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I am the Rose, You are the Rain. Drench me, nourish me, Make me wet.
Glistening, I emit scent Delectable and open Fleeting, flashing, flame
of color then gone



I am looking for LOCAL friends, play partners, and potential dating material. By local I mean that I will NOT cross a bridge to meet you. You have to come to me first (OF COURSE). Don't flatter yourself in thinking I play with unattractive perverts.

If you are from out of state, don't waste my time. Unless you're in Southern Oregon.....

Prospective play partners : If you write Me with questions that I have already addressed, I will block you. I DO NOT spend much time responding to messages from this site, and WILL not deal with inane requests (thanks Lady Evadne!)
Kisses darlings!

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2/1/2014 2:08:51 PM

Just discovered the thrusting "pulsator" at Good Vibes - GREAT idea!! Someone obviously designed this product with the woman user in mind.


1/5/2014 10:29:57 AM

Thanks, 2013, for the cabin in the woods and the local tree branches made into cat o-nine tails!!

xoxo

 


10/27/2013 6:14:54 PM

getting coffee today, and the hottie behind the counter catches me checking out his biceps; smiles, then flexes a little harder while he tamps down my espresso.....


6/16/2013 7:26:43 PM

On knees, hopping

Craving, hungry

Moving towards

Then quickly away

I hold still, so as not to alarm

Impatient, I drink

Then go back to watching

Until he falls, writhing

And I lift my sword

 


4/27/2013 7:02:03 PM

Bunny flogger!!!!


4/6/2013 5:59:06 PM

Going to be at the SM Flea next Saturday at the Citadel - come visit!


 


3/15/2013 9:35:34 PM

End of the night - time for a foot rub!!


1/24/2013 10:01:15 AM

I notice what's in the background in your picture. AT LEAST try to stand in front of a plain white wall, will ya? Cuz that electrical outlet....closet....messy dresser.....etc... is annoying.


10/8/2012 6:45:15 PM

Sex while under hypnosis - HOT!


8/26/2012 8:26:10 PM

I watched the Princess Bride recently, and although it's quite campy, I did rather mourn the loss of romance and old fashioned chivalry. As Rihanna puts it, us modern women still want you to make us feel like the only one in the world. Chase us to the ends of the earth, fall down a cliff crying, "As you wish!" Never give up.

 

All this modern texting and digital relating....so not my speed. If you don't know how to call a chic with an invitation, FUCK OFF! And dudes, what is so threatening about calling me? Are you that busy? Or is it that you want to feel special and have ME chase you? Not going to happen.

 

* LE SIGH *


8/25/2012 5:25:50 PM

Panty shopping all afternoon!

I do love animal print....


8/6/2012 9:12:31 PM

Currently reading "The Natural Superiority of Women" by anthropologist Ashley Montagu.

 

From chapter 1: "I should not have written this book had I thought there was any danger that women would adopt superior airs and deal with men as men have dealt with women. Most women have better sense than that. The one thing of which we may be certain women will never do is to be overbearing toward men as men have for so long been toward women. The truly healthy minded person experiences not the slightest need to establish supremacy over anyone. It it only the individual of weak and insecure character who, like the bully, is impelled to such contemptible devices."

 

This reminds me of a friend who claimed that us kinky people "have" to have fellow kinksters to cavort with, and cannot be in "normal" vanilla relationships, i.e. without any kink. I differed in my opinion - I can honestly take it or leave it. He insisted that without kink, he wouldn't be sexually satisfied.


A former flame that I spoke to at length about this topic had a very simple statement on the subject: "I like equality". He was a handsome feminist man indeed.


Interesting food for thought...


7/26/2012 6:17:42 PM

From Rainer Maria Rilke, quoted in a Jungian text:

 

The adolescent boy praises the death-givers,

when they float magnificently through his

heart-halls. From his blossoming body

he cries out to them:

Impossible to reach! Oh, how strange they are:

They go swiftly over

the peaks of his emotions and pour down

the marvelously altered night into his deserted

arm valley. The wind that rises

in their dawn makes his body leaves rustle. His brooks

glisten away in the sun

 

 

HOT!! My own (of course very sexual) interpretation:

 

Death givers - beautiful women, of course, so intense that We destroy them (or perhaps We're on our way to slaughter something else?)

 

heart halls - his bed, or other location to make love; perhaps his actual "heart" - but do men have these? (kidding....kinda)

 

We go swiftly over the peaks - of course, Women can always go higher than men in sexual pleasure, and emotional depth, and We can get there fast; the juices of our pleasure pour down, literally, if We are on top

 

into his deserted arm valley - We fall into his arms after being pleased - just hold Us then; your arms would otherwise be 'deserted' - they were meant for holding Us

 

the wind that rises - his cock, in the morning, of course; or perhaps Our breath, panting with excitement?

 

their dawn - Our dawn, this does make me think it's about Our pleasurable gasps, moans, pants, screams, words of encouragement

 

his body leaves - goosebumps, the hair on his skin, his crotch hair

 

His brooks....in the sun - his cum in Our sun aka on our skin; the juicy morning aftermath? Perhaps Our gaze of love is the sun, warming his erection.....


7/23/2012 2:24:16 PM

I have always had this great fantasy: while arranging for booty call can be tiresom, what if I just had multiple interviews, same time, same place? I could have them show up at the bar at the same time. Then I could look at the crowd of men and pick one. SO HOT!!!


7/19/2012 7:09:37 PM

I was given a tiara today...how appropriate


7/15/2012 2:08:04 PM

I realize I don't really like wearing sunglasses. They just aren't that comfortable. And I generally feel a bit claustrophobic....same thing with scarves, most hats....I like to be unencumbered.


7/11/2012 9:36:32 PM

And....another one bites the dust. Always something new on the horizon though.

 

Is it so much to ask for a muscular hottie who will go to the lake with me and rub me all over with lotion?!

 

I should do as one of my good friends has done with success, and just pray about it. Seems to work for her. I need more Goddesses on my side...

 

** see previous posts for definition of a hottie **


7/2/2012 7:43:30 PM

New nipple suckers! YAY!


7/2/2012 9:49:06 AM

 

 

 

 

JD of the Knotty Boys had an interesting comment from this weekend's rope workshop that I care to share:

 

(In reference to someone attempting to insult his allegedly small cock...): "I don't care. It's my cock. I don't give a shit what she thinks of it. It's not her business. My cock is MINE to enjoy."

 

Indeed, We don't require your opinion. I recently received some hate mail from someone who basically tried to insult my body. This is actually beginning to be humorous to me, that someone will waste their time (as if they think it's effective!) trying to tell me what to do. Ha! Really?

 

First of all, it's not your place.

 

Second, I don't give a shit what you think.

 

Third, I LOVE my body. I prefer curves to skinny stick figures for both men and women. I work out, I'm healthy, I can hike up that hill faster than you, so don't talk to me about this idea that women 'should' be a certain weight. I shake what my mama gave me proudly.

 

Why do alleged "men" do this? You want some weakling that you can rule, right? That's not me, bitches! It seems to me real male strength would be demonstrated by being worthy to be the consort of the strong, not intimidating women with no backbone. Combat with your equal. Those already under you are easy to rule.

 

I am aware that there are those out there who don't share my taste in body type. That's fine, have your opinion. But why are you trying to force it on me? Does having an alternative view threaten your little narrow universe? If you aren't attracted to women with curves, keep it moving! Go find those skinny bitches, they're out there! Why waste your time on my profile at all?

 

Finally, don't throw stones from your glass house, o ye old fat and bald. Unless you're Channing Tatum (I saw Magic Mike - HOTNESS!), and actually, even if you are, don't fucking talk to me about how I "should" look. I am hot. In addition to genuinely believing this myself, I get told it just about every day by perfect strangers (both men AND women). So there are plenty of people out there who share my sumptuous love for a hearty handful of tits and ass.

 

Trying to tear down strangers on the internet does not demonstrate that you have the kind of self esteem that I *ACTUALLY* do. Your silly emails are not going to change my opinion of myself. It only proves that you are pathetic b/c you waste your time with that kind of bullshit. Ultimately, it is my confidence that shields me from your limp arrows of hatred. Remember when you point fingers, three point back at you. And the Goddess sees that thumb sticking out, and will eventually stick Hers harshly in your ass with no lube for being such slime.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


6/15/2012 10:35:06 PM

I received a lovely new vibrator - the better one I wanted!

 

Good boy. Arf. Go lay down.

 

 


 

 


5/25/2012 8:00:14 PM

Knotty Boys workshop!!! DING DING DING!!


5/21/2012 7:53:58 PM

Gratitude to the lovely Winged Siren for saying exactly what I had in mind:

 

Here's what I think dominating a man is like:

 

Think of it this way. Imagine a bull and bullfighter. The time it takes to bring down the bull is arduous and draining to both. I am the bullfighter and you are the bull. To breakdown a man into submission and turn him into a slave is very, very, very hard work - emotionally, physically, and psychically.

 

I'm small and petite and most men are bigger than me. Often they are twice my weight and sometimes a foot or more taller. The size and ratio is similar to that of the bull to the bullfighter.

 

Men are bred to be dominant by today's society, which is mainly patriarchal, to defend the home, to bring home livelihood, to go to war, to be a leader, and to set an example. Being brought up this way, the boy does not have a chance to cry, surrender, and be submissive. It's not part of the social training.

 

To help a man become a submissive or a slave is very hard work, indeed. I think more so than when a man dominates a woman. He has the advantage of cultural influence that imprints that men are in charge, men rule, men must be obeyed.

 

To change a man, I must change and reverse culturally imprinted behavior and teachings. I must break that in myself and in him, and reverse the role. That is where power exchange is created. Like smashing an atom, this energy is created when our minds transcend to a new level of awareness and being. I am the dominant and he the submissive.

 

Perhaps that's why there are so few women who become a femdomme. It's hard to do. It takes a rebellious, independent, curious, and willful woman to do this. I've heard of men turning their girlfriends and wives onto this. I've heard of dumb and moronic women who can do this. I've heard of female victims, who learn to empower themselves and become this.

 

It's not necessarily true that a woman needs to have good ethics, intelligence or be dominant to be a domme. However, I do think having judicious ethics, intelligence and being naturally dominant makes a domme stand out from other dommes. This makes her something of an Alpha domme as compared to a Beta domme.

 


5/20/2012 12:37:22 PM

Matching orange zebra striped bra and panties....to go with my orange Mexican wedges (with empty triangle peek-a-boo heel). Should I wear this all day??!


5/16/2012 8:40:07 PM

Loving the new punk rock hair do!! Purple? Or red? Or both?!


5/15/2012 9:36:49 PM

I was having an interesting conversation with a lovely female friend of mine who is a practicing Muslim. We discussed the concept of the dowry, where the man gives a gift of some kind to his wife-to-be. The negotiation between families is key, and in fact this detail is written into the marriage contract. She pointed out that this is to elevate the status of the woman, and to acknowledge the great gift a man and his family is receiving. Also, so that if the marriage doesn't work out, the woman will have some independent finances (of course this is more relevant in traditional Islamic societies where women don't work and depend entirely on their husband; with American Islam and women in the work place, this is not as prand I dare to be this bold) in terms of how a man can impress her: "I like money."  Not that this is *all* I like, but....there's something about putting your money where your mouth is. Weeding out the riff-raff, shall we say.





3/25/2012 9:40:59 PM

A perfect evening - dinner, dancing, & domination!!


3/16/2012 4:12:58 PM

Who wants a dominant Frenchman? Because I can't do anything with him....


3/5/2012 5:38:32 PM

Got some new fiction from one who sadly lacks much potential...but what a way with words when not under the spotlight!! I do love cuckolds....

 

A teaser:

 

"The two of them had much in common, and he flirted expertly with Her throughout the long, langourous meal. When they kissed -- and they did, once -- i could not see, only hear it happening, as i leaned down to drink water from my bowl. i heard my Mistress sigh deliciously, moaning into his kiss, and when i felt Her toe, teasingly poking my balls as they kissed, i had to swallow a loud yelp, and i arched my back, wimpering silently, so eager was i to feel Her touch."


2/22/2012 9:47:24 PM

He arrived at the appointed time with sushi, drinks, and flowers. He cleaned. He begged and groveled to worship my feet. I allowed him a few licks, then spanked him. Then he left.

 

I LOVE how well trained this one is.....


1/12/2012 7:39:12 PM

I'm stealing this from Margaret Cho (I fucking LOVE her):

 

The best revenge is not living well. The best revenge is revenge. My mouth and mind and typing fingers are weapons of mass destruction and I pity those ignorant idiots who would leave insults about mine or any women's bodies in comment boxes because there's ways of hunting people down. Lots and lots of ways. It's not as anonymous as they think, as stupid as they are. If I am in my worst way and I talk to you, you will know you have been talked to. I want to punish you with the unforgettable shit you will take to your grave and hurt you long after you are dead in the ground.

 

I want to defend the children that we still are inside, the fragile sensitive souls who no matter how much we tried were still told we were not good enough. I want to make the world safe and better and happy for us. We deserve beauty, love, respect, admiration, kindness and compassion. If we don't get it, there will be hell to pay. I am no saint, but I am here for you and me. I am here for us, and I am doing the best I can.


1/6/2012 8:59:31 AM

Let me be specific about what I mean when I say "hot".
This is an ideal, of course, but you must fall SOMEWHERE in the range. If you are fat, old, bald, and ugly, DON'T KID YOURSELF. Save us both some time. Thanks.

 

Between ages 25-35


At least 6' tall - I am 5'7", and in heels, much more. I want you to be taller than me even in my heels.

 

Physically attractive, healthy & fit. I am a curvy and fit women - curves in all the right places. I don't aspire to be a size 2, so if you want a stick figure, find another. However, if you can appreciate a nice round ass, you've found one. I'm will laugh if you don't have an attractive face and body. You must be able to keep up with me on a hike. I have to WANT to see your face screwed up into the orgasm look.

 

Also no tobacco smokers. I like to smell good, thanks, and I do think about how I'm going to die one day. Suffocating b/c my lungs are black and shriveled is not something I want to do, nor do I want to be with someone who will go that way. Not to mention, extra health care costs. What can I say, I'm a long term planner.


Most importantly,you must be EMOTIONALLY healthy. Preferably you know what an "I" statement is, you are familiar with compassionate communication, and you do not have any addictions. If I ask you about a time you made a mistake, or had a conflict, and you can't be humble enough to identify a genuine flaw that you are working on, it smacks of EGO. It's fine to be a work in process, but an UNAWARE work in progress who denies they have any imperfections? No thanks. 

 

Of course just b/ c you are the kind of man who gets attention from Ladies in bars doesn't mean you will have the ability to handle me. To please me, you must be ATTENTIVE and CONSIDERATE. If you are so egotistical that your mainstream standard of beauty has gone to your head, take that shit to someone who cares.

 

I am financially stable and you must be too. I enjoy a certain standard of living, and try to enjoy my life in various ways. I want to share that with someone, not be resentful that you can't pay for drinks.


Obviously I can be a bitch. I'm an assertive woman ALL the time, not just when we're playing. You must like that. You must LOVE it. Be a gentleman and show me that deference at ALL times, not just when I have your cock locked up. 

 

 


12/25/2011 6:01:30 PM

Thanks, Santa! Just what I always wanted! A cock that stays hard forever!


11/23/2011 8:28:22 PM

I keep dreaming about Serena Williams' ass.....


11/15/2011 1:54:40 PM

They think they know.

 

They don't.

 

They think they want it.

 

They can't handle it.

 

They think it comes easily - or quickly.

 

It TAKES TIME.


9/19/2011 6:32:45 PM

Like this: "Hello Mistress. Thank you for your time this evening. Attached is the pic you requested. I appreciated emailing with you. This is my number. Hope to speak with you soon."

 

Followed by: "Hi Mistress. I know you don't like to text. Just sending you my number."

 

Then you wait patiently for me to contact you at my earliest convenience. Wouldn't you want the same? Don't you do the same for all your vanilla/professional contacts? Why should it be any different when trying to impress a Lady? If anything, go above and beyond. Show me you're worth squeezing in between work, school, life, laundry, sleep, etc...


Good boy.

 

 


9/19/2011 6:24:51 PM

Arrogant ass people man. You expect me to know you from Adam when you call me with a mystery number, "out of the blue"? No, fucker, refresh my memory! Yes, a lot of people on this site attempt to please me. Sadly, most of them don't make the cut. You want to stand a chance? Step up and be a gentleman. Don't make assumptions. Perhaps a more meaningful exchange before a time and place is agreed on would make you more memorable and give me a context. So something YOU should be aware of if you want to impress me. Demonstrate that you prioritize a lady's wishes, rather than only looking at this as about gratifying your own.

 

And if your dating "escorts"? Not interested. Is that shit supposed to impress me? How about a recent clean HIV test. Yuck. Fucking hipsters. You're so alternative you're going to have to find another date.


9/17/2011 10:14:48 PM

I found this in Common Ground Magazine, a book review of "The Kosher Sutra: 8 Sacred Secrets for Reigniting Desire and Restoring Passion for Life": Eastern, tantra, kabbalistically inspired sexuality is designed to increase rather than dissipate desire. Notice how many of the Jewish laws of marriage serve precisely to frustrate, rather than cater to, instant sexual gratification. A woman is sexually forbidden to her husband for a period of days each month, thereby rendering her forbidden and sexual relations with her sinful. Modest dress….leads to peeping toms. The obligation for a husband to sexually satisfy his wife before himself creates an erotic encounter whose purpose is not to afford him personal climax but to fan the flames of lust precisely by not granting him release. Sex without climax, a radical idea, especially when practiced over a period of days. When you master its discipline…damn the torpedoes and full steam ahead.

 

The Jewish people are known as Israel, which translates literally as “he who wrestles with G-d”. Friction, tension, struggle are at the very heart of the Jewish experience….related to Jewish creativity and resilience and accounts for why Judaism, alone among the religions of the world, deeply endorses passionate sexual interaction between man and woman. For what is lust other than the unresolved tension resulting from the constant friction of the masculine and feminine, leaving both feeling electrified and alive.  


9/17/2011 10:12:54 PM

I am becoming more interested with orgasm and urination control.

 

Also the idea of sacred sexuality and "slavery" being a mystical undertaking, wherein devotion is to something beyond even the Top. I often feel a sense of channeling a power that is beyond me. Ancient temple priestesses had a role that I find fascinating. 

 

Folks who refer to a "performance" will not be seen. This is not a fake role play to me. It's quite real. It requires perhaps even more heart and soul than the usual vanilla relationships. Pushing the boundaries of what our bodies and minds can experience. Dare I say hearts and souls too? I do. I dare.


9/6/2011 9:08:31 PM

Be warned, fellow kinksters, I don't like text. It's tacky, shallow, and impersonal. Be a grown up and CALL a Lady.


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 Age: 29
 Ft Myers, Florida