In the lifestyle I am an bi-sexual female dominant, in vanilla life I'm a professional, in both I am someone who knows exactly what she wants and is not afraid to do what it takes to obtain it and to keep it.

I live near the DFW metro area and routinely play at the area clubs. I've been in the lifestyle since I was about 17 with lots of real life experiences tucked away.

I am now very comfortable in life having recently purchased a new large home on private grounds so I am now considering the possibility of taking on a full time live in FEMALE SLAVE when I happen to meet the right person. Though I find that most are liars, claim-a-bees, and drama queens out for attention. Often caught in their own little online fantasy world with no idea of what it means to be a slave in real life, and many of those will never have the courage or discipline to move into the real world. However, that aside I am also a patient person and can take my time in finding exactly the slave that suits me best for a very long-term arrangement.

When I do meet someone I can say that it will take someone special to impress me. I expect intelligence, loyalty, obedience, honesty, and someone who is prepared to give up everything to become a full time live in slave. Pampered yes, but a slave none the less. Kept chained, caged, or anything else that makes me happy or entertains me at the time. That includes both in my home and as I travel. During my travels I often find myself in places where you must be 21 or older so that would be the absolute minimum age, she also will need to be younger than myself. Somehow it just does not seem correct to own a slave older than oneself.

I am not into inflicting extreme pain nor heavy S&M but I can if needed to maintain absolute control. I prefer to use bondage, discipline, restraints that are mostly comfortable yet highly secure, and mental bondage, a slaves desire to serve brought to it's ultimate expression. Any slave will be as fit and healthy as myself, intelligent, able to relocate, and not have an aversion to being shown as a slave in public. They will wear my collar locked on all the time, I will lead them on a leash when the situation allows, and I will choose what they will wear and when. I will purchase all of their clothes and accessories for them. I will teach them how to be a slave and be classy at the same time both in and out of my home. Don't let my profile pic fool you, that was taken at Halloween last year when I decided to go as a Goth girl. I am actually auburn-blonde and have been told that I am quite the elegant lady but because of my position I don't easily share my pictures on the web so seeing vanilla pictures of me will be a privilege that will have to be earned once I trust that you are who and what you say you are.



NOTE: I am bi-sexual but am Not looking for a male at this time. If you are a male; master or slave either one, don't bother writing to me, you will probably Not receive an answer. I hate to be blunt but many of the dominant guys on here seem to have an IQ lower than my shoe size with the idea that they can "convert" me to a submissive with some boring cut-n-paste lines and one stroke of their cock ~ What a laugh!

There are of course real male Dominants who are respectful and I am friends with many.

I am speaking generally about the ones who have the backwards idea that women are really all slaves by nature and a Mistress is really just a slave who needs to be forced to submit like the good little slave that she really is. I am not a submissive, I am not a switch, I am a Domme 100% of the time.

As for the male subs, I'm a bit tired of being inundated with jabbering emails from groveling males. Eventually I may seek a male slave. I have always loved horses and would eventually like to have a small stable built and buy a couple. I have to admit that beyond riding as a child at my grandparents I really know nothing about horses beyond the riding aspects. When I do get ready to consider a male he will have the same restrictions as I have outlined about female slaves above with regard to age/height. He would be in charge of tending the horses and taking care of all things outside on my property. I may even train him as a ponyboy and buy a sulky so I he can pull me and my female slave around. He would be used by both of us for our pleasures, at my direction. His naughty bits would be kept under strict lock and key when we were not using him. I can afford the nicer devices such as Neosteel. The rewards for a male slave would be many but again, he would still be a slave first and foremost.

That is of course in the future; it will be long after I have located and trained a female slave, we have had time to establish a deep bond, and everything else on my new property in order and running smoothly.