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Hello.

After years of defining myself as a submissive, I have finally come to the conclusion that I am too opinionated and strong to be controlled. Someday I might meet my match, but as it stands, my ideas of how a home should be ordered is, despite my multiple attempts to be the "little lady", very much about beauty and order as I envision it.

Surprisingly, as a Dominant woman, I would still insist on housekeeping, because with my idol in life being Martha Stewart , I value domestic arts. I think that is where I got "stuck". I equated domesticity with submission.

I also have found that I am more attracted to women (over men) when I am in charge, but I am open to the right man as well.

I am not Cruella de Ville. That said, I absolutely love administering pain, especially to those who crave it. I have been told I am quite good at it, too.

My ideal partner would be someone who is super-well mannered, respectful, kind, honest and un-materialistic. It is important to me to create a lovely environment while remaining frugal, and I belive in enjoying life to the fullest.

As a submissive, you would be a treasured member of my family, not a doormat or a gimp. Your voice would be heard, but I would, like a level-headed mother, give you discipline and guidance.

Oh, I don't do the "Me" thing. I am not God. Nothing against people who do the caps.

Please do not contact me if you are looking for play only. I am looking for a life partner to grow old with.

I will ignore form letters, so please answer the following questions in order to get a response from me:

1. What do you consider submission to be?
2. Do you have a Dominant side at all?
3. What are your primary vanilla interests?
4. What are your five favorite topics of conversation for over dinner?
5. Describe your ideal five-course meal. Who would be there and how would we dress?

I will not respond to any message that does not at least give a brief answer for each.

LL
jenthesextoy8
 
 Age: 28
 LOGOS, South Africa