Your mind, heart, and spirit interest me more than your appearance, yet I fully expect you to be clean and well groomed. You must have a sense of who you are in the world, know yourself fairly well and be able to admit to & ask for the things you want.  I expect you to behave well since you crave my attention.  I am trust worthy and expect that you are as well. You are a bottom or a switch who loves sensation, teasing and edgy play.  I will respect your limits but I also will push you to expand them.  I delight in making you dance along the thin edge of pleasure/pain & relish that moment when you surrender and your spirit soars unfettered in the abyss.  If you are intrigued, reveal a bit of yourself to me.