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Lifestyle Leather Ma'am
Coming soon: an adult only, alternative lifestyle friendly camp in the Missouri Ozarks. The sense of community found elsewhere is sorely missed. Hopes are a friendly, education orientated sense of community can be established and enjoyed here. A safe haven offering slave/sub rescue and rehabilitation is also envisioned.

Absolutely NO personal interest in casual play, kink only or OL. Do me's will be deleted. My picture is dated, old friends will recognize it and with living in a small town now I'm not interested in posting anything remotely current. Frankly I'm not interested in anyone off the cuff - people and social interaction first.
I'f it happens there's mutual interest in more that's fine - but it will be with people I've come to know and enjoy. I am very much interested in polite social conversation and interaction with others that have a sincere appreciation and respect for the lifestyle as more than a vehicle to secure kinky sex or satisfaction of a fetish. Nuf said.

30 years of BDSM, first slave at 21.
D/s PE first and foremost - weeeeee bit of a sadist (yeah right ;> )

I do not switch. Natural Domme, I found the Leather Lifestyle community some 20 years ago. Familiar with European Classism and Gorean lifestyles as well. Never pro. Not casual. Personally not into encounters or play for the sake of playing.
The deeper end of the pond where exploring and expanding the ability to surrender to another is a journey achieved through a personal bond as the primary point.

Polite conversation and questions are welcomed. I don't mind sharing what I've learned over time and from others with people who's company I enjoy. I am just not in the mood to be "tried out" to satisfy curiosity about the "fantasy". For myself, this is personal; a lifestyle lived where PEOPLE are involved and seeking connection to each other. I recognize that each of us has the right to pursue our own diverse brands of joy. However, I have no patience with "do me bottoms" , fetishists or swingers attempts to impose themselves on my "sweet and gentle "(yeah right) nature. Just being direct and very clear in an attempt to save myself aggravation and these folk's pain .

I do not demand 20 years of experience to consider a submissive or slave, but I do expect the maturity and self-awareness to know ones nature, know what lifestyle is about and know that this is what you seek, need, and can offer the right Dominant. The responsibility and significance of a collar is not a trifling matter to me - it should not be to you. One other thing, I will not "interview" online. Do NOT ask for consideration of a collar if you haven't met me, haven't gotten to know me in real life first. I can't take you seriously if neither of us knows the other - period. I have many, many interests. Am comfortable 5 star (know which fork to use) to roughing it in the wild (poison ivy makes a lousy substitute for toilet paper). I enjoy a warped sense of humor, prefer those in my care walk proud, are bright, obedient, eager to please and fulfilled with realized potential rather than stifled in the name of submission. I have no interest in toying with gender identification, sexual orientation or religious beliefs. No children, scat, beasts, permanent mental or physical harm. SSC. My role is not to wrest your submission or force it from you but to work together WITH you, to guide, support, facilitate and motivate growth in your desire, preference and need to surrender and submit in an alternate lifestyle choice. I'm friendly, sociable, like to cut up and have a good time - there are time when seriousness is appropriate - but not ALL the time! Say hi, I don't normally bite as long as folks are polite and don't hump my leg ;>

4/24/2008 8:03:45 AM
Have hit some snags that will likely delay being able to open the camp as soon as planned.  Bummer, but that's life.  If it were easy, anybody could do it. Progress is slow - the weather and repeated flooding no small factor.  Shopping for heavy equipment and hope to have that in place soon.  Progress should pick up considerably from there. 

Meanwhile, spring has arrived!  Every thing is greening up (or is that moss?).  The redbuds, dogwoods and spring flowers are blooming like crazy, leaves are budding out - it's gorgeous!

Getting a two-day float trip with an overnight layover here organized around the 4th.  If enough kinky folk have interest maybe organize one just for us too? Drop a line!
2/4/2008 9:16:42 PM
For those seeking a service placement:

There is interest in re-establishment of a D/s service orientated  household as a lifestyle lived.   I do not need to be supported, nor am I interested in "pets" or sexual submissives.  Read again - service orientated submissives and slaves....

Some may ask why I just don't just hire workers.  First of all I don't want to freak out the vanillas with the openly lifestyle environment desired here - this is heavy Baptist country after all.  Second, the area has poor work ethics and I can't beat them when they fail to show up on time or screw something up.  Third, I simply prefer to be among my own kind and view this as an opportunity for those with the desire to invest themselves in the creation of a community center to secure their own place in it  - perhaps only on a limited basis for a period of time, preferably long term, either as staff or possibly as a permanent member of My house.  

The renovations and initial construction of campground facilities are only the first step of an ongoing development effort. There will be continue to be business's added along the highway frontage that will provide additional employment opportunities in-house.  Online and retail stores with a variety of goods - fetish and vanilla.  Additional quarters both for visitors and staff to be built.  Ambitious yes, but doable.

Those that wish to be considered should at least meet the minimum criteria which is:   Unattached or with fully consenting s/o.  Reasonably intelligent, healthy, desirous and able to be of service.  Local within 4 hours drive to the Ft. Leonard Wood, MO area or able to relocate within 90 days.  It is expected that you would present yourself, at your expense, here for a purely social meet within 30 days once sufficient mutual interest has been established.  A second extended (7-10 days minimum) visit prior to submitting a limited term service contract for consideration would be acceptable.  The preferred goal is long term, perhaps even permanent placement.  The only way to determine if that is workable is in real life, real time.  This is only going to occur if you are indeed prepared to relocate, if not in-house, at least within the area. I don't have the time or interest in a  extended long distance "courtship" only to be blown off when I say get yer buns here.  I'll better get to know you and you I while you're here. 

Continuing to work outside the compound is encouraged but not necessarily required.  For professionals it's understood that you will have career goals and obligations limiting your availability.   There is, as noted, much to be done here that would provide work/employment.
I seek those with practical skills that can/will contribute to developing and running this large property as envisioned, various business's, rental properties as well as the general household.    

Immediate needs:
        Construction and maintenance
        Heavy equipment/excavation 
        Mechanic - farm and automotive
        Gardening and groundskeeping
        Web page and internet sales/bookings
Additionally In future:
        Wait staff, bartenders, clerks,
            managers, security
        Crafters - wood,  leather, etc
        Possibly other service industry workers
          such as massage therapists and
          beauticians 
        
This is not intended to be a Castle Realm. 
People work, pay bills, continue education and so on.  Blood , sweat and tears, real life demands.  It does rather tickle me to envision a bull dozer operator in a ball gown and heels or a garderner dressed in nothing but a collar, straw hat, work gloves and boots, or pony boys/girls providing taxi service......  

11/21/2007 3:45:00 AM
Wow! It's been over a year since a journal entry.  Time to update.  Has been a busy year, productive, though not without significant challanges. Then again if things were too easy I doubt I'd know how to act and get bored.

Started on a new project here that has me very excited.   Creating a private adult only, clothing optional, alternative lifestyle friendly campground in the MO Ozarks.   Don't the Baptists luv me - not!  Actually there has been quite a bit of support that was suprising - until I learned MO is the nudist capital of the USA - who'd a thunk?

The land is so pretty and peaceful, private.  If I didn't have other things to tend to I could easily become a hermit - though of course expectations are that there will be visitors to look forward to when the place is opened.  

Think every Dom/me dreams of having thier own little King/Queendom where they can live thier life openly, yet privately.  Surround themselves with others having broadened horizons for company.  Plans are to create and offer a haven for those with interest in BDSM to gather, hold classes, seminars and eventually host events in a natural setting instead of in city hotels.     

Lot's to do and think about.  Should keep me buzzing for years as the campground is just the start of plans here.

For those that are curious on the progress, check here for now.  A web page is in early planning stages.  Hope to have the basics in place to open next season.

The 2A pond is about half completed (sand beach for swimming, fishing, maybe a paddle boat or two).  Roads are pretty well in.  The Jacuzzi will be delivered tommorow.  The well drilled Monday.  Plans for the bath house and gameroom are in progress but ground has yet to be broken.  The small canoe and john boat ramp is ready to be concreted when the bath house foundation goes in. The old farm house I'm living in needs a little work as well but progress on that and clearing up the overgrowth on the property as well. 

A busy 2-3 months especially when considering my health took a pretty hard hit about three weeks into it that has slowed me down.  I'll get over it but timing stinks.  Have to admit, I almost regret being so damn picky.  Being pampered, tended to and assisted with all that's going on (and how rotten I feel) is sorely missed.  But, I'll over come -  wouldn't be me if I did otherwise.
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8/24/2005 10:32:10 PM
Looks like I'm Missouri bound - trading corn for trees and hills - yaaaahooo!

Once again - please do not toss a spam note at me offering yourself.  I am NOT on the hunt.  My interest is primarily in pleasant contact with like minded  folks.  Yes, eventually I do hope to encounter someone that grows on me enough over time that I absolutely can't resist them - and then I won't.  Trust that "hello, take me" won't cut it here. 
carladee
 
 Age: 26
 Berkshire, United Kingdom