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shhhhh......come here toMe pet...I have what you desire..... you need only beg Me for it.

Please be local. Long distance does not work for me. I am a hands on Dominant. Not interested in married or attached men. I am looking for a submissive for a LTR. I cannot get any clearer than that. Please for the love of God, be respectful. If you are not sure what all that entails, look it up. Google is your friend!

Please be over the age of 55 and under the age of 69. Dont smoke. No drugs. No exceptions. Be forewarned, I am considered a BBW. You will need to make sure you attach a recent picture of yourself when sending any correspondence to me. I am sure I dont have to say what happens to the email if you dont?? I am very familiar with the delete button on here.


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12/24/2022 12:06:01 PM

Merry Christmas and a happy, healthy, peaceful New Year!!

11/23/2022 9:57:43 PM

I'm to enjoy and celebrate a day of thanks tomorrow, along with good food and family. My wish is that everyone else does as well. 


9/6/2022 9:44:40 AM

My search continues for that elusive soul who will belong to me and me only. I continue to "kiss countless toads" for a chance at happiness. 

I was going to write a bit about whats going on in the world today, my backyard, my front yard, etc...but you know, blah blah blah.


Man is it ever hot! 

8/18/2022 9:56:20 AM

Looks like i was ghosted for a second time...unbelievable!

what is that idiom? Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.

Lesson learned. Moving on.


7/30/2022 3:01:33 PM

to those of you who think that a meeting should be hurried: this is something that you should know about me.

I need to have a sense of who I am meeting and the only way I know to do that is to have a lot of conversation and correspondence beforehand. I will not engage in primarily sexual based conversations before establising compatibility and mutual interest. I am much more interested in what's between your ears than what's between your legs.  I have, on occasion, met people off the internet without spending much time chatting with them. Most times it has never led to anything beyond that initial meet. The majority of the people that I do correspond with on here does not lead to a face to face meeting. If it did, consider yourself lucky. 

In particular, the need to know the other person is more important than if I was embarking on a vanilla relationship.
I don't consider this process 'time-wasted because the search is usually interesting whether it results in a face to face or not. I refused to be hurried in the process. If you cannot articulate with me in an email then the chances are pretty damn high you will not when we are face to face.

If any of the above statements seem too trying or unreasonable, I honestly don't care. Just don't contact me.

5/30/2022 2:23:47 PM

Thought I would update. It's been awhile. My life is moving on in Southern California. Im still searching for someone to start out as friends and move on from there. I am most definitely Dominant, and would prefer a submissive man. Seems to be almost impossible to find one close enough and unencumbered to have some fun experiences with. Whatever those may be. Feel free to reach out to me, but include a recent picture of yourself with any correspondence. I will be trying to upload more recent pictures to my profile, but cannot promise that the site will update. After all, I have been in SoCal for almost a year now and the profile still says Oregon. 

1/1/2022 10:00:30 PM

Here's to a new and adventurous year! {#emotions_dlg.cheerleader}

10/24/2021 11:20:45 PM

I'm back in SoCal now. For whatever reason, profile will not update. Still looking for local, available submissive. So say hello. Don't forget to attach a recent picture. Ciao 

11/23/2016 4:52:10 PM
Happy Thanksgiving all you turkeys! May you all be stuffed by the end of the day. <evil wicked smile>


11/10/2016 7:13:59 PM
Here's to all us "deplorable's" (Raising my glass)

10/1/2016 8:00:19 AM
Geese are taking off for the south...early morning listening to them fly overhead, calling out to one another, in their V formations...fall is coming.  =)

My next road trip is next weekend. Heading up to Olympic National Park via Hwy 101. Looking forward to the time away, unplugging, reading, picture taking, drinking in some Mother Nature!  =)

There are some hot springs up there I am looking forward to dipping in. Also getting my fill of fresh crab, oysters, and salmon!  yum!

7/8/2016 10:33:28 PM
Heading out on another road trip Tuesday. This time I am going to Glacier National Park. I want to drive the "Going to the Sun" road. I am very excited about it.  =) 

The only way it would be better is to have a good submissive boi riding along to take care of all the little details.

Wish me good weather and safe travels. I should be back on the following Saturday/Sunday. I am hoping to post pictures of my stops/interests along the way on my Fet life page.

ciao ciao

5/28/2016 8:45:20 AM
Going to take a small road trip tomorrow, Sunday, 05.29. Portland to Cannon Beach and down the 101 to Oceanside and Tillamook. Back on Hwy 6 unless I decide to go down further to Pacific and come back to Portland on the back roads. Trusty phone camera in hand.

 I am excited!~

4/29/2016 8:24:08 PM
Back on the book wagon again:

Current read: The Liar's Club    by Mary Karr.

The title reminds me of this site    :p


12/24/2015 9:35:52 PM
Merry Christmas to all the galaxies far, far away...=)

7/11/2015 2:20:37 PM
georgie porgie puddin' and pie,

kissed the girls and made them cry.

when the boys came out to play,

georgie porgie ran away.


7/4/2015 2:10:38 PM
Happy Fourth of July everybody! 

1/18/2015 10:25:51 PM
For those of you wondering why I am looking at the submissive profiles in Oregon, there is a slight possibility that I could move up there at the end of this year.  It all depends on my job, so thought I would take a peek at what's available.  =)

It looks promising...


12/25/2014 2:16:46 AM
Merry Christmas! and a happy, healthy, prosperous New Years to ya!


12/17/2014 8:00:05 AM
The sun is peeking thru my windows this morning. Nice clean fresh air after the storms. Love this part of the day.

I hope everyone is enjoying the Holidays!

9/18/2014 8:20:30 AM
ok back from Convict Lake.  Nice area, but must say, I like the campgrounds up from Tom's Place much better. More tree's and no lake, but plenty of streams to fish in.

Couple of things worth mentioning... first morning up at around 4:45, started the fire, looked up and first thing I saw was a shooting star! Great way to start the trip. =)

Next morning, I was sitting, reading, when I heard a sound, looked up and was surrounded by a herd of deer.  LOL  needless to say, spooked me a bit. They were just foraging thru which was ok by me.  =)

Morning after, reading again, looked up and there was a doe with twin fawns at my campsite! They hung out for about an hour, nibbling on the bushes surrounding my site. Quite the experience to see the babies up close and personal like that. Cute babies!! Playful, fun, pestering momma.  =)

Even with all the "critter" excitement, beautiful views, and good fishing,(caught 4) for some reason I much prefer the campgrounds above Tom's Place.

All in all, I got what I wanted, which was to recharge my batteries, get back to nature, and some nice  "me" time. I forget how much I miss that until I make it happen.

Take the time everybody to do what you love. Get connected again. To yourself.


9/9/2014 5:10:11 AM
heading up to Convict Lake this next weekend for some camping, fishing, horseback riding, and just general all around "recharging" of my batteries. YEAHHHH ME!!

I can hardly wait. Hope this week goes by fast!

I welcome any tidbits of info concerning the area or fishing.  =)

9/8/2014 7:37:40 AM

Come on rain and thunder storms!! yessssssss

8/11/2014 8:36:33 PM
I am sad beyond belief at the loss of the comic genius, Robin Williams.
May you finally rest in peace from all your demons sweet man!!
*soul deep sigh*

8/9/2014 12:54:09 AM

another year younger   =)

my birthday was a good one.  Met some new people, tried some new things.

I must say tho I was disappointed with a subbie boi I have been playing with on a regular basis. he did not even tell me Happy Birthday on my day.  =( but it really is the small stuff that gives you such insight into a person's make up. Time to let him go... 

I have set some goals for myself for the next year. As always I am looking to mesh with a certain someone who can travel my path alongside me.


6/11/2013 6:27:39 AM
I was able to go try out some pistols yesterday at a local gun range. What an awesome and informative day! It definitely helped in my decision making process, :) One of the best part was knowing the "wannabe" with me was wearing panty hose like the good little piggie he is. :)

12/24/2012 7:34:09 AM



Merry Christmas Everyone!!



11/7/2012 7:18:54 PM

I finally met the "resident" bear the other night!!


Was a stare down between him and the headlights of my truck.  =)


Seems this time, my truck won.  *thank goodness



11/6/2012 5:28:34 AM


Please VOTE!!!


10/18/2012 11:37:07 AM

I am loving the change in the air...leaves are falling as well as the temperatures.


My firepit needs some TLC!! Any volunteers??



5/26/2012 7:55:48 AM

Will be out of town for 5 days starting monday morning.


Lucky me, I get to go to Cheyenne, WY for a week.  =)


DIGGING my new place!! Hate to leave it.



5/17/2012 2:25:24 PM

I am in my new place now!!  YAAAAY me.

It's picture perfect. Lots of little nooks and crannies to perform all kinds of perverted acts on my little piggies!!

It has wood beam ceilings <eg>

It has a shed in the back yard.  <weg>


Can't wait to use them. Tonight will be the first time using at least one. Have one of my piggies coming down to try it out. How lucky is he??~~  lol


I do want to thank "S" for agreeing to be my Bitch boi for moving day~  you were so much help!! <kisses>




5/10/2012 8:16:47 AM

For those of you who are counting...


I will be offline starting Fri, May 11th while I move into my NEW HOME!!!  Yaaaay me! It has been a long time coming and I am so excited.


The internet will be sketchy at best, so will be a few days before back up. Those of you lucky enough to have my new cell, can always either call or text me.  :P


ciao ciao little piggies!



3/19/2012 11:45:13 AM

so it's been awhile since I have written anything here.


Back in Feb, I met halfway with a submissive who had the tiniest dick I have ever seen on a person. It was downright laughable!! So much so, that I was delighted to make fun of it the whole weekend. I have seen clits on females that are bigger than him.  lol

To watch him masturbate with just the tips of his two fingers was truly something to see.


I will put up some pictures I took of it so that you can see that what I am saying about it being sooo small is the truth. (Trying to tie it was a joke) Hell, trying to do anything with it was a joke!  =) I wont' have to label which pictures are his,  I assure you. lol


Ladies/Domina's, please feel free to contact this "little" slut boy and let him know just how tiny his dick is. =)  He needs to be reminded from time to time what a little bullet he has. 


his name is Im2x4ed


Tell him LadyK sent you!  =)


ask him about the video of him getting caught masterbating by the maids walking into  the motel room we stayed in.  LOL







1/8/2012 1:44:51 PM

Out of town for a couple of days...

be back on Wednesday. (for those of you keeping count)


12/24/2011 5:21:24 PM

Merry Christmas to all! Hope Santa is very very good to you!! 




10/29/2011 3:39:19 PM



my search continues...



10/18/2011 2:41:43 PM



I admit to stealing this one....=)

Don't ask to be made into what you are not.  Just become a better version of what you are!!



10/10/2011 5:56:02 PM



I have found the wonderful world of chai tea frappuccino's and three new books...


Plainsong by Kent Haruf 

Tropic of Cancer by Henry Miller 

and The Dharma Bums...can't remember the author.


Now if only I could find a cute little outdoor table to go with my new chaise lounger, life would indeed be grand!!


{#} LK



10/4/2011 11:44:58 PM




I am happy  =)

8/18/2011 9:28:26 AM


I'm in socal now!

****yaaaay me****


8/9/2011 11:52:23 PM


Will be going off line tomorrow the 10th for my move to cali.


Should be back on line around the 15th!



8/1/2011 12:42:43 PM

so here is the scoop!!


I am in process of packing...


I am moving to socal on Aug 12th. Things are looking up!!



7/5/2011 11:39:37 AM



back from Vegas...


          Fabulous time!!!


                  thank you slut!!



6/30/2011 7:52:24 AM

so VERY excited about My trip tomorrow to Vegas!!!


it's come down to, which toys do I take to torture My darling slut with??  <eg>


which ones indeed!!  LOL


I am thinking someone needs to make a "all in one" playing device! something great for traveling, doesn't take up a lot of room, and can still bring about the desired reactions from use on a submissive/slave!  Sorta like a swiss army knife!  :p



6/21/2011 12:28:49 PM

yaaaaay Me!!

Just finalized plans to stay at the Wynn in Las Vegas over the 4th of July weekend!

(and a most handsome, available submissive to play with, is the icing on the cake)




6/20/2011 11:51:29 PM



I have had a brutal night at work...really feeling pissed off at most people I have had to deal with lately.... 

come home to log on to answer some emails, and this is one of the emails I get:


"very well in your age to keep yourself sexy and make people still bow down like dogs to your body."


from a "29" yr old dominant...seriously? 

I could not stop laughing...

was a great stress buster!!






6/17/2011 12:45:03 PM

why is it that some people still insist on sending Me email without reading My profile?


tells Me two things right up front about you....


1. there is no way in hell that you are serious about having a bdsm relationship.

2. there is no way in hell I would be even remotely interested in you.


Of course putting this in My journal defeats the still wont' get read.


(insert an emoticon banging head against wall)





6/3/2011 5:08:17 PM



I suppose these were a long time coming...but they are now here


the pictures of Me were taken today, 6.3.2011.


(thank you for the motivation)



5/18/2011 10:39:52 AM



End of July, beginning of August!!


Looks like my transfer to Vegas will happen...


(what say all you piggies that live there???)


LK {#}

5/5/2011 5:45:07 PM

I played with a gentleman today who presented me with a couple of new toys!


We were able to use one, but I was having so much fun with it, we ran out of time to try the other one!!  =)


Will save the other toy for next time. Look for pictures soon.



12/16/2010 10:00:24 AM



Merry Christmas to all!!

 Hope Santa brings you all your favorite toys!!


LK* {#}

12/10/2010 7:44:59 AM

The "right" one isn't someone you is someone you create together. 
 It is unbelievable how many people are in search for the "right one", living self-imposed mental fantasies of denial, with no ability whatsoever to manifest their inner most desires.

11/10/2010 10:43:47 PM

Listen, I don't know about anyone else on here, but it doesn't please me in the least to receive sloppily written profiles or those that contain numerous typos, misspellings, or gross grammatical mistakes. Really, laziness is not an attractive trait, and it's definitely not one that I would desire in a submissive when reviewing your chances for a long term commitment.

If you can't spell correctly, I would suggest the following sites to help you:

Happy spelling!!

10/2/2010 10:37:52 PM

I admit to copying this from another's hit home for me:

"we don't always know why we're looking, let alone what we'll find....or what we are meant to find until we find it....or it finds us"

8/8/2010 1:29:08 AM

thank you for all the birthday wishes my little piggies   =)
until next year 

7/26/2010 1:21:28 AM
It is with a heavy heart that I found out a friend of mine from the BDSM scene in socal has lost his battle with cancer yesterday. I can only hope he is in peace now and my thoughts are with his family and friends as they transition through this difficult time.
You will be missed Lord Dan Sir!

7/6/2010 9:27:58 AM

In spite of some things...
I had an awesome fourth of July!!
Looking forward now to my birthday. <eg>

5/21/2010 9:37:30 PM

Let us so live that when we come to die, even the undertaker will be sorry. -- M. Twain

4/18/2010 9:04:05 AM

I will be out of town from the 21st thru the 27th of April. Will be down in SoCal visiting friends and family.

Be good my little piggies!! 

4/8/2010 6:52:20 AM

FYI: My computer got a nasty virus!!!
Answer's to emails and such will be slow in coming...
deal with it!

1/25/2010 8:01:38 AM

I am currently looking to play with a female submissive. Real time, face to face, only need answer!!

1/19/2010 8:19:38 PM

In a world where priorities are essential, never make anyone a priority that only sees you as an option...

1/13/2010 1:57:02 PM
Looking for a "houseboy" on a regular schedule. Duties to include, but not limited to:
cleaning, fixing, shopping, personal needs.

If you are interested and are close by, contact me...we can work out the details.

1/11/2010 8:20:45 AM

Every once in awhile you start conversing with someone on here that restores your faith in peoples ability to, well, just be people. Stimulating conversations, laughter, and infinite possibilities that are still out there...thank you! However this turns out, I will be thankful that you stepped into my life at this time.  =)

12/25/2009 7:35:46 AM

Merry Christmas Everyone!

12/6/2009 8:13:59 PM
I was watching the snow fall earlier. It "quiets" everything with its blanket. Sitting quietly. Thinking quiet thoughts. Waiting...wondering...wishing

5/4/2009 8:10:09 PM

Seems I am not very clear on this medium what it is I am seeking exactly.

I seek a Long Term Relationship, ( and all that it applies),  in which I am the Dominant and you are the submissive.

Another reason to be close by.

If you are interested in screwing around, you will have to find someone else.

Hope that clears things up a bit.

4/7/2009 4:58:14 AM

Ok seems that most everyone thinks that the only city in Nevada is Vegas...countless invites to meet, join, talk , etc...thinking I reside in Vegas. Please...I do not live in Vegas. I live in Northern Nevada. Better part of Nevada   <eg>

2/26/2009 4:04:41 AM
Will be offline for a bit due to a move.
Hope to be back up and running fairly soon.
Have fun!

1/17/2009 1:33:47 PM

For all you "submissives" out here, if you want to serve, then serve. I'm not looking to "pull" submission out of anyone. Either you are submissive or you are not. If you can't take the time to "learn" who I am, then you definately cannot serve me.

I am going to want so much more from you than simply "playing" at submissiveness. Be ready to comply or dont' bother me.

12/30/2008 5:10:05 PM
"Typos are very important to all written form. It gives the reader
something to look for so they aren't distracted by the total lack of
content in your writing."                        
R. K. Milholland, Something Positive Comic, 07-03-05

12/18/2008 9:35:58 PM

Someone asked me recently what I look for in a submissive/slave:

I look for the initiative in a submissive/slave. If I have to tell them what to do then, more often than not, I could have done it myself. I look for them to anticipate, initiate, and investigate ways to make my life better on their own.

10/16/2008 7:03:58 AM
BTW....I am NOT in Vegas!  (for all you map challenged souls) I live in Northern Nevada. 

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