I am finding it amusing to see just how many claim to only want to serve....yet, when they find out that is exactly all they will be used for they are not happy.   

Where are all the service subs?  I am sorely in need of a good domestic slave as well as a slave with landscaping experience and also one with carpentry skills.    

Well,  my stuff is moved.   I need some slaves immediately.   There is lots of unpacking to do plus cleaning and organizing.  Also painting.  

Moving day.   Starting tomorrow I will begin taking Durham applicants for service subs.

Half done.   I ache from head to toe.   I need a back, foot, shoulder and neck massage in the worst way.

I will not chase you.  If you desire to serve me then show me.  I am a Woman as well as a Domme,  I want to be wooed and pursued.  Show me just how much you want Me to own you.  By that I mean attention,  familiarity with my blogs and dreams and a reasonable plan of action.  

It is far too easy to 'talk the talk',  how many are there that can actually 'Walk the Walk' ? 

I want a live in slave,,,,or two or three live in slaves.   period.  That is the purpose for my being on this site and I am not going to be sidetracked by flowery words and flattery.   I love sissies and pain sluts,  I love keeping you in chastity,  I enjoy kink as much as the next Goddess but your first concern should be in keeping ME happy and making MY life easier.  Your wants will always come last.  

Please tell me what the point is in having "willing to relocate" in your profile when in fact you are not willing to relocate? 

 If you are from a completely different Province, or even a different Country and you have not already got a plan to relocate in mind,,,,,why on earth are you contacting Me?  

 I have said in my profile that I will not indulge in cybersex or cyberfantasies or even details about what 'I will do to you'.   I am not going to waste my time giving you wanking material when there is absolutely nothing in it for me. 

I have new seedlings poking their little green heads up finally.   The sweet peas are already 3 inches high,  I am going to have to find a trellis to go behind the plant pot for them to climb up as they grow.   My passion flower vine has already grown at least 10 inches since I got it,  they do love a south facing window.  

I hope everyone has a safe and happy long weekend.  It sucks that it is going to be a cold one though.  

Although there has been a lot of supposed interest in my position for a live in slave I have yet to find anyone who is sincere and legitimate.  Financially I would have thought it would have appealed to subs as a way to save money plus have the opportunity to serve on a full time basis.  

How can it be this difficult to find a sincere and legitimate live in slave????  Seriously.   

I am hoping that when I finally find my full time slave he will enjoy the occasional caning and some CBT.   I like the idea of him going to work with my stripes on his ass and legs.  Knowing that every time he feels that sting he is thinking of his Mistress.  

I finally have dirt to play in.  :)   Went out to try to find a money tree (apparently they bring luck in money) but instead came home with two passion flower vines (my absolute favourite) and a small lemon tree because they have incredibly fragrant flowers.  I also got a few pots and some seeds.   In spite of being stressed out to the max I find peace in gardening.   I love nurturing the tiny little seedlings and watching them grow into beautiful flowers.  I feel so proud of them and so sad when they don't do well.   

When I find my live in slave I really hope he knows how to give a deep tissue massage because I want one every single night before bed.   If he does not know how then he will be taking classes to learn.  :)

More massages means fewer tension headaches which makes for a much happier Me.  :)

Watched another war movie,  Glory,  If you have not yet seen it I highly recommend it.  A purer display of courage in the face of certain death has never been displayed so honestly and movingly.  

Based on a truth story.    

I am watching We Were Soldiers.      If you have never seen it I highly recommend it.   Nothing makes a person more grateful for the life they have than watching some of these movies that depict actual times in our history.  

I may not have much but by God I am thankful for what I do have.   

Really????  Again?????   Are there ANY sincere, legitimate and honest subs/slaves here at all?   Because so far I seem to have met pretty much all of the lying sacks of shit posing as subs.    

I am honest, straightforward and pretty up front about what I want.....is it really so difficult for others to be the same way?   

Why make promises you have no intention of keeping?  I don't get how that is wanking material.  I get that there are a wide variety of kinks and fetishes and for the most part I am cool with most of them.   I don't understand this particular kink however.  I really don't.     Ugh!!!!!!!

Anyways,   it is a beautiful day outside, yes a tad chilly but otherwise quite nice.   The birds are chirping and the trees are rustling and there is new hope for this new day.   I am a little stressed and could use a good shoulder massage but all in all things could be worse.    

Crossing my fingers that today is the day I find that one sub that is perfect for me and I for him.....and in the same area ;)

For any Dommes following my Journal please be aware that a pig by the name of 

I have an urge to have a little cleaning slut spit shine my apartment from one end to the other wearing only the clothes pins I will attach to your little package.   I know the pain will be extreme and the giggles from me most humiliating.   I am having a decidedly bad tempered day today and will accept one little piggy pain slut to be my victim. 

It is official.   I have been completely hoodwinked by another very skilled bullshit artist on the site pretending to be a slave.    It really is a shame there is not a way of letting others know when 'Dom/mes' or 'slaves' are not sincere.  It would save a lot of time, frustration and heartache if we could simply ask others if they have had a bad experience with a specific person. 

However,  one thing that this pretender did accomplish was to remind me of what I want for my life.    I have not given up hope,  the search continues.  I know there is the perfect slave for me out there somewhere.    he will give me his heart and obedience completely and in return I will treat his submission as the gift it is.    his only desire will be to serve Me in every way and make my life more comfortable....in return he will be treated like my cherished pet.   I am a stern and demanding Queen who will not hesitate to use my flogger or cage him when he misbehaves however I am also kind and loving to him when he pleases me.  

I continue my search,  bruised and battered yes,  however still hopeful.  

You know that saying "If it seems too good to be true it probably is"?

I am beginning to think I have fallen for this once again.   sigh   My naivety and gullibility knows no ends. 

:(

"Looking behind I am filled with gratitude.Looking forward I am filled with vision. Looking upwards I am filled with strength. Looking within I discover peace."
Q'ero indians

When I am not gardening or making bird houses, laying in the sun or swimming laps I enjoy having a helpless slave tied up while I do wonderful/terrible things to his/her body.   Clothes pins or hot wax on delicate parts.   Tight bondage.   Tease and Denial and more teasing and more denial.   

I am not much for oral worship however if I am sitting in a Queening chair I have no problem allowing you to worship while I watch a movie, read a book or play on my computer.   it is the power I enjoy rather than the particular act. 

I love having massages,  shoulders and back, feet and legs.  I will be purring like a Lioness if you give a good massage. 

Although I would absolutely love to be able to play on a personal level,  spend hours rewarding or punishing my slaves with who knows what kinds of naughtiness and evil perversions,  unfortunately I have to work for a living.  

I am a Pro-Domme,  oh my God,  hisssssss.    Apparently I am beneath a lot of you because obviously I am just here to soak all and any sub pigs dry of their hard earned money.    sigh.    Seriously?    

I am a Dominant Woman first and foremost.  I love, laugh, cherish and nurture those I care for.   I am also a cruel and sadistic  bitch at times and love having a pain slut to play with and torment.   I enjoy bondage, tease and denial and CBT very much,  I love using my flogger and crop on a slut until he/she slips into subspace.  I love the power and the control and the knowledge that I am giving what you crave.    

I also need to make a Goddamn living to support myself and help take care of my family.  Until that one special slave comes along that only desires to take care of Me in every way, finanacially as well as other services I am going to have to continue working.   

Now why does this mean that I and others like Me are not allowed to have a personal life and personal slaves?   

Give your head a shake.  I am not here to rob and steal,  but by Christ if you offer it I am certainly going to take it.  If your kink is being blackmailed or having your credit card and wallet emptied then of course I am going to jump all over that.  I am Dominant,  not an idiot.  I work damned hard for my income and put every and all effort into ensuring that my clients are fully satisfied and safe when they are in my care.   I also have personal slaves that would help financially if I asked them to but since I have not done so they get to keep their money.    

So,,,,,,,those of you who seem to feel it is your duty to insult and berate Me because being a Pro-Domme is my career choice,,,,,,,BITE ME!!!!!!  Seriously.    until you start paying My bills your opinion on my life Does Not Matter.  

I have been wandering down memory lane,  remembering times that I spent hours flogging and caning my old pain slut till he lost himself in subspace.   Knowing that it was my ministrations that brought him such pleasure and peace gave me much satisfaction.   I do not Have to be cruel and sadistic but I really do enjoy the times when I can indulge this side of me.   

I love receiving gifts from NorthBoundLeather,  a new Flogger or Crop,  perhaps a new Cane,  something designed just for me.  I prefer my 'tools' to be lighter than the ones typically used by men, although there are some really nice leather floggers that feel wonderful in my hand.  I also have a real love of gold ankle bracelettes and toe rings,  I have such pretty feet that they should be adorned by pretty things don't you think? ;)

I really enjoy using clothes pins to make lovely designs on the human body.  I have done a lovely butterfly on a sub girls back with them.  Also used them in more intimate areas,  when my vibrator is applied to these clothes pins the pleasure/pain is exquisite.  I also truly enjoy turning a mans package into a porcupine lol.  I get such a giggle out of flicking them and twisting them. 

I have used needles and very much enjoyed it. I practiced on a very chesty sub girl,  experimented creating pretty designs with them in her breasts.  

 I have left more than one slave tied tightly in my closet while I went out for dinner.  I dialed my own phone with his and left it by his ear so that he could listen to me enjoying myself while he was bound and helpless on the floor.  

I do have real handcuffs and ankle cuffs,  unfortunately I cannot find the key.  ;

It has been far too long since I was last taken out for a spa day,  manicure, pedicure, lashes and hair followed by a deep tissue massage.   sigh, lol

1.0.0 Slave's Role

The slave agrees to submit completely to the master in all ways. There are no boundaries of place, time, or situation in which the slave may willfully refuse to obey the directive of the master without risking punishment, except in situations where the slave's veto (see section 1.0.1) applies. The slave also agrees that, once entered into the Slavery Contract, their body belongs to their master ,, to be used as seen fit, within the guidelines defined herein. All of the slave's possessions likewise belong to the master , including all assets, finances, and material goods, to do with as they see fit. The slave agrees to please the master to the best of their ability, in that they now exist solely for the pleasure of said master .

1.0.1 Slave's Veto

The slave, where appropriate, holds veto power over any command given by the master , at which time they may rightfully refuse to obey that command. This power may only be invoked under the following circumstances, or where agreed by both master and slave:

1. Where said command conflicts with any existing laws and may lead to fines, arrest, or prosecution of the slave .
2. Where said command may cause extreme damage to slave's life, such as losing their job, causing family stress, etc.
3. Where said command may cause permanent bodily harm (see 4.0.0) to the slave .
4. Where said command may cause psychological trauma to the slave, such as a rape scene for a slave that has been raped in the past.

2.0.0 Master's Role

The master accepts the responsibility of the slave's body and worldly possessions, to do with as they see fit, under the provisions determined in this contract. The master agrees to care for the slave , to arrange for the safety and well-being o f the slave , as long as they own the slave . The master also accepts the committment to treat the slave properly, to train the slave, punish the slave, love the slave, and use the slave as they see fit.

3.0.0 Punishment

The slave agrees to accept any punishment the master decides to inflict, whether earned or not.

3.0.1 Rules of Punishment

Punishment of the slave is subject to certain rules designed to protect the slave from intentional abuse or permanent bodily harm (see 4.0.0). Punishment must not incur permanent bodily harm, or the following forms of abuse:
        1. Blood may not be drawn at any time. Punishment must stop immediately if blood is drawn
        2. Burning the body
        3. Drastic loss of circulation
        4. Causing internal bleeding
        5. Loss of consciousness
        6. Withholding of any necessary materials, such as food, water, or sunlight for extended periods of time

4.0.0 Permanent Bodily Harm

Since the body of the slave now belongs to the master , it is the master's responsibility to protect that body from permanent bodily harm. Should the slave ever come to permanent bodily harm during the course of punishment or in any other slavery related activity, whether by intention or accident, it will be grounds for immediate termination of this contract, should the slave so desire. Permanent bodily harm shall be determined as:

1. Death
2. Any damage that involves loss of mobility or function, including broken bones.
3. Any permanent marks on the skin, including scars, burns, or tattoos, unless accepted by the slave .
4. Any loss of hair, unless accepted by the slave .
5. Any piercing of the flesh which leaves a permanent hole, unless accepted by the slave .
6. Any diseases that could result in any of the above results, including sexually transmitted diseases.

5.0.0 Others

The slave may not seek any other master or lover or relate to others in any sexual or submissive way without the master's permission. To do so will be considered a breach of contract, and will result in extreme punishment. The master may accept other slaves or lovers, but must consider the slave's emotional response to such actions and act accordingly. Under no circumstance should the master allow such actions to unbalance the slave emotionally, or allow such actions to result in ignoring the slave .

The master may give the slave to other masters, provided the rules of this contract are upheld. In such a situation, the master will inform the new master of the provisions stated herein, and any breach by the new master will be considered a breach by the master as well, subject to all rules stated in this contract.

6.0.0 Secrecy

All physical evidence of the slavery will be kept in total secrecy, except where both master and slave agree. Any violation of this clause shall be cause to terminate this contract, should the injured party wish it. The materials and physical evidence shall be kept under lock and key in a place acceptable to both parties.

7.0.0 Alteration of Contract

This contract may not be altered, except when both master and slave agree. If the contract is altered, the new contract shall be printed and signed, and then the old contract must be destroyed.

8.0.0 Termination of Contract

This contract may be terminated at any time by the master , but never by the slave, except under special conditions explained within this contract. Upon termination, all physical evidence of the slavery, including this contract, will be destroyed, and all materials and belongings shall belong to the master , to be shared or kept as they see fit. The slave , owning nothing and having agreed to give up all worldly possessions and body to the master , shall once again own their body, but nothing else, unless the master decides to give back their possessions.

9.0.0 Slave's Signature

I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to give everything I own to my master, and further accept their claim of ownership over my physical body. I understand tha I will be commanded and trained and punished as a slave, and I promise to be true and to fulfill the pleasures and desires of my master to the best of my abilities. I understand that I cannot withdraw from this contract except as stated in this contract.

Signature:____________

9.0.1 Master's Signature

I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to accept this slave as my property, body and possessions, and to care for them to the best of my ability. I shall provide for their security and well-being and command them, train them, and punish them as a slave. I understand the responsibility implicit in this arrangement, and agree that no harm shall come to the slave as long as they are mine. I further understand that I can withdraw from this contract at any time.

Signature:____________

After weeks of being lied to, led on and deceived I have now decided that I will no longer even consider 'chatting' through Skype or Yahoo or any other chat forum.   

I am legitimate and most sincere in my desires to provide a fulfilling life for myself and my slaves but I will not be led around by some financial promises.  Get it through your heads......I am not after your money.    I am after a few good slaves that are willing and able to work together with me to attain a dream goal.   To live a complete 24/7 PolyHouse.     Those of you who have 'willing to relocate' in your profiles but are not truly ready to do so need not waste either of our time.  

My dream is not only for myself.   It is for US!!!!!

Just so there are no misunderstands.    I am not here for tributes or one time 'gifts'.   If you offer them I will take them lol but that is not my purpose for being on this site.    I am here because I firmly believe that not only is a PolyHousehold do'able but also beneficial to all members of the house.   All those who are interested will be asked to communicate with each other.  Three comitted and determined slaves working together can provide a house that not only I approve of but that they will enjoy as well.   I cannot count how many times I have been ridiculed for wanting some submissive idiot to 'buy me a house'.   sigh,   seriously?   Obviously (at least to me) the house will be in the names of those who buy it.   It will be a legal and long term arrangement between all of us with only Myself being the Dominant in the home.    Every member of the house will be safe, secure and well cared for.   I don't know how to be any clearer than that.   

I just sent this same message to more than one potential and realized that it would be much easier and less time consuming if I simply added it here.  If you are at all interested in my plans for a D/s PolyHouse then you need to understand that my response will no doubt sound abrupt.  Perhaps the following will help explain my reasoning.....

"  If you have, as you have said, read my journal then you understand what my goal is ultimately.  I have no problem with chatting for a limited amount of time while you and I become familiar with each other but I will not indulge in a long term online arrangement.  I have had far too many subs/slaves professing their devotion and comittment then when the time comes for them to act they vanish.  I realize I sound pushy and in a hurry but to be honest I am in a hurry to move forward with my plans.  I don't see the point in lengthy online relationships as two people never truly know if they will connect until they meet face to face.  Also I am not playing at being Domme, this is not a game to me and I will not 'change my mind' or take you for everything you have then tell you to 'get lost' as I know some who claim to be Domme are known to do.  I am sincere and comitted to ruling a Poly house with a few full time slaves as well as part time subs.  As my journals hopefully indicate I am a flexible Domme who actually cares about the needs of my potential subs and have every intention of devoting myself to their well being just as they are devoting themselves to mine.  
I need someone who is not afraid to take a chance, someone who will actually take that first crucial step in their journey to being my slave, my property and my cherished pet.  
Any questions? ;) "

Triskelion tattoos.

http://emblemproject.sagcs.net/is.htm

"The symbol itself has a lot of meaning. 
The 3 divisions represent the various 3-somes of BDSM 1) B&D, D&S, S&M. 2)Safe, Sane and Consensual. 3) Tops, bottoms and switches. 
The third symbolism gives meaning to the holes in each unit. Since BDSM is at the very least a play style and at its greatest a love style, the holes represent the incompleteness of any individual within the BDSM context. However "together" and "whole" individuals may be, there remains a void within them that can only be filled by a complimentary other. BDSM cannot be done alone.
The resemblance to a three-way variation on the Yin-Yang symbol is not accidental. As the curved outline of Yin and Yang represent the hazy border between where one ends and the other begins, so do the curved borders here represent the indistinct divisions between B&D, D&S, and S&M.

The metal and metallic color of the medallion represents the chains or irons of BDSM servitude/ownership. The three inner fields are black, representing a celebration of the controlled dark side of BDSM sexuality. 

The curved lines themselves can be seen as a stylized depiction of a lash as it swings, or even an arm in motion to deliver an erotic spanking. The all-embracing circle, of course, represents the overlying unity of it all and the oneness of a community that protects its own.

I have Faith.  I know you are out there, searching, hoping, yearning for Me. 

Ready to give yourself over completely to my loving care.   Knowing you are safe.  

Every journey begins with the first step.  Introduce yourself.  

I just took this quote from a slaves' profile because it describes my style of Domination exactly........Sensual Domination 

"Dominance is the ability to create a hunger in someone that's so strong they will do anything, anytime, anywhere just to please Me."

Let me get something straight.    You wish to come to MY home,  MY sanctuary, MY place of safety and refuge but you don't trust ME with your phone number??

I would like to offer a small piece of advice to anyone concerned about giving out their phone number to a prospectice Dom/me or sub/slave.    Go to the corner store,  fork out $50 and buy a disposable phone.     Seriously,  it is not that difficult and saves an awful lot of aggravation on everyones part.   

I have been reading more and more about D/s marriages and relationships.  I am intrigued.   I would love to be in a warm and loving, intimate relationship with one man and yet still be the Dominant one in the relationship.  No power struggles, no arguments as to who does the dishes or chooses what movie to go watch.   Is it possible I wonder? how would that work if I still wanted to rule a Polyhousehold?  Is he going to suffer with jealousy even though I am not sexual with any of my slaves?  So many things to consider.     

RANT

Do you seriously think all of us (Domme's) are completely stupid?   Really?    Pretending to be someone or something you are not and making wild promises thinking that we will be suckered into lengthy online conversations while you string us along? 

Give me a break.   Within 5 minutes most of us can see through the lies and manipulation.  I know there are real and sincere subs/slaves here desperate to be taken seriously but those of you who are here to play games make it very difficult for them.  It also frustrates the living hell out of those of us who are serious Dommes who genuinely want to find that one, two or more genuine subs/slaves that complement us and our needs.   

I don't know what satisfaction you get from blowing smoke up my ass but please stop it.  it is a complete waste of my time and energy and puts me in one hell of a bad mood.  

Do you subs want to know why We are snappy and abrupt with you?  Do you want to know why we get to the point of demanding a tribute up front to determine your sincerity?    It is because of the hundreds of bogus, lying, bullshit artists that we have to deal with every single day.    

sigh 

Rant over........for now. 

I am discovering that 90% of the 'subs/slaves' on this site are either 'do me' subs or 'lip service' subs.   They talk a good game but when it comes time to put their words into action they suddenly have a change of heart or simply vanish only to appear later under a new handle.     

In case there is any doubt be assured that I am sincere and truly a Dominant Woman.    If you offer yourself then I will take you and mold you into what I need.    If you are just wanting to talk about your fantasies and have no intention of following through then please do us both a favour and Do Not Bother Me.    

I need a damned chauffeur,  I have errands to run,  shopping to do and I absolutely hate transit and cabs.  This is when a service oriented slave would come in handy.  One who lives close enough that he can be on call  :)

I confess to having a rather evil and perverse imagination when it comes to play time.   

I enjoy handing out discipline as much as the next sadist, however,  the mind is the most important part of the body and that is the one organ I enjoy playing with the most.  

I want to be dug so deep inside your heart and mind that you cannot do anything or go anywhere without the mental image of Me sitting on your shoulder watching and listening.   Your first thought when you wake up and your last thought before drifting off to sleep will be "How can I make Her smile?"  "How can I improve the quality of Her life?"  "How can I prove my love and devotion to Her?".

your thoughts will be with Me at all times because you will Know that you are Safe with Me.    you will be accepted unconditionally,  given what you, as an individual, need to keep you happy and fulfilled.  you will be secure knowing that I will mold you into the very best slave/sub/man that you can be.  

I am kind and thoughtful,  I also am capable of meting out swift and harsh correction if I see that you are wandering off course.  I am stern,,,,but fair.

I also believe in rewarding honest efforts whether that be with affection,  discipline or allowing you to indulge your particular fetish.   

you will be safe, secure and cared for in the Home of Lady Ty.  

I envision subs that have useful skills.  Accounting,  Business, Carpentry, Mechanics, etc.   

Oh my freaking GAWD.......If you are offering your services as a domestic servant for GODS SAKE Know How To Clean!!!!!!!!!!

If you have never used a broom you do not know how to clean.

If you do not know how to take out the garbage you do not know how to clean.

If you do not know that a sponge is to be used to wash the tub and floor you do not know how to clean.   

This is why we Domme's get so frustrated and impatient with pathetic creatures that pass themselves off as something they are not.  

AAAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHHHH

 
A Domme is usually a Lady, proud, confidant, dignified, strong, elegant and always off limits sexually unless She chooses to allow you access to Her body.  A Domme deserves to be wooed, She is worthy of your every effort to win Her affection. She is NOT a common slut who will respond to cheap and insulting remarks about how you can perform oral for hours, nor will offers of being Her sex slave impress Her much.  Do any of you understand just how many offers We get in a week?  I cannot speak for all Domme's but I am not looking for an oral servant, a sex slave, a subject to experiment my back swing on....I am waiting for that one true submissive/slave who truly only wishes to serve Me and give himself over to My control.  I might want to use you as My sexual toy on occasion but that will not be your true purpose. Your true purpose will be to learn everything you can about Me so that you may anticipate My every need and take care of it without My having to ask. 
You will know that serving Me will not be about catering to your fantasies and desires,,,it will be about you giving control over to ME.   Understand? 

Is it just me? or does everyone have this problem on these sites?  Does anyone genuinely wish to serve IN REAL LIFE?????
No matter how many times I stress that I do NOT want long, drawn out cyber relationships they still can't seem to make a firm date.  I have no patience for online nonsense.  I want someone genuine, someone who does not let anything get in his way when he makes a promise.  I have also stressed that I want a pic, is that too much to ask? You can see my face quite clearly and I don't think it's unreasonable for me to want to see yours. I stress that I am older and a big girl....there are no surprises with me, what you see is what you get.  Please, can those who send me messages beggin for my attention not do the same?