll kick their ass.  Actually... I'll have a submissive man kick their ass for me.  ;) 


9/13/2010 9:21:32 PM
Ten days until My birthday.  Yay Me!!!  FyI I'm a big baby about My birthday.  Don't disappoint Me.  you have been warned. 


9/4/2010 4:11:35 PM
As requested, my birthday wish list is updated.  It can be found on Amazon by doing a search for "Lady Thornrose"  Thank you.  :)  Or feel free to just contact me if you want to add to my beloved postcard collection.  
8/23/2010 11:26:18 PM
Fun quiz.  :)

http://quizfarm.com/quizzes/Sex/poeticthinker/do-you-have-an-inclination-for-bdsm/

I thought most of the questions leaned toward submissives and switches but here is my score. 

You Scored as Dominant

(((Note: This quiz doesn't cover all aspects of BDSM due to the length that such a comprehensive quiz would be. I chose to keep it sex-based because the psychological reasons behind fetishes are complex and different for everyone to some degree.))) Sex is about power and you like to be powerful. It's nice to be in charge and get what you want. And being in a position where people will do what you say is exciting.

Dominant

75%
Experimental

54%
Switch

43%
Sadist

43%
Vanilla

39%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur

14%
Bondage

7%
Masochist

7%
Degradation Lover

0%
Submissive

0%




8/20/2010 7:38:52 PM
Thoughts about gifts: 

My birthday is next month.  Recently I got a message about it from someone dear to me.  he's always very thoughtful about doing something he knows I will appreciate.  It got me thinking about gift giving. 

Many of the men on this site seem to be very wary of professional Dommes.  I can appreciate that.  D/s is a very personal thing for me.  I am only interested in sharing with people I have built a long lasting (vanilla) friendship with: Mutually loving and affectionate.  NOT a financial transaction where someone is paying me to do what they want.  Needless to say, I'm not interested in being a professional Domme.   It's not for me.  No matter how much I could use the money. :)  

I wonder if the wariness of professionals is why so many men suck at giving gifts to people they care about.   Is it ignorance?  Laziness?  I dunno.  People who know me know that one of my favorite things is postcards.   PG rated postcards.  What a painless way to tell someone you care!   

Gifts can be very simple and easy.  Cash or gift certificates are always easy and you know they will get something they truly like.  People who know me know I love postcards, books, magazines, anything to do with travel, exotic goodies, and most of all, practical things that make my life comfortable.  But here's the beauty of postcards.  They're cheap - you can buy them anywhere, even Walmart, or even better, make one!  (I prefer postcard images that have a significant meaning to me, or even better, a significant meaning to you.  (I like to learn about you.)  They're easy - they only require a bit of text, they're private - they don't require a return address, and most importantly, they are something I love!  Something that I truly appreciate.  

That brings up another point.  I prefer the Platinum Rule over the Golden Rule.  DO UNTO OTHERS AS THEY WOULD HAVE YOU DO UNTO THEM.  When I hear about a man buying lingerie or stiletto heels for a woman, I often wonder... are you buying this gift for you or for HER?  Did you get it because you want to see her in it or because it's something she truly wanted? 

I bet just about every Domme on here has an Amazon.com wish list.  What a great way to either buy something for your Domme (or Wife) or at least get an idea of what she might like? 

DON'T BE LAZY.  If you care about a woman, give her a gift she will appreciate.  Frequently.  Women never forget.  The good and the bad.  If you truly care about her, do something to please her.  And don't wait for a birthday or holiday.  (But don't forget to remember her on special days, either!)  



6/16/2010 7:09:33 PM
Ready for a change.  
6/2/2010 10:39:34 PM
GROG, WHERE ARE YOU?
4/1/2010 5:22:44 PM
APRIL FOOL!  :)
2/3/2010 7:18:26 PM
Hi Folks! 

I've had a few computer snags recently.  I'm currently clearing off most programs on my computer in order to make a clean slate.  I don't have Yahoo Messenger at the moment, so I apologize for not being there.  Hope to speak to you soon!

Lady Ann


12/28/2009 5:08:13 PM
I collect Pre-Raphaelite Brotherhood images of Ladies hovering over knights.  ;)  If you come across any interesting images that are close to this them, please pass them along.  I also love artwork of long-haired, redheaded ladies, like myself.  I would love it if you shared any interesting links of these images with me.  :)
12/26/2009 6:17:02 PM
HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!! 

My second favorite day - NEW YEARS EVE - is coming up.  WHERE IS MY PRESENT??? 


9/24/2009 2:27:56 PM
Thank you for all the nice birthday wishes today!!!!  Made my day.  :)  
9/12/2009 4:45:41 PM
I'm trying not to be too disappointed about my twice-cancelled birthday plans.  I'm a baby about my birthday.  I want a PARTY!  PRESENTS!!!  CELEBRATIONS!!!!!  I'm not looking forward to spending it alone again this year.  Bummer. 


9/6/2009 3:53:39 PM
Archived Profile:

Although I prefer focusing on the positive, I find it more effective to state a few things that annoy me. 

My name is Lady Thornrose.  Don't call me Mistress unless you're paying some of my expenses.  (And I am NOT a ProDomme.) 

I am interested in long-distance arrangements, focused on email and/or mail.  I take my time trusting subs and rewarding them with my physical presence, if ever.  I'm interested in LONG-TERM friendships and not an evening of playing together.  I will honor (and respect you for) your right to privacy, but that's about the only "right" you'll have, as far as I'm concerned. 

My primary interest is service-oriented subs rather than physical/sexual subs.  I am interested in controlling your actions and tweaking every area of your life.  I'm interested in my life being more fulfilled by your presence in it.
 
I am 51% vanilla and 49% Domme.  If you can't be of use to me in the vanilla world, don't bother trying to interest me in the BDSM world.  I'm not interested in one without the other. 

Reminder: 
I am in a sexually/physically monogamous relationship. 
We are interested in the future possibility of sharing a household with others, (Wouldn't a Femdom themed B&B be fun???) but know that I am the Domme, and my partner will not be involved in our D/s relationship. 

Second reminder:
I HATE WEBCAMS!!!  Whether it's yours or mine. 
I'm texting you/emailing you online because I prefer this form of communication.
 
I've come to the conclusion that WITH A FEW NOTABLE EXCEPTIONS, I am a "kinder, gentler" Domme.  I don't enjoy punishing or inflicting intense pain.  I like to be worshipped because I'm adored, not because you were blackmailed or coerced into serving me.  you enslave yourself to me, and I accept and take control of your great gift.  I'm more of a Matriarch than a Dominatrix.  I am loving and nurturing and I want to be loved and nurtured in return. 

Men are at their best when they submit themselves to ONE WOMAN and are molded and shaped into being a better man, able to serve her in every way she desires.  Pleasing her in any/every way she desires should be your primary source of pleasure.  No matter how mundane or vanilla or "every day" this service may be. 


8/22/2009 4:50:36 PM
32 days until my birthday.  Where's my present?


7/31/2009 8:38:23 PM
I'm reading a great series called Queen of the Orcs.  If you enjoy sci-fi/fantasy I recommend it.  ESPECIALLY if you are a Femdom submissive male.  READ AND LEARN!  :) 
7/18/2009 9:05:10 PM
Most of the ads on this website creep me out.  Ick.  
7/17/2009 10:01:42 PM
Great blog!

http://juxtaposedme.blogspot.com/2009/07/which-comes-first-relationship-or-bdsm.html  
6/25/2009 8:28:30 PM
90 days and counting. 

Would an email relationship be satisfying to you?  What would you need and what would you give in return? 
6/23/2009 9:28:21 PM
91 days and counting.
6/18/2009 8:13:12 PM
97 days and counting.  
6/15/2009 2:12:36 PM
100 DAYS AND COUNTING


6/11/2009 3:14:22 PM
The only thing missing from my life is you.  
6/3/2009 8:46:45 PM
This is the end
Beautiful friend
This is the end
My only friend, the end

Of our elaborate plans, the end
Of everything that stands, the end
No safety or surprise, the end
I'll never look into your eyes...again

Can you picture what will be
So limitless and free
Desperately in need...of some...stranger's hand
In a...desperate land

The End by The Doors
5/22/2009 8:48:03 PM
Enjoy your Memorial Day Weekend!  (If you're in the U.S.)  Be safe!


5/11/2009 4:26:07 PM
Money Matters:

I'm not a professional Domme, I'm not looking for money slaves, I value people who are wise with their money. 

However... I'm sick to death of "cheap" men who waste money on so many things but are offended by the idea of treating the woman occupying their mind (or hardening their cock.)  I would never ask a man for money but in my experience, men have what is most valuable to them at crotch level.  Their cock and their wallet.  I enjoy controlling both.  And I enjoy when they have the desire to share their most precious commodities with the Woman that is the center of their life. 

So if I ever offer to meet you at a coffee shop and the first words out of your mouth are complaints about having to pay too much money for a cup of coffee, you can count on not having a SECOND chance of getting together.  Please me.  Make me comfortable.  Make my life easier.  Use your brain, your mouth, your cock, or your wallet.  Just do SOMETHING without having to be COMMANDED. 

(Now I'll step off my soapbox.)
5/11/2009 4:18:56 PM
Hello friends!

I'm deleting most of the data on my accounts.  A fresh start would be nice.  Nothing has changed, I just think it would be simpler if my profile was simpler.  :)  I'm happy to discuss anything, so let me know if you have any questions. 
3/31/2009 8:37:30 PM
I am: 

More Matriarch than Dominatrix

More barefoot than stilettos

More cotton than leather


3/26/2009 10:04:03 PM
Hello sweet ones,

I'm great and I hope you are too!  I wanted to make a few things clear. 

I'm in a relationship.  Currently I am interested in subs that can be USEFUL to me.  Whether or not we're in the same town or on opposite sides of the world.  I am NOT interested in or available for physical or sexual relationships, including cam play.  

I hope this has saved you time. 

Lady Ann


9/12/2008 9:19:21 PM
40th birthdays are a great time to look at where you've come from, where you are, and where you're going.  Let's just say that I expect the next 40 years of my life to be FABULOUS.  I'm due!  

Maybe during my next 40 - the middle 40 - I will be a bit more selfish.  I think I've had enough of other people want from me.  I'm ready to selfishly be showered with love, attention, service, gifts, friendship, companionship, etc.  All unconditional, of course.   

Pleasing me should be reward enough.  Don't expect anything else. 

Not interested?  I didn't think so.  LOL


8/1/2008 5:53:14 PM
I think my birthday wish would be a local friend to hang out with, go sightseeing,  and do mundane things with such as running errands and going to movie matinees.  Someone with NO expectations of physical contact.  I would just like a like-minded friend to be able to talk to about a multitude of interests, including D/s.  I enjoy being with submissive friends, even if they are not "submitting" to me.  I enjoy subtle dominance.  
7/31/2008 6:09:09 AM
What's the rush??? 

Am I the only old-fashioned pervert here?  :)  I don't understand the rush to lick strangers' private parts.  How about finding out what her favorite color is first?  LOL  I don't kiss on the first date... or the second... or the third...  I guess this is another reason why I decided to step out of the race and be content with the friendship I have with my partner. 

All of my friends become lovers and all of my ex-lovers become friends.  Isn't anyone interested in multi-faceted  relationships anymore? 

I don't know.  I was never the type to pick people up in bars for a quick shag.  I know that is what people use the internet for.  I'm definitely an oddity.

To each his own, right?  Just remember to wear a rubber over your tongue.  :P 


7/19/2008 4:44:19 PM
I'm feeling great this summer.  I still hate the heat and humidity but I'll be going home to celebrate my 40th birthday soon.  Hooray! 

I'm enjoying my sub friends and I'm not longer looking for a partner.  I'll just do my best to be content with (or without) that part of my life.  I have many other things keeping me busy.  :) 


3/1/2008 12:43:03 PM
Sometimes I'm asked why I'm on collarme if I'm looking for BDSM friends to correspond with about vanilla topics...

Today I received a lovely message from a sub in Australia that I've started corresponding with recently. He also likes to chat about vanilla topics with BDSM people. Once we know the BDSM interest is there, we can enjoy sharing other interests with a like-minded person.

Even though I prefer the mental more than the sexual aspect, I think talking about BDSM at the beginning of correspondence is like having sex on the first date. That doesn't work for me. If we can't be friends, I'm not interested in anything else.

Thank you, friend, for sharing my feelings on this topic. I'm happy to know you.


3/1/2008 12:33:46 PM
I HOPE YOU HAD A GREAT LEAP YEAR DAY!!!

It's my favorite day.  Now you have four years to plan your next Leap Year Day adventure!

On Leap Year Day four years from now, I plan to be somewhere I have never been, doing something I've never done and eating something I've never eaten, with my soulmate...whoever he is. 
2/14/2008 10:40:52 AM
Happy VD!!!  ;)
2/12/2008 4:58:15 PM
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2/10/2008 12:38:48 PM
LOVES AND DISLIKES

I love submissive men who aren't afraid to be masculine and masculine men who are brave enough to be submissive.

I dislike the idea of "humiliating" a man by making him look like a woman (insulting to women) or considering him a sub-human. (Although it can be fun once in a while!)





2/8/2008 5:15:44 PM
And yet–but I am growing old,

For want of love my heart is cold,

Years pass, the while I loose and fold

The fathoms of my hair.
2/4/2008 12:36:25 AM
I dreamed of you tonight.

You knelt on one knee, bowing your head and lifting your eyes to me.

With your hand reaching out to me, you said the three words I have waited to hear:

"I am yours."

As I took your hand and leaned forward to kiss your lips, a lock of my gold-red hair fell across your shoulder.

And everything changed.

All the things that followed are sacred between you and me. The mundane things in life that I treasured sharing with you.

And the first time we made love, there was nothing but you and me. First coming with your mouth and then your shaft and then your mouth again. The last time causing me to scream out loud in the lonely darkness of my room tonight.

Sleep evades me and I'm back at the computer, looking for a sign.

I came across the following song:

I AM YOURS
by Eric Clapton and Nizami

I am yours.
However distant you may be,
There blows no wind but wafts your scent to me,
There sings no bird but calls your name to me.
Each memory that has left its trace with me
Lingers forever as a part of me.



1/25/2008 9:45:04 PM
Hello friends,

I find it necessary to remind you that I am "nice." I'm not interested in breaking you down, I'm interested in building you up.

I'm looking for FRIENDS.

For me, liking someone and being liked by them in a "vanilla" sense comes first. Sex comes AFTER love. I'm not interested in playing with you. I'm open to the possibility of non-sexual service and I'm VERY interested in friendship with anyone, but I'm not available for more than that.

Blessings,
Lady Thornrose
1/20/2008 10:24:00 AM
I wanted to make it clear again that I am not available for a serious r/t relationship right now. I have other things I need to take care of first.

I sincerely apologize if I got a bit carried away and let my heart get ahead of me.


1/18/2008 11:16:47 PM
I miss you, Chris.

Thank you for reminding me of what can and cannot be.


1/8/2008 5:37:06 PM
I've been away for a few days. There are some changes happening in my life right now. Change is good. Right? :) Give me strength.
12/28/2007 5:58:09 PM
Thank you to everyone who took the time to email me their "12 Ways" ideas. I'm very impressed! Keep it coming.


12/26/2007 10:00:06 PM
The past week was a dream come true! I went to sleep with the balcony door open, listening to the waves crashing. I woke up to the sun rising over the ocean.

I am so grateful!



12/20/2007 9:56:27 PM
Isn't it wonderful to see all the diversity here? There really is someone for everyone. It's interesting to browse the profiles and see people with such varied interests. There is an amazing variety of Dominants and submissives.

For those of you looking for a casual play partner to satisfy your fantasies, why not take advantage of the fine professionals advertising their services here? Please.

They're doing me a faver if they keep you from pestering me. And if quick thrills are what you're looking for but you're too cheap to pay, I'm sure there's someone on the corner downtown that would cost less than taking a Domme out for dinner and movie.

That's right. Even if we're not demanding that you pay for the pleasure of our company, we still expect to be treated well. Just because we don't charge doesn't mean we're cheap!

Happy Holidays!


12/20/2007 11:58:51 AM
THE 12 WAYS OF CHRISTMAS

An email from someone very dear to me inspired me today. I would like to ask all of you a question.

What are 12 ways that you can serve a long distance Domme?

(One bit of advice... I would like you to think about ways to benefit HER. Not you, other than the pleasure that comes from pleasing her.)

Thank you!

Feel free to send me your ideas here or on Yahoo.




12/17/2007 3:30:16 PM
Wishing you well this...

Yule

Solstice

New Year

Kwanzaa

Eid al-Adha

Christmas

Chanukah

National Chocolate Covered Anything Day


12/16/2007 9:43:52 AM
I met a lady in the meads,
Full beautiful—a faery’s child,
Her hair was long, her foot was light,  
And her eyes were wild.
12/12/2007 3:10:17 PM
Thank you to the lovely and interesting men I have met here recently. Chatting with you has been a pleasure.

I hope we can all find what we seek. Don't forget to enjoy the journey!

12/8/2007 1:12:42 AM
Cleanse and purge.

10/10/2007 4:32:52 PM
Wow. It's been over a year since I made an entry. And what a year it's been! Everything is different, nothing has changed. :)

My life is rather "solitary" right now as I focus on my work in this town far from home. I didn't expect to be here so long. I miss having like-minded people to chat and explore the area with but I find spending time with myself less frustrating than listening to the demands of other people or trying to respond honestly to questions I'm not ready to answer.

I'd like to say that I have given up on the hope of being with my soulmate - whoever and wherever he is. I'm living as if I have moved on, but he is always in the back of my mind. However, happiness comes from within, and live is wonderful!

Maybe when I have the portable income I want, I'll surround myself with "casual" subs who I want to have around as much as they want to serve me. But in the meantime, I would love to just communicate with people who share my interests.

7/8/2006 9:30:32 PM
Hello friends,

I haven't been here for a couple months, since my computer died. Very discouraging. Is it time to move on to Plan C? First I'll have to figure out what Plan C is!!!

7/8/2006 6:51:49 PM
Hello friends,

I haven't been here for a couple months, since my computer died. Very discouraging. Is it time to move on to Plan C? First I'll have to figure out what Plan C is!!!

4/2/2006 10:50:41 PM
Are there any unattached local subs that would be interested in getting together for PLATONIC fun? Dinner, movies, chats and possibly future trips?

4/1/2006 4:29:27 PM
I guess I'm not making myself clear. I'm interesting in a Vanilla-D/s Marriage. I would like to have children. I would like to have a full, multi-faceted relationship. I would like to be with my body/mind/heart/soulmate. I like MASCULINE men. I find feminization to be an insult to women. What is humiliating about looking like a woman??? If you are looking for someone to abuse you or break your limits, LOOK ELSEWHERE. I want to be with someone who wants me to love them. I like men who are the way they are meant to be: Providers. Protectors. To me, a man has achieved his greatest purpose when he completely submits to one woman: his wife. That is the kind of man I want. That is the kind of relationship I want. If you are looking for a Domme who wants a drone or a doormat, look elsewhere. I want to be stimulated mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. I want to love someone who wants me to love them. If I have to choose - AND I DON'T - I choose a Vanilla relationship. Fortunately, I don't have to choose. I know the right partner is out there searching for me as much as I'm searching for him.
3/24/2006 9:22:25 PM
Well things are moving along - I hope. My goal date for achieving a bit of peace is rapidly approaching. I really hope I'll make it. I could do without another disappointment right now. But negative thinking is a self-fulfilling prophecy. I'm determined to stay focused on a positive intent.

Since I haven't been socializing very much, I've been spending more time reading and posting on collarchat. I'm trying to only make posts that I feel strongly about but I admit that I'll be happy when my Vanilla ice cream cone status is gone. HAHA.

3/18/2006 8:32:48 PM

I AM MOVING MY "PERMANENT" PROFILE HERE FOR A WHILE.

Romantic Spiritual Tall BBW Redhead Domme

Hello friends, I'm a warm and welcoming person. I love meeting new people of all interests. However, this profile is to share with you what I consider of greatest importance. Please pay attention if you're interested in more than friendship with me. In addition to searching for my "soulmate" described below, I am always interested in mentering online slaves and currently I'm exploring the possibility of non-sexual service slaves and/or platonic housemates to serve me.

I am looking for a heterosexual, monogamous life partner. I like strong, intelligent, kind, generous, powerful men who are masculine in public and completely subservient to me - and only me - in private. I would like someone capable of functioning in society and capable of having a normal family life. I love to travel, love people, love learning, and love studying spirituality and religious belliefs. I AM MULTI-FACETED. NOT a cookie-cutter fantasy. I want a full and diverse life with a like-minded person. I am interested in relocating to a climate with cooler summers and milder winters.

I would like to grow in a relationship with someone. I am open to most things but my favorite things are being protected and provided for, being serviced personally, domestically and sexually, ass play (I love penetrating men,) medical play (my little lab rat,) cbt (I've never met a cock I didn't like,)and I particularly like everyday toys such as bamboo skewers, silk scarves, clothes, etc (I also love riding crops for sentimental reasons.) I would like a partner to share with spiritually, including practicing sex magic.

Speaking of sex... if you are incapable of making love without D/s or BDSM... goodbye. I love romantic, protective, intelligent, chivalrous men. If you are tall with dark hair, blue eyes, and are willing to wear a kilt, you're mine!

I am very kind, nurturing and loving. I'm also very strict, demanding and sadistic. I don't like to punish slaves. I like them to honor me by being obedient and by pleasing me and by gratefully enduring whatever I choose to inflict upon them. I advise you to stay on my good side.

I want someone who wants to be loved and nurtured. NOT despised. I want someone who enjoys traveling. I want someone who is not expecting to be a "kept" man. I expect you to take care of me in every way.

My biggest turn-offs: men who can only answer a question by saying "Whatever you say, my Lady." Men who have no thoughts of their own. men who are unkind or disrespectful to other people. men who enjoy sissification as a form of humiliation. (What is humiliating about representing a superior woman??? No man is worthy of being dressed as a woman. The exception is wearing your Owner's panties, possibly ritual robes, and the more kilts the better!) I'm not interested in men who do not give me the attention I deserve. (Keep your word, remember my birthday, open doors, give me tokens of affection. www.romanticman.com) If you are not attracted to me as a woman, - rather than just being attracted to me because I'm a Domme - I AM NOT INTERESTED. If you don't crave tall redheads with very big, voluptuous bodies, DON'T WASTE OUR TIME.

The above is a dream list. I love making like-minded friends. I AM ONLY INTERESTED IN SLAVES WHO CAN MAKE THEMSELVES USEFUL TO ME.

3/11/2006 11:02:14 AM
Hi Folks!

I am currently interested in chatting with like-minded people FOR PLATONIC FRIENDSHIP. If you're not interested in getting to know each other as individuals, I'm not interested in going any further.

The exception: If you are an "alpha male" who is interested in submitting to one Woman, and you like redheaded BBWs, I would love to get to know you. 

Another exception:  I would like to meet local female friends in Charleston SC or Salt Lake City/Ogden UT.



sexybibi
 
 Age: 25
  California