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LilNaughtyOne
Hello All my wonderful friends, fellow Dommes, and beloved, selected Subs.... I guess a profile should say "I am this and that and I am looking for this or that"....sorry, not a chance. I am engaged, and I have found the perfect man to have everything I wanted come from him. However, I can have friends, thet can be also Male or Female subs, just as I can normally have Domme friends, but I definetly can´t be around a male Dom, a morbid male bottom just looking for cyber, etc., to me, the lifestyle became a life choice and me and my fiancée will enjoy it to the most, but 2 is already enough so please don´t message me looking for cyber, or a platonic relationship. I hope you can all one day be able to do the same, by finding that special someone which makes everyone else redundant and obsolete so that you can share a life of joy, love and a lot of playing.....it´s a lifestyle, not just a simple style.

1/22/2011 8:42:43 AM

Well, it has been a while, hasn´t it? I am back, new energy in me, new perspectives, basking in the blissful light of my relationship.......marriage in on the horizon ladies and gentlemen........date is set for August 20th of this year!!!!.....truly a new path in life with a wonderful man who is expanding his own limits for me, and who just gave me a great Xmas and a beautiful season of love and joy....I wish to tell you all how much I pray for everyone to have the same chance to get lucky in life and find a significant one to love, to hold and to enjoy in all ways....as I am doing. Hope you all can find happiness one day, sooner than later, from the bottom of my heart.


7/2/2010 12:00:39 AM
I am now having a good laugh.....

Someone in collarme posted a blog about me being a fake and needing to be blocked....now that is a funny one considering I ignore 99% of my mail and don't go looking for friends.

But I guess one of the pervs out there didn't like my reply to his dirty mail and well, I admit I may not be too gentle to do so, but I reply to them with honesty when I say they are definetly not a person I'd like to talk to.

Anyways, I surely appreciate all my friend's mails and all the chatters conversation when into the chatrooms here, so the perv who started this, is going to get his due.....

5/31/2010 2:12:37 PM
Hello world !!!! How's it going ? I am so happy these days...I just uploaded a pic, one of three from my visit to my pet's country...Colombia...and yes, great coffee, I was in the middle of the region that produces this awesome grain and blend, and yes, brought back a sack or two...hell of a time at customs, LOL....

I enjoyed much the way my pet makes a sacrifice to offer me his efforts, his thoughts...I drank a cup of coffee that he himslf helped make, from the fact he did carry a sack on his back, without his shirt, letting me see him break a sweat and break his abck for my delight, to bring the grains out of the "toaster" (that's the word they use for it ?) and then putting the grains in the machine and making me a cup....delicious, not to mention drinking it with him at my feet, as the resting foot stool with my muddy boots on him to lick clean, of course, in a cautious way so as to not be seen....

I enjoyed my visit..work as always is hard, but these moments help me endure and enjoy, and it's funny to see the election process in his country, how politics change and yet remain the same from one country to another, and well, it was fun.

I shall have more to share, but for now, enjoying the best in life, I must stop and thank the Universe for my friends: rgdexile, renaessance, mai_puppy, MzChievius, bootdegrade, chaostheory72 and all those who make this place a wonderful haven from the "sane" vanilal world....

4/1/2010 8:51:34 AM
Life is, as always good. I am blessed with a great slave as dastan, soon to be my husband, and well, things do get going at my job, and I travel...so I can't complain for myself....

Now, it's the Holy Week, I am with family and friends and I have to say thanks...count my easter eggs and be grateful for them...

First and foremost, my little treasure, dastan...my own fabergé this easter..LOL...next comes bootdegrade...I'd recommend his journal to anyone who wants to read an smart piece of BDSM philosophy and psychology, it's a great read by a great slave....ladies, I'd advice you to meet hi, he's quite the precious and rage gem...

Another one of those is rgdexile...a true gentleman sub, and a friend who shares my passion for riding and antiques, and very very cultured....a sub that I don't know how he remains free without a collar on his neck...I guess us dommes must be slipping....

Now, for the italian example..PaoloRossi is a great sub and well, ciao paolo, va bene, tuo e une shciavo molto preciosso, ehh? I love meeting people from different cultures and seeing how people can be a treasure to their culture and country. ..Bona Suerte...

As for other gentlemen subs...chaostheory72, a kind and decent man who help battered women and defends them against their abusers. Now this is a champion of women, a defender, and truth is, I'd wish to have him under my collar, but he remains true to his passion and his ideals, and waiting still for the Mistress he once and will always love, but yet, a great friend to have for all the ladies out there in need of a nice friend to trust and share with....maybe you can be that Mistress

I can't forget about the newest additions...rachelservant is a great new find, a truly interesting, complex and noble person who has very interesting things to say and to share and who can definetly call herself a gcredit to her gender party....

And a new addition, hot off the mold...Cullen18, a very smart, snappy and impetuos sub who definetly could use a Domme able to ride the lightning.....any takers sure will have a fun ride, but then again, beig able to brag about having the best horse is also being ready to have a little rodeo to earn the right to sit on the saddle.


Without anything else, I now address the side of the Dommes....thanks for meeting BeeQueen and MsLis, and also MsMeow, MzChievius and MsSylvara and the other wonderful dommes from my favorite chatroom, Subs_for_dommes, who are endless sources of wisdom. I must take a moment now to thank MzChievius especially, for being such a great friend and confidante, a diamond in the crown of femdom..

A special one for Ilyana, the wife and Mistress of my dear bootdegrade, who left teh site but lefta  great impression, and also, to my friend, Mistranss Sadia, a tgirl who definetly mirrors my sadistic desires as well as my dear evil twin, LadyXcrutia, who I also thank for sharing so many recipes from the femdom cookbook of torture....

Without further ado..

Happy Easter everybody !!!!

3/9/2010 10:38:08 AM

I am sooo proud....

My slave dastan is going to be a juror this weekend, they have elections in his country and he's got to be one of the juries at the voting stand, helping democracy in a place so afflicted with violence, oppression, corruption and poverty as his country is.

I feel a type of pride that comes from seeing him take it very seriously, making an effort to perform a civic duty to the best of his abilities. It's so cute......

Now, for the fun part.....I attended to a party and well, although i kept my promise to my little pet to not play with others, I didn't say I couldn't watch and give ideas, be a backseat driver and tutor someone, or more likely just annoy her until she obeyed, to torture the sub as I would like to see it done...

What a rush !!! After 20 minutes of using a sensory deprivation helmet, completely out of it, total isolation, he began begging, breathing hard, squirming like a worm on the bottom of a glass of water....and then the fun began..

I never thought I'd get a rush out of seeing the disorientation, the hallucinations and the fear in his eyes, voice, and gestures, it was as if he had woken up froma  dream to a nightmare, all done safely, but what a feeling...to control him, steer him, and yet play with him and slowly bring him back to his own self, it was amazing, becoming the light that guides him to the end of the tunnel, a brgiht and warm light, that uses play to bring him back out of the dark hole he fell in....

I know it's dangerous, but it was done RACK, maybe not much of an SSC but it was fun, and ended well. The mind is such an amazing field, and I know so being a professional in it, but these new experiences opened a door for me which I shall now push open a little bit more to peek in a new dark and fun corner of the lifestyle...


2/15/2010 9:44:56 AM
Life's full of little surprises...

I am sooo happy today. I have been 48 hours in Panama and I have my pet with me !! It's ice to have my slave around, enjoy him and have him make my stay as good as possible, his service, his adoration and worship....

I do have to thank someone who was very special to him and me, and who helped get things going...

MzChievius, this is for you....an exceptionally talented, special Domme and a great human being. Your friends are lucky, and I envy them for knowing you for so long when I am just a new friend...thanks for the help, you are adorable, not to mention the living embodiment of the expression "brains and beauty" because you are definetly a great Domme, a great person and a beautiful mind and heart to help us all in the lifestyle....

Also, kudos to MistressMonroeCT a new friend here who has been a lot of fun and whom I admire, and also, LadyXcrutia, who makes me feel as if I found a Sadistic twin sister....

Also, it's odd that I find rare specimens such as my pet dastan, but I did. Besides Renaessance, who's a great find as a diamond hidden in the coal, I have bootdegrade, ponybody75, rdgexile and greenhornmaso, I must also compliment chaostheory72 for being a great man who is a pro-women activist helping battered women, a true gentleman and a knight in shinign armor to defend them....


Well, it's all for now, but I always will be around so if yuo are an smart, gentleman sub or a domme wishing to make friends.....look me up in chat, i am always in "subs for dommes" or the message boards, in case I partake in one. Reply to my words, give me an honest opinion and then I'll let you PM me and maybe be friends.

2/3/2010 3:15:05 PM
Maybe, maybe, just maybe, it's the font size, the colours, the background....somehow people seem to miss something...

!!!!!  DO NOT WRITE ME A MESSAGE IF I DIDN'T WROTE YOU ONE FIRST SAYING I WANTED A REPLY...!!!!!!

If, only IF you are a Female or Trans Dominant, then YOU will be ok and then you CAN write to Me.....

Some people have contacted me, appropiately, and I have to be grateful for I have found great subs, smart, caring, decent, honest, and above all, capable of being a full-fledge human being, not a fetish bot with a sexual drive similar to a monkey, but instead, they have been gentlemen, and ladies, who have made me happy to have joined here...

So, time for some recognition: Dastan, my pet, thank you for having me join the site....you are a great friend, and thanks...and yes, you are my #1, but don't let it get to yuor head, you are also #1 in my "To Do" list when torture is in my mind.....the bad part is you can't be broken and I do want to have someone with a limit....but you are cute, even underneath the macho badboy fighter bs...

Also, rdgexile.... you are a great gentleman of old traditions and I do enjoy your intellect and expertise on some affairs I like outside BDSM, I can't believe you are not taken by anyone here, and truth is, you do deserve a top class Domina in your life......

Ponyboy75... what an amazing body, and oh my God, it's not photoshop or stolen pics, it's real  and comes with an attitude and a brain too..what a nice pet. I don't really care about looks as long as you don't look messy, but you are not how you look, truth is, it's your personality what makes you interesting and I am still thinking you muust be a regular ProDomme magnet with such a charm....

Bootdegrade...charming little sub, a real special person witha  heart of gold. I'd feel wrong, guilty and sad after whipping you as I lvoe to do, but I'd feel guiltier if I didn't give you all I can because you are an special person...wait and life shall reward you...you do deserve it as you are a great man...

MsChaste....charming little transub, a true flower amidst the weeds, and a person of great respect and education...truly, the type of slave you'd presume off as if you'd have hired a butler from Buckingham palace....

I am also in debt with other persons at the chatrooms who pointed me out a little and with whom I chatted nicely...thanks to you, You know who you are...and hit me for chat whenever on a room, it's ok.

1/31/2010 9:28:33 AM
Certainly, it's nice to have a journal section on a profile...

I must say that although I am new to the site, I've been long enough in the lifestyle to have been in many scenes and yes, I was a Pro Mistress, and that chapter of my life, even now, almost 3 years after retiring, amazes me yet as I am still surprised, in a positive way, by the people and events which I came across in such period.

Today, I ran across a very special customer I used to have. One great masochist, very strong willed, stubborn and a little defiant you might say, but gentle, and polite, very well educated and cultured, a true gentleman as a smooth and sincere character who had it all to be his own version of a James Bond, charming and strong, but preferred to serve me as a faithful butler to the Queen at Buckingham Palace...and a good person to boot.

I met him when he came looking for a session with his confidence shot to pieces by a woman whom I think was not misguided or inexperienced, as he may try to forgive and excuse her even today, but a lying and manipulating harpy which totally wrecked his own confidence in people and himself.

Our sessions were cathartic as the aftercare served to let him vent out, unwind, and I managed to simply point out to him some things, give some opinions, and a humble advise. Yes, a Domme can be humble, and I recommended him with a Kink-Aware Professional who helped him see what a wonderful person he is now.

Today, my surprise was that he married a girl I know to be a Domme, a good one, mature, responsable, caring. As happy as he was to see me, even incapable of stopping himself from giving me a hug, a tender one by the way, he didn't take his attention off of her and I loved to see how much into her he is, after almost 2 years of marriage, going strong, with a beautiful baby boy and very much in love.

He told me our sessions helped him a lot to find her, as the therapy helped to regain his self-confidence. I truly loved to hear it, to know one can mke a difference. That as Pro Dommes, as a former one myself, we can help a person strive to become better, and also believe in their own capacity and build their confidence and give them hope, and the momentum that comes with our confidence as motivators to achieve something, to better themselves and change for the best.

Truly, a good reason to come back home, enjoy a glass of wine and relax...being a Pro Domme is amazing..think how much good you can do for those at the other end of the whip...

UrSpankerisReady
 
 Age: 20
 Burlington, Vermont