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If you are looking for someOne to dominate you online or by phone because that is all you can manage to offer, you had best have more to offer than your time. I am in the mood for a plaything, and I may be tempted to interact with a boy who is sincere in his need to please me. Be ready to prove your sincerity by following real life instructions, taking pictures to prove your obedience, while always speaking to me with the utmost respect. Be clear on your time constraints, what you hope to experience, and what you are willing to provide in an attempt to entice me. TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS ENTIRE PROFILE AND MY JOURNALS BEFORE CONTACTING ME. THOSE WHO OFFER ONE LINE INTRODUCTIONS WILL BE BLOCKED.
For now, this part of my profile does not apply, as I am too busy at this time to take on the training of a real time boy. I am leaving this profile up to allow those who wish to please me an idea of my expectations in real time. I can be equally as intense by phone or email. If you are not sincere and ready to please me, do not waste my time.
If you are looking for the real deal, 24/7, live-in enslavement to One this is my ultimate goal (It is not however, my only goal):
I am looking for a selfless slave, one whose desire to please over shadows his own wants and needs. This slave will offer whatever services are required of him at any time, and may be kept isolated in a cage when not in use. He will be taught detailed housekeeping. He will be taught impeccable manners. He will learn the talents of extreme pampering. He will be taught to beg from the bottom of his heart. He will be taught humility by whatever means seem fit at the time. He will be made to grovel, in the deepest, darkest sense of the word. He has no limits of his own, no favorite kinks, and no preferences. His only need is to please...

The slave I seek will be held in long term chastity with a device, and knows it is not about being chaste. At other times he will be dominated sexually, and knows it is not about sex. He will be financially dominated, and understands it is not about money. He will accept pain in whatever forms chosen for him, and knows it is not about suffering. He will be isolated and know it is not about being alone. He will learn to offer himself in ways he never dreamed possible, and know that it is never enough...

Age, sexual preferences, looks, nor race matter. It is the courage to follow a path not for the faint of heart that is important.

Once chosen, you will turn everything you own over to me. It is only then that I will have what you really need. Your vulnerabilty. Your humility. Your fears. Eventually trust. Gratitude. Service for the sake of service. Pleasing for it's own merit. Your bared soul will be mine for the having, and you will be free.

Are you ready to be reinvented? You only have one chance to make a good first impression. Be smart. Read all my journal entries before contacting me.




6/1/2010 8:16:47 PM
I live in the vanilla world. You will too. For all intents and purposes you may at times appear to be my friend, or personal assistant. At other times, to the uneducated, vanilla eye, you may appear as my extremely accomodating boyfriend.  Do not ever make the mistake of thinking you are my equal in such moments.
3/31/2009 10:32:14 PM
Begging is not something a boy does with his eyes, or his facial expressions. It is not something he does on his knees, unless it is ordered.

Begging is something he does AFTER he has positioned himself as instructed. Only then, when he has already surrendered to what is about to happen is he in a position to beg, be it for mercy, lube, or whatever he hopes I will consider.
1/5/2009 2:31:28 AM
My limits are what governs the household, and those in it. I have many uses for a slave, but having someone digest what belongs in the toilet is not one of them. I do not allow illegal activities beyond occasional nudity in remote locations. I am protective of what is mine, and would never put a slave in a position to be harmed in a way that has long term affects. This includes the care I take to ensure they will not contact stds.
 
When it comes time to alter the behavior of a slave who has displeased me, the outcome can be very intense. I mean for you to hate punishment so much you will do whatever you can to avoid it. This is not to say a very good boy would never earn a playful discipline, because that is possible. It would be however, a hard earned reward, and nothing close to what is needed to change a person's behavior.
 
My dominance over a slave is expressed daily, but it is not always physical. He is present to serve in my life, not the other way around. I understand each slave has desires, but they should not rule him, and they will never rule me.
12/28/2008 1:28:57 PM
I seek those who are within a reasonable distance of me. Those outside the areas of southern California, Arizona and Nevada need to think legistically about how much time, money, and energy it would take to know one another well enough to enter into a full time, live-in arrangement.

I seek one(s) who are able to make a difference in my real time life, as I will be doing in theirs.
12/27/2008 6:28:52 PM
There are logistics involved when approaching the subject of relocation. Someone who is greatly in debt is not a prime candidate for relocation unless of course they have an income that follows them and covers the expenses of what they owe. I prefer a slave who owns nothing and has no debt to one that offers me the world on a silver platter, but expects me to help pay for it.
 
The one who serves me is expected to support himself financially. Have a plan, an open mind, low or no debt, and be willing to work outside the house. These are things that honor me.
 
In addition to providing me with endless exquisite services behind closed doors, and in small groups of my choosing, the man I own will be expected to be a perfect gentleman in public, always looking out for my well being. His devotion to me does not stop simply because we are interacting in a vanilla world. There are ways to keep the dynamic alive in even the most conservative settings, with hell to pay should he step out of integrity with me, or with himself.
 
I don't care if you are attractive, or mediocre at best. Vanity has no place in surrender, and I am quick to annihilate any form of it in you.

I do not care if you are overweight, so long as you are basically healthy. I could care less if you are losing your hair, your ability to maintain an erection, or if you smoke tobacco. I will reinvent you as I see fit.
 
It does not matter to me if you have served others in the past, I don't care if you have no experience at all, so long as you are real, present an open mind, and willingness to learn and endure my ways.
 
I am not a stupid woman, nor am I desperate. I prefer to take my time getting to know a potential slave, as anything less spells disaster. I will hold out for as long as I need to, to be sure the one who offers himself to me is committed to becomming all that I require. 

Introductions should begin by telling me why and how you are a prime candidate to relocate, should the opportunity arise for you to serve a very demanding Mistress.

I will be checking my emails here on a regular basis.
12/27/2008 5:35:52 PM
This email was waiting for me when I logged on today. Unfortunately it was dated several months ago, and the account is no longer valid, but this is a prime example of someone who would interest me:

There was a time when I was a bottom and then a “pure” submissive.  At this point I am an eager slave who can’t see serving any other way.  I am not as active as I used to be with public play and groups, etc.  It still interests me but what is of more interest to me is being a prized, owned object serving in the interest of one Dominant Woman.

My belief system is that of service.  I truly enjoy serving and pleasing no matter the tasks.  I expect my life to be a challenge.  I do not seek an easy path to get what I want out of the lifestyle because providing what you want is of greater importance,  What I have found to be the core of the thrill of this arrangement is knowing I am owned.  This can't be a superficial situation such as a pro session for an hour or a Domme who is looking to use a person for short term purposes.  What I seek is an authentic exchange of power, of emotion where my surrender is accepted and appreciated to the extent that it reveals itself through every day situations. This is where the intensity builds and we can share the experience. I am enslaved to your will more so than through the kink though of course, I cannot deny the physical interaction to be stimulating as well, whatever it is that thrills you, I will enjoy.  I have been called a no limit slave in the past.  I guess every situation is different so we’ll have to discuss your expectations in this regard.

While I realize 24/7 has limitations, the mindset of my owner is more advanced than most Dommes.  She has thought through how she expects her property to behave and is willing to train him accordingly.  I expect to stumble a bit since being a perfect fit as a slave is usually a long shot.  My intentions are genuine and I will grow to be the slave you expect from me. 

I have an easy going personality with opinions if it is within your interest to have me as interactive.  This varies once a relationship is established.  If you already have a partner, then the choice is obvious.  As a slave, I never expect sexual interaction or intimacy.  If it is a choice of yours to use your slave sexually, then I will fulfill this with energy and enthusiasm to earn your continued attentions.  I realize in my enslavement there are no choices except what is given to me.  This is the situation I ultimately seek where I am part of her life as a valued asset in the manner she chooses to have me.

I have been dominated by men in the past but as part of a group scene so my bi tendencies are there, just not active.  I am very flexible in terms of learning and continuing to grow within your world.

 


I can easily relocate and will take steps toward that goal if things click.

1/14/2007 12:36:13 PM
News Flash:
If all you can manage is a one line introduction, rest assured, we are not a match.

If all you can manage is a one line response to questions about yourself, you do not want to serve a woman like me.

If you answer only the questions you like, and ignore my other questions, you will never last with me. I will be ignoring anything else you have to say. Don't bother me.
1/10/2007 6:14:26 PM
If you think your sexual orientation is straight you need not apply. To serve me your sexual orientation is mine,  you will be serving whomever I chose regardless of their gender or what used to be "your" preferences.
1/10/2007 6:08:03 PM
Do not waste my time asking where I am located. It does not matter where I am, as I only seek those who are able to relocate. If there is something holding you to a specific region, you are not 100% available for service, and I accept nothing less.
10/4/2005 4:23:27 PM

Let me tell you what really happened when I had a root canal gone sideways so many months ago...

My mailbox was full of offers from would be slaves. I was already speaking to two or three when my tooth became infected.

One of boys I was speaking with showed an uncommon concern for my well being, and took the initiative to let me know he wanted to take care of me while I was indisposed. I prefered to wait, but his offers were sincere, kind, and he was so willing, that after we had talked for a few days, I trusted him with my address. 

For the next 10 evenings dinner arrived at my home, from a nearby resturant. Nothing extravagant, mostly soups and breads, as I could not eat much.

The most remarkable thing was that not once did this slave attempt to use his generosity as leverage to meet me. He made it perfectly clear that his only wish was to serve.

Of course we met. He ended his service to me almost a year later to the day, due to a family tragedy that required him. Much to his surprise I returned most of his previous belongings. There were some things he insisted I keep. We still talk. He may return to me someday, he may never return to me. Time will tell.

I post this as an example of how to set yourself apart from the crowd. Watch for an opportunity. Hear what a Mistress needs. Fill the gap.

9/21/2005 7:31:48 PM

Some of you are confused..... Let me try this again...��In time you will adore me, you may even find to your amazement that you love me, but this will never be a romance!
You will not wine and dine me. You will not bring me presents, you will not hand me your credit card, nor take me shopping, unless it is to drive my car�and carry my bags.�

My interactions with a slave are not about money. For me the interactions are about power. You need to be employed because I am not going to support you.

After careful consideration on both our parts, the one who serves me�will�give to me all that he owns.�It is only then that he can�begin to give me what I really want, his purest gift, all he has left to offer:�his person, his service, his adoration, his sexuality, his humiliation, his desire to please me, his gratitude, and his selflessness. This is a good place for a boy to begin.
After intense training, agonies beyond words, and�unprecedented loyalty, he may earn a permanent mark of ownership, but this will never be a ring of gold around his finger, trust me on this!!!