Actual conversation tonight:

Me: You had a good grip...that's going to be a fun one to explain to the docs if it bruises!
Master: Yeah I wasn't sure how my grip was there, I couldn't get a good angle
Me: Oh trust me you had a -really- good grip the whole time. I can see me trying to explain this one. "No Doc, its ok, it was consensual I swear!"
Master (Laughing)
Me: Sorry doctor, we're just not vanilla!
Master: We're Vanilla-esque
Me: Honey there is nothing vanilla about begging Daddy to choke me while I talk about fucking sissy with a strap on!
Master: true...

Why do I consider myself a dominant rather than a switch? 

In my mind, a switch can find their other side for more than just the one right person. I am NOT submissive by nature and the fact that I am willing to kneel at my Master's feet says a lot about not just me but about him. I honestly can not see myself serving another at any time in the near or distant future.

Lets get one thing straight here, boys. I am not here to chase you. If the right slave is looking to serve me he (or she, though the problem seems to be primarily with males. Then again, what can one expect from creatures that think with the wrong head most of the time?), then he will find me.

 If you can not be bothered to type out a three letter word (ARE vs R; YOU vs U; etc..) then you are not impressing me. First impressions are everything, and when your message is your first introduction it had better be, well, impressive! Don't give me the bullshit of "Well it's modern texting, EVERYONE does it". No, "everyone" does not. I do not. Most of my friends do not; even when texting on our phones. 

 If you can't type well, say so, mention it in your message for cripes sake! I've had to learn to translate my fiance's typing, it doesn't bother me, because he at least TRIES to make a clear statement.

Above all, don't question MY education when I tell you that I am not interested because you can't be bothered to TRY! My goodness, really? You have a college education but can't type a three letter word? Sounds like you wasted a lot of good money there, buddy. 

Well, lets start at the beginning. The kinky beginning at least....I've always known that what I now know is "Vanilla" was not enough for me. When I was 18 I began exploring the lifestyle with my then-girlfriend. I discovered my Domme side quickly...and my cat reveled in it.

 My cat? Oh yes, about that. I am a Mountain Lioness Therian. This is not my only 'kin side, but it is the most dominant. I'm still exploring and learning about my other sides.

 After a year or so I left the lifestyle, but ended up drifting in and out for many years. I considered myself a switch...then in 2006 a "friend" who called himself a Dom took advantage of me when I'd had some rum and slipped into subspace. I ran away from the lifestyle for a few years.

 December of 2010 I started to re-examine that side of my life, and began to get back into the lifestyle, first considering myself a Domme, then giving in and calling myself a switch due to one fetish that I didn't see as a Domme attribute (but now know can be!)

I got involved with what was supposed to have been a "Lifestyle Household".Supposedly as a switch but never given the opportunity to be a Domme. I will not name that household, but I will say that it was not a good situation in any sense.

 My cat, as usual, was the first to balk at the control. She won, I left that situation, and I have come to accept my position as a Domina.

 So what else should you know....hmm. Well, for starters I love to laugh. If you were to spend the day with my friends and I, you would find laughter is great for weight loss! (Seriously, my bff and I laughed off a couple pounds once! hehe) I'm a very casual Domme, but when I need to be, I can be strict, even downright cruel if the situation warrants it.

 Like most cats, I'm playful and even in play the claws do occasionally come out. Piss me off and you'll meet claw and fang!

 I do write, though the closest I've come to being published is a poem in the National Library of Poetry's collection one year in middle school. I have a novel I've been working on but it hasn't gotten very far, a Mummy fan-fic and a LotR fan-fic that I work on occasional, a crap-ton of poetry, and one erotica that is about two paragraphs from being done that I keep meaning to get around to.

 If you're going to hang out with me, be prepared to hear such colorfull phrases as "I don't give a flying monkey fuck!"....and to make my quote book if you say something that makes me giggle.