looks like I'll be enjoying my last night in SK being more than well behaved. Pity..

in Saskatoon for the week. Enjoying my break so far, might be looking for some friends soon

Looking for a new apartment in Edmonton. Doesn't necessarily have to be kink-friendly, but that would be a bonus. I work downtown so the closer the better.

~LK~

Two more days of dogwalking. Wow I had no idea what an undertaking this would be. I've had a cat for 11 years, ever since he was a kitten. Pretty low maintenance compared to this dog; I'll admit it, I'm definitely not a dog person. I almost don't want to see another collar and leash for a while, unless it was strategically located of course.

~LK~

I was wondering why dominant men view my profile and try to message me in an attempt to take me as their submissive woman. Does the fact that I identify as a dominant woman establish myself as an even greater challenge to somehow overcome? Well I can save your time and assure you this is definitely not an option, not now nor in the near or far future. I do not seek a dominant hand to guide nor mold me into 'a Lady'.

Likewise, I have no interest in influencing dominant men into coming to terms with their submissive nature (although I've actually had a few requests, as if someone can change their orientation based on something as superficial as a corset). If a man is dominant in their 'normal' lives but wish to become my pet, that is another story.
I am not one for ranting, but I do feel this necessary to make explicit.

~LK~

For those interested in hearing a bit about the paper I wrote for my poli-sci class:
   My interest was two-fold: How do women fare in both the overt and covert systems of power exchange (bdsm vs. mainstream societal norms), and how do those structures of power work with or against the other.
   What I found was interesting. We all know that men can be extremely dominant and sadistic, and so can women, but the difference is that in mainstream society, institutions and cultural norms are built around male dominance and female submission (i.e.: lower wages for women regardless of education levels, the 'old boys' club'  [washroom/golf course] where most/all business interactions are gleaned & honed, virtually no childcare support for women to even have access to those lower paying jobs, battered women's shelters but no gay/lesbian focused social support for spouse abuse, etc. etc.).
   Further, women's domination is based on the somewhat contradictory but mutual nature of consent highly prevalent in the bdsm lifestyle. In other words, we can dominate whomever we choose, so long as they consent to such, regardless of the end activities which may consist of abuse in extreme sado-masochistic ways.
   In contrast, the structure of society has lent itself to the illusion of inherent male domination,  naturalising it beyond reason  we all come to believe that women are the weaker sex, and that men know the best way to configure the world).
  That being said, I have faith in my position as a dominant women in this society.We all know there are people who love to be controlled, as long as it is explicit and consensual. I recommend that larger society takes a better look at the world of bdsm and learn a thing or two. The power is in communication and respect.

~LK~

I have a friend in the military who is particularly fond of me and my well-being and would do anything to ensure my safety, thus he recently offered to bodyguard any of my future sessions. This rekindled some thoughts and has rather piqued my interest in becoming involved in the local scene, finally. I thought that would add an extra fun dimension to humiliation scenes, when a big strong man (he's 6'5" tall) is there to watch you get worked over by this beautiful, strong woman.

I am not promising anything, but I would definitely be more open to requests and propositions than I have been in the recent past (those of you who are committed to never giving up on my brief retirement, here may be your chance for some attention).

No, I won't kick you hard where you need it most just by asking. Everything is reciprocal in my world; rewards must be earned and insolence will not be tolerated.

~LK~

The new variety of pics that readily display everyone's naughty bits makes discreetly viewing profiles difficult...Then again maybe I should be managing my emails in environments that are less discriminating.

Will be back in Toronto again at the end of the month. I'm so ready for a vacation..

*I forgot to mention this offer is only good for those whom I know already*

Taboo show in Edmonton Nov. 20-22. Currently accepting applications for those interesting in being one of my escorts for this event.

I just love watching other people when I'm out and about, trying to guess their kinks or place within the spectrum of BDSM.
 
I am getting accustomed to reading others lately. I like to think I have the skill to recognize the submissive ones who attempt to portray themselves as dominants in their vanilla lives. There are some men who appear as if they would love to kneel in front of a dominant woman, and others that arrogantly expect to be served by any and everyone.

Sometimes, just to be cruel and have a little fun, as I am walking by them in a hallway of some sort I will stare down those dominant-behaving men who think they own the place. Not necessarily to look mean or to get their attention. Perhaps more just to challenge their place on the invisible yet oh-so-present hierarchy of power.

On today's such occasion our boy looked so uncomfortable with my straight-forward approach to dealing with arrogant men, that he blushed instantly and could not return the eye contact. Others try to but usually end up acting just plain awkwardly. They usually hang their head and look at the ground, or grab their suddenly important cellphone and pretend to look at it. I haven't come across one that was able to keep their squared and 'puffed-up' posture in my presence, presumably denoting the false exterior they exude.
 
I know that I'm tall, beautiful, strong, and intimidating. I just wish that someday I could actually come across a man who can hold his own, properly addressing the energy that comes with my presence.